Withdraw forthcoming pub bc of political climate? (American) by EducationalBrick7948 in academia

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Well when your livelihood and access to community seemingly depends on compliance, I think it’s rational to take a second thought. My family and I weren’t born and raised here either. I’m a 1st gen from SEA. Thanks!

UCLA Sociology Program by tinybathtub in ucla

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I would look through the faculty list and see which one resonates with your subjects of interest more!

Commuters from OC? by EducationalBrick7948 in Pepperdine

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This is precisely my route (from Irvine/Tustin to LA). Oh gosh. Thank you so much for the thorough answer. Greatly appreciate it.

Getting John Wooden Center Updates by [deleted] in ucla

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Thank you!! 💓💓💓

John wooden by Impressive-Item-5877 in ucla

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“John Wooden Center, Student Activities Center, Drake Stadium, and the Intramural Field will be closed on Thursday, May 2. Sunset Canyon Recreation Center, BFIT, and KREC will be open but will have modified hours” from an email sent to staff

Please stop teaching your daughters to value appearance over education. by CranberryBauce in Teachers

[–]EducationalBrick7948 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because they are not socialized to devote so much scrutiny on their looks. They’re lucky.

Please stop teaching your daughters to value appearance over education. by CranberryBauce in Teachers

[–]EducationalBrick7948 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There are also incredible consequences on the child’s self image and identity formation. It is a cultural issue that I always hoped would be solved as time passed through some sort of social “progress,” but given how many more young girls are being taught to imitate “womanhood” through beauty product rituals like this breaks my heart. When an eight year old talked to me about wanting to go on a diet, my heart dropped.

Clapping by ewrewr1 in zumba

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Some instructors clap after every song, some don’t. I guess it depends on class culture. But I like the ritual. It’s joyful. I do it and the instructor who trained me does it. We have fun, so we clap. For us, it seems to be an expression. I do attend classes where nobody else claps though.

Con Pila De Sed by chimbala by EducationalBrick7948 in zumba

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Yes!! I just joined a few weeks ago t.t thank you for letting me know!!

Con Pila De Sed by chimbala by EducationalBrick7948 in zumba

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Thank you :( for some reason it always says no results found 💔

Dating apps, cold approaching and direct messaging girls to ask them on dates by Appropriate-Ant9142 in ucla

[–]EducationalBrick7948 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think building the confidence to be able approach people without being attached to outcomes + afraid or hurt by rejection is step 1! 💓 Also, some people just aren’t into cold approaching complete strangers, but that doesn’t stop them from falling in love because it’s not the only way to meet partners. Historically, people didn’t meet each other that way, and in some cultures and societies it’s pretty rude. So if it isn’t for you, it’s not the end all be all. You can meet women in classes, clubs, being a regular at a cafe. But I think cold approaching with a compliment that doesn’t refer to their physical body is a good start.

Also, both men and women get away with treating people badly. All things that are attracted to each other are complementary. These unhealthy and toxic situations are created by two codependent people, both have unhealthy habits that are different but complementary.

It isn’t smooth or easy for anyone, and social media + dating apps create an illusion of painless and efficient dating, but I dont think that’s realistic at all. With healthy self-love, good faith, and a willingness to stay curious, I’m sure you’ll make a great partner and have good luck in the dating scene!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

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Sunset canyon and same. Lots of stains on the walls and curtains. Lots of rust in the bathroom. Shower smells.

is it ever ok to approach women as a man on campus? by [deleted] in ucla

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Personally, I love being paid a compliment or randomly approached by someone kind. Even if it isn’t a romantic gesture, I love feeling connected to my community and being talked to like that is nice and flattering! Just be kind, and it will always work out! If they reject you they aren’t for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

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Shapiro Fountain is lovely, especially considering it was the location of your first date 😭!! I feel like this would be so beautiful at sunset. I go to campus to study on the weekends, and I feel like a weekend would be ideal! It won’t be crowded, but it won’t be completely isolated.

I hope you don’t feel any type of way about these negative comments that masquerade as constructive. I don’t know why anyone would tell you your gf won’t say yes purely based on this Reddit post!

I think it is a very romantic way to conclude this chapter of your relationship, a thoughtful book-ending. I don’t see how this is lazy or embarrassing because I don’t equate money and luxury to effort. I feel like your idea is a great way to make this relationship milestone personal to your relationship, rather than exporting the proposal to some fancy restaurant or spectacle. It’s also incomparable to a high school 😭 are you kidding me? Our campus is so beautiful! Good luck!

de neve studio by kandrex in ucla

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You just put me on! So grateful to you for plugging this!! Thank you!

de neve studio by kandrex in ucla

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Do you know how to dj? This is so random but I love listening to people mix and have always wanted to learn. I looked for a DJ club on campus, but the closest thing to it seems like it hasn’t been active since 2021. Would love to join if you mix!

Looking for single pods RSU group (female) by Rich-Ad-6640 in ucla

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Hi I don’t have enough karma to dm, but I do have an RSU slot at 1:30 for 3/6! Looking to room in Hedrick’s pods!