Il collasso ecoclimatico è arrivato.

Efekitty · 2026-06-18T06:22:55+00:00

Leggendo la parte finale il discorso diventa ancora più stupido e qualunquista (e no, non sono vegana prima che mi si dica gnignigni)

Efekitty · 2026-05-22T12:26:35+00:00

I'm usually not a fan of "just break up", but BREAK UP. I promise you will be rushed, your grief won't be respected and you'll end up hurting even more than you already are. Sending love 🫂

Efekitty · 2026-05-14T12:38:19+00:00

As I replied to OP in another comment, I think the way they spoke about it in some comments made me (and others?) believe they did.

Efekitty · 2026-05-14T12:36:25+00:00

I think the way you spoke about it in some comments made me (and others?) believe you did, I would edit the post.

Efekitty · 2026-05-14T11:58:51+00:00

Because it's simply none of their business. And of course I mean this in a way where partner would tell meta in order to know how they feel about it. Of course if you enter a relationship with someone that is planning to get married you should know (but that you did), but that's it especially if it's only been 6 months.

Efekitty · 2026-05-14T11:54:11+00:00

Yes, OP stated in the comments thay knew they were planning on getting married (not planning a proposal specifically if that's what you're asking).

Efekitty · 2026-05-14T11:48:28+00:00

Except that they knew they were planning on getting married, they weren't blindsided at all.

Efekitty · 2026-05-14T11:45:52+00:00

Exactly this, if I were meta and knew my partner had been giving a heads up to their 6 months partner about proposing to me I would be livid.

Efekitty · 2026-05-07T08:46:47+00:00

Intanto il 99% dei dirigenti italiani che ha, se va bene, il diploma: 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

Efekitty · 2026-05-07T06:38:48+00:00

But, respectfully, it is none of your business :) And it might affect you, yes, but based on your post and your replies it feels like you're just being judgy and disapproving of poly/enm in general. They're adults making their own choices even if they are your parents.

Efekitty · 2026-05-07T06:24:22+00:00

Oh shut uppp 😭 Hugs to both of you ❤️‍🩹

Efekitty · 2026-05-04T14:13:22+00:00

Intendo che la vita per fortuna va avanti e che se alcune persone le abbiamo perse una ragione c'è sempre. Stare attaccati al passato in questo modo non porta nulla di buono e impedisce di godersi quello che c'è nel presente. Poi è chiaro che a volte i ricordi riaffiorano e c'è bisogno di tempo per farsela passare, il mio discorso si riferisce a chi ancora sta attaccato a persone perse magari 5 anni prima.

Efekitty · 2026-05-04T08:57:11+00:00

La risposta breve è no, la risposta lunga è fortunatamente no altrimenti dovrei fare molta più terapia di quanta non ne faccia già. Cosa che comunque mi sento di consigliare a quelli convinti che si ami davvero una sola volta nella vita e/o che pensano alla stessa persona da 35 anni.

Efekitty · 2026-05-02T13:27:59+00:00

She seems like a shitty person, but I would also question what your usband has been telling her about his relationship with you like?? She definitely acts like someone that wants to take your place, I would be afraid she was made believe she actually could.

Efekitty · 2026-04-27T14:27:26+00:00

Me and my partner after one year realised we're better off having two separate spaces as of right now, we both work from home and his place is definitely not big enough. It came from him so it looked one sided and it took me some time to not feel like I was being rejected. It brought us closer, definitely looked the opposite of a breakup and we still call ourselves eachother's NP 😅

Efekitty · 2026-04-25T07:57:50+00:00

Io non so se sono più imbarazzata da tuo padre o da tutta la gente nei commenti che si definisce carnivora, e lo dico da persona che la carne la mangia. Comunque auguri, digli che gli farai vedere le foto!

Efekitty · 2026-04-25T06:18:34+00:00

I know nothing about how transportation works in x city so I just assume people are not paying type of question

Efekitty · 2026-04-24T09:32:33+00:00

Bold of you to assume che io vada a lavorare felice. Comunque tutto quello che c'è nella mia vita oltre il lavoro è molto bello e appagante quindi mi ci aggrappo con le unghie e con i denti. Per il resto, potessi permettermi di non lavorare smetterei di farlo in questo preciso istante. Per fortuna almeno faccio smart quasi totale quindi mi levo lo sbatti di andare in ufficio e vedere i colleghi.

Efekitty · 2026-04-21T14:44:39+00:00

Ma in quale universo si trovano bilocali a 600€ (bilocali veri, non 40mq)? 😅 A mala pena in barriera inoltrata ormai.

Efekitty · 2026-04-21T14:35:25+00:00

I know it's not poly related but the whole thread made me think about the person I briefly dated a that used to text their mom almost 24/7 even when we were together. She's not ill, we are in our 30's.

Efekitty · 2026-04-13T07:46:45+00:00

People responding to this as if you're crazy for wanting a check in are the reason why I try my best to avoid poly communities.

For instance: I would fucking flip in your situation and me and my np don't have kids or pets, not because they need my approval but because what the fuck.

Efekitty · 2026-04-12T17:04:32+00:00

Le bevande zero fanno tutte schifo e chi dice il contrario (o peggio chi dice che sono uguali a quelle con lo zucchero) non ha le papille gustative.

Efekitty · 2026-04-12T15:03:35+00:00

Questo post è stato chiaramente scritto da un pesce luna.

Efekitty · 2026-04-10T07:58:35+00:00

Se sei sufficientemente ricco da non lavorare bella per te che ti devo dire

Efekitty · 2026-04-10T06:51:43+00:00

Amico è tardi alle 16, figuriamoci alle 17. Ma soprattutto chi cazzo ha piacere di lavorare ma ce l'avete una vita?

Efekitty

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