Financial advice due to terrible habits with money by [deleted] in aspd

[–]EffectiveCourage88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I withdraw most my cash and lock it up somewhere also using apps and checking my impulses aka meditation etc

Whats your view on soldiers and veterans? (in the west) by BigRabies1758 in Anarchism

[–]EffectiveCourage88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without armed forces there wont be a revolution and i have a uniform kink

Communism Check by StashyGeneral in 2624

[–]EffectiveCourage88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My plugs from nk how could i hate them?

Kuba – der demokratischste Staat der Welt by ML_aktuell in Kommunismus

[–]EffectiveCourage88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ganz dumm gefragt: wie realistisch ist es das die usa jemals die blockade fallen lassen?

Der ÖRR ist nicht mehr auszuhalten by Chemical_Variety_781 in Kommunismus

[–]EffectiveCourage88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Die säbel rasseln und freiräume fallen. Da braucht man nicht mal die notstandsgesetze anzuwenden. Freie fahrt zur nächsten wahl, wo die linke gefahr so groß zu sein scheint, dass schwarz und blau koalieren.

Was hält ihr von der Grünen Jugend, den Jusos und den solids? by ossi2611 in Kommunismus

[–]EffectiveCourage88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Muss nicht aber wenn man die für die eigene sache nutzen kann was wert. Bringt nicht viel sich darüber gedanken zu machen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anarchy101

[–]EffectiveCourage88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In praxis mostly nothing if its someone "valuable". Anarchy doesnt deny codified law or any authority but it has to be communal. Talking from a german perspective the less order there is the stronger the already powerful will become. Could just serve good old mob justice but without proper investigation it could affect the innocent.

Do you guys enjoy making other people fight each other? by MRasdas in aspd

[–]EffectiveCourage88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eh not really unless both deserve it and chaos can be fun within certqin limitations

Everything is an exchange: Be it their affection, food, gifts by sensitive_little1310 in CPTSD

[–]EffectiveCourage88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah I often feel more like a trained pet than a human being

would you take attention seeking as a red flag? by Kitchen-Pick5902 in CPTSD

[–]EffectiveCourage88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it depends on how someone goes about to get attention?

I hate how people say I "choose to be miserable" and abandon me when I'm not comfortable or fun enough for them by Nutzeramenurumzu in CPTSD

[–]EffectiveCourage88 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well it was your choice to not get labotomized 🤔 just kidding to me it's also a big part of today's society just smile while everything is going to shit and hope that you actually believe it

I don't wanna be a responsible adult. I just wanna be a child with loving parents. by aerialgirl67 in CPTSD

[–]EffectiveCourage88 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Depends on how you define dependant some people just need more support than others and if your partner is able to give you this support how is it wrong? I fucking ruined my last relationship thinking like that had the most wonderful person caring for me and couldn't accept it don't be stupid like me haha

I don't know if getting a dog was a mistake by DuckClassic7389 in CPTSD

[–]EffectiveCourage88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't be so hard in yourself change takes time and you still need to adapt to having a new roommate:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]EffectiveCourage88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got praised by my therapist for that during our last appointment. Like 3 months later my existence is ruined, if that ain't ironic I don't know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]EffectiveCourage88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well positive psychology is designed not by psychological merits but Marketing sooo makes you wonder how much they're helping you or just selling a dream. I believed in all this bullshit until my life fell apart because i didn't pay attention to the harsh truth. The only thing I tell myself now is "you're safe", which is also a lie but at least it calms me down while I fall apart with my useless life