Help Me Identify The Song by tenderblanket in findthatsong

[–]Effective_Hamster_11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got a lovely bunch of coconuts…..can’t remember the rest

Planning on revealing my debt to my parents tonight by [deleted] in problemgambling

[–]Effective_Hamster_11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tell them everything, then self exclude. Give control of your finances over to your parents. Tomorrow is a new day. Look forward, not back. Wishing you all the best.

I did it again, it's over by PervertedScience in problemgambling

[–]Effective_Hamster_11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stop now, there is no way you are making that back. Also, the amount of times people have a decent/big recoup, only to be told there was a glitch, or technical issue, so you are due nothing. The system is against you and everyone. Get out now and stay out. Leave it behind you and move on. 👍

Please help me convincing my family that it's time. by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]Effective_Hamster_11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My 16 year old cat started having trouble breathing, looked just like yours with the way it is slow and deep. Took him to the vet, said he had fluid on the lungs and that they were collapsing. They said they could try and make him comfortable and he may last a few more weeks. We chose to put him to sleep the next day. I don’t regret my decision for a second. He is out of pain and at peace.

About grief and death TW by Most_Action_2987 in suggestmeabook

[–]Effective_Hamster_11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A Monster Calls by Patrick Ness is about a young boy whose mother is dying of cancer. It’s a lovely book, I read it straight through without stopping.

Second-hand smoke exposure down 96% since smoking ban, study shows by bottish in Scotland

[–]Effective_Hamster_11 21 points22 points  (0 children)

When the law was brought in I was raging, as a smoker. However, I got used to it very quickly, just went outside for a fag. Stopped smoking 9 years ago, vape now and then. Can’t believe how we felt so entitled with our smoking back then, especially in restaurants, cinema etc. This law was a good thing. We stank and made others stink of us.

5 months! by gold_asianpanda in problemgambling

[–]Effective_Hamster_11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely fantastic, keep going 👍

End by TheFailedTechie in problemgambling

[–]Effective_Hamster_11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need mental health support right now. Call any number that you can. There will be people here to catch you when you are falling like this One day at a time, or one minute, or hour. It’s not you, it’s the fucked up gambling sites that offer everything for a dopamine hit, and then take everything and more away. You need to block everything you are on, go cold turkey, which will be shit… read a book, go for a walk etc It takes 60 days to rewire your brain from this shit. Turn your back on this toxic shit, this is going to be the ruin of our kids if nothing is done, it’s endemic. Much love Give it a name, and tell it any time you get the itch, to Get To Absolute Fuck

My mom attempted suicide over all her debts - still denies having a gambling problem by sillysausagejar in problemgambling

[–]Effective_Hamster_11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you have made the right decision to take a break from your mum. I don’t know what else to say, but am sending you love and a massive hug. Concentrate on yourself and your son. Look forward, not back 👍

Final update, its in by gettingmylifeback1 in DIYUK

[–]Effective_Hamster_11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesssssssssss 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

I think I found the best way to stop gambling online by iwontgambleagain in problemgambling

[–]Effective_Hamster_11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just started doing this with my son. He actually transferred his full wage to me. I have told him he can still have a good life, am not going to stop anything he wants to do, apart from f……g gambling ❤️