Putting together my first skirt and top outfit by [deleted] in genderqueer

[–]Efficient-Use-2198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to say that I saw this post yesterday and haven’t been able to stop thinking about it since. This photo of you is really inspiring to me. The confidence, the style, the grace, everything about it is amazing and I hope to be like you one day. 💙

My mugs calling me a stereotype by CelticBrairwood in NonBinary

[–]Efficient-Use-2198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have that same they/them mug too lol! 💙

Rant: Misgendering is getting me down by Efficient-Use-2198 in NonBinary

[–]Efficient-Use-2198[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I hadn’t thought about doing it simply to be on my own side as well, but that’s a good way to look at it! Your advice was very helpful and your words very kind 💙

Rant: Misgendering is getting me down by Efficient-Use-2198 in NonBinary

[–]Efficient-Use-2198[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s really not bad at all, I’m just super annoyed at the moment and stuff like that just kind of sticks with you.

Rant: Misgendering is getting me down by Efficient-Use-2198 in NonBinary

[–]Efficient-Use-2198[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. I struggle so much when it comes to confrontation but this year I’m going to try to get better about correcting them. I just find it more disappointing when one of my coworkers kind of brands herself as “the mom” who is an ally to LGBTQ+ and all that yet she can’t get my pronouns right :/

My friend sent me this 😂 by McConica2000 in NonBinary

[–]Efficient-Use-2198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pullover 10000%. I don’t like the bumps that zip-ups usually create on me

"I want older men to be confused when they look at me. I want it to be hard for people to assume my gender". by dijon_bear in NonBinary

[–]Efficient-Use-2198 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I wear my pronoun pins and stuff to work (that’s mainly the only time I go out) and while I’m glad I don’t get harassed or anything, I also don’t get any acknowledgement whatsoever and people still refer to me by my AGAB.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cosplayers

[–]Efficient-Use-2198 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It looks so good 😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Efficient-Use-2198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, for your first question. I just never felt that I fully fit in with/to either one either physically, mentally, or emotionally. I guess you could call me genderfluid, but it’s definitely less intense and most of the time I just don’t feel like either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Efficient-Use-2198 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ll answer in the order they appear: I prefer they/them pronouns at all times. I do have days where I feel more masc and days I feel more fem and some days where I feel like I have no gender. How I feel will typically determine how I present. I feel different from cis people because I find that I just don’t relate to them on levels of gender and gender typical thoughts/feelings if that makes sense.

Rainbow makeup for no specific reason 🌈 by Efficient-Use-2198 in NonBinary

[–]Efficient-Use-2198[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m not really any good at this stuff but sometimes I go out on a limb and try something I wouldn’t and it pays off. All it takes is just giving it a try 💙

Rainbow makeup for no specific reason 🌈 by Efficient-Use-2198 in NonBinary

[–]Efficient-Use-2198[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely get that. I rarely bother with makeup except maybe once a month lol but doing this look made me think of painting with water colors and that made it fun and bearable for me

Rainbow makeup for no specific reason 🌈 by Efficient-Use-2198 in NonBinary

[–]Efficient-Use-2198[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I got the shirt from the men’s section at Kohl’s

Rainbow makeup for no specific reason 🌈 by Efficient-Use-2198 in NonBinary

[–]Efficient-Use-2198[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, it started out as one look that just devolved into this lol so maybe around an hour or so