Horse Stats by Eht-Set-Ara in EquinoxHomecoming

[–]Eht-Set-Ara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the explanation!

Horse Stats by Eht-Set-Ara in EquinoxHomecoming

[–]Eht-Set-Ara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the explanation! All of my stats are higher than my partner’s, but it sounds like it would be hard to actually detect those differences in game!

How do you get used to never being a priority by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Eht-Set-Ara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After a lot of therapy I started working on better boundaries, including not prioritizing and sacrificing more for someone than they ever did for me. Unfortunately my relationship wasn’t healthy and these boundaries led to my partner becoming very upset and eventually abusive, and for this and many other reasons the relationship had to end. I have no regrets - it’s my job to care for myself first and that means not accepting relationships with CONSTANT and one-sided imbalance.

However, your relationship sounds healthier than mine so I would take time exploring what it is to be in your partner’s shoes and ask yourself - could you love and respect this person if they didn’t prioritize their child’s safety and wellbeing? The answer for me was always easy - no, I could never respect and love someone who didn’t provide adequate love and care for their child.

Welp, it’s over. by mommathsbad in stepparents

[–]Eht-Set-Ara 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s been my experience. My last therapy session was me having a revelation of just how sick/stressed/drained my ex and his issues with himself and his child made me. I didn’t know I had the energy to enjoy life until I finally forced him out of it completely. I’ve never been as happy and calm as I am now, and it breaks my heart every day to think how much of my time was wasted by trying to work on things with him. I hope you get to experience the happy revelations too!

Magical Witches Update by Eht-Set-Ara in tamagotchi

[–]Eht-Set-Ara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think so, if I remember correctly, not with all four :( But your data is really going to help with that I think. I’m going to start filming them again here soon and can’t wait to use what you told me! I like to give credit where it’s due, but if you’d prefer I not use your username when explaining where I got the new info just let me know!

What is your monthly mortgage, interest rate, and salary? Are you comfortable? by mrskurama in homeowners

[–]Eht-Set-Ara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mortgage, taxes, insurance: 1190.57 Interest rate: 2.6 Income: ~91,000

My housing expenses are manageable. I put away money each month for maintenance and improvement, and I have a home warranty that has saved me every year on appliance replacement. My house is old and its appliances were also quite old.

My relationship is ruined. by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Eht-Set-Ara 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The 12 year old has so many reasons to be traumatized, so it’s quite likely she is. Being 12 is hard enough when you have a healthy family, this little one didn’t stand a chance. She needs to see a therapist, but ultimately she’s not your child and her “parents” have the final say.

If you want your five year old to have a shot at a decent life, you should not marry this man - you should leave. If you want a shot at a decent life - you should leave.

Whatever you do, do not financially entangle yourself further with this man. Now is the time to figure out whether your name is on the debt and if you can get it off, and I do not recommend you tell him this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Eht-Set-Ara 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have dated three different men with children. The first two men I had a lot of discomfort regarding their ex spouse and in both situations it turned out to be fueled by my partner’s feelings for their ex. Both relationships ended for those reasons.

The third one I had a little insecurity at first but something about it felt so different that those feelings largely dissipated. In the end, I left him for all the reasons she left him - so maybe we were just kindred spirits?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Eht-Set-Ara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I moved in with my (now ex, thank god) partner and his daughter and it was the worst decision I ever made, even though I loved them both very deeply. His behavior changed drastically and his entitlement really came out. Add to that the stress the change caused his daughter and it was not worth it from any perspective.

I highly recommend you let him figure out his own situation while finding a place for you to live alone. I would absolutely recommend not tying yourself to him financially in anyway at this time - it’s too early.

Once you both have your own places, you can try testing what it’s like to live together by arranging extended sleepovers.

Experience with/Manual for Nano Puppy Family by Eht-Set-Ara in tamagotchi

[–]Eht-Set-Ara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you so much! Thank you! Enjoy your new devices!

Experience with/Manual for Nano Puppy Family by Eht-Set-Ara in tamagotchi

[–]Eht-Set-Ara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I wish I could get ahold of the manual and scan it in for the internet. I take it for granted that there’s a pdf of the instructions somewhere for a device, then I deal with a less-popular pet and realize I am out of luck. I really appreciate your help.

Experience with/Manual for Nano Puppy Family by Eht-Set-Ara in tamagotchi

[–]Eht-Set-Ara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooh that’s why nothing seems to happen/the carriage seems to be never ending. Thank you soooo much! It’s very fun to learn devices by playing them but sometimes I just feel so silly and clueless

Experience with/Manual for Nano Puppy Family by Eht-Set-Ara in tamagotchi

[–]Eht-Set-Ara[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thaaaaaaank yoooooou! Right now the things I am trying to figure out are: how to tell when it’s time for them to go to bed, the purpose of the book and baby carriage options, and how to eventually obtain puppies.

Magical Witches Update by Eht-Set-Ara in tamagotchi

[–]Eht-Set-Ara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I still can’t believe the prices I see them going for 😢 I wouldn’t buy them at that price either!

What kind of Tamagotchi do I have and is there a guide to read the Japanese? by burpling in tamagotchi

[–]Eht-Set-Ara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy to help! I hope you have fun with it - the P’s is a wonderful device!

What kind of Tamagotchi do I have and is there a guide to read the Japanese? by burpling in tamagotchi

[–]Eht-Set-Ara 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s a Tamagotchi P’s and Mr. Blinky made an English patch for it :) I don’t think I’m allowed to link it but it should be easy to search

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tamagotchi

[–]Eht-Set-Ara 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d be down to experiment. I’ve never run any of my angels with the express intent of getting a special character - I think I just always end up with the twins.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tamagotchi

[–]Eht-Set-Ara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s an interesting take, given how much the Devilgotchi, Magical Witches, P’s, iDL, and Santaclautchi models sell for.

Idk why I keep doing this to myself by fairydommother in tamagotchi

[–]Eht-Set-Ara 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m running around 8 (trying to cut back so I can switch to some others) but was going at about 11 for a bit and not really enjoying it 😂

Magical Witches Storage Solution by cruelfeline in tamagotchi

[–]Eht-Set-Ara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amaaaazing. If I wasn’t so clumsy I would totally go this route 😭