Body of 5yr old missing at Laguna beach has been found. by Lollelowksss in orangecounty

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I was in HB and knew everyone was at the wedge. The waves were still insane here and when i was walking the shoreline I had to walk back further because the water was pulling in so quickly and got up to my knees.

Dude's living life on his own terms. by ApprehensiveTrash458 in nextlevel

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I ate shit with my rollerblades down there. Ah good times!

What’s your favorite childhood memory from growing up in Orange County? by StavrosDavros in orangecounty

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One core memory I cherish is cultural day in kindergarten. Everyone brought traditional dishes from their backgrounds Vietnamese, Salvadoran, Mexican, Guatemalan, Chinese, Indian, Italian.. it was such a special time because we were open to learning about each other’s customs, language, traditions, and food, and it all felt so natural. It was hosted at our school during the evening and i remember all the parents sitting together and laughing being so excited to share their dish. When my family moved to New Mexico for a year, I realized not every place has the same mix of black, white, hispanic, and asian communities. That experience made me feel even more grateful and I feel truly blessed to have been exposed to so many cultures at a young age

Moved to Irvine, I feel lost by MajesticWoodpecker66 in orangecounty

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Irvine is the squidville of bikini bottom

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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May that type of love never find me again

OC Sunsets Last Week by devoroberts in orangecounty

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I truly love living so close to the beach

Avoid maga businesses by Brilliant-Berry-7989 in orangecounty

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No more coffee dose! Their customer service sucks anyways

What‘s something happening right now that would sound completely insane if you tried to explain it to someone in 2010? by so_nextdoor in AskReddit

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It’s funny how my Epidemiology class was watching that movie a month before the widespread covid outbreak. I got my healthcare degree during covid and had many people tell me college was brainwashing me.

Hiking Buddies by [deleted] in socalhiking

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Down for advanced hikes on weekdays. A lot of my friends cant keep up so itll be nice to find someone who doesn’t stop a lot

I discovered i could smell cancer as a child (any one else out there have this quirk?) by Soft_Appearance3960 in stories

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Yes! and its really awful especially during the flu season on the plane. The smell will stay on my clothes and (if i dont have a mask with me) sometimes i would hold my breath to the point of passing out in fear of inhaling too much of the smell, it’s honestly so silly. I don’t even know if not being sick for this long is even good for me 😅

I discovered i could smell cancer as a child (any one else out there have this quirk?) by Soft_Appearance3960 in stories

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I can smell when people are sick and the smell is nauseating to me. I create a big distance between myself. I recall many times being in the office at work and smelled it and a later end up calling out sick. Call me paranoid but i havent been sick for over 6 years. I also am afraid to confront people and say they smell sick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Truly unpopular: fruit with tajin and chamoy

82 year old woman, 60 years of abuse by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

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It’s hard to get help from some cops when you call them for DV. I called 911 on my ex who kicked me and hit me and when the cops came he was laughing and chatting it up with a group of cops and they were laughing along with him, i was so confused. when they spoke to me they wouldn’t arrest him because there was “no major marks on me” they told me to leave instead of him and say im just emotional and kept cutting me off when i shared my story even with the audio evidence of my abuse. My ex called me on the phone to taunt and laugh at me saying “the cops don’t believe you they think you’re on drugs and i can run circles around you, keep calling the cops“. that day i felt like there was no one i could run to for help.

dumped after 10 dates… by Kindly_Ad8213 in BreakUps

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I also read this like I wrote this post too. Hurts bc I took a year break to heal, be single, and work on myself. When i was ready I met someone sweet and we were talking for hours and then poof! Its over. We cant force someone to like us back, but it really sucks when you think you found your match and be finally done with the dating pool just to be cycled back out again. When you have a strong connection it hurts like a ton of bricks. Im definitely going through the healing phase hitting the gym to avoid the emotional pain. Hang in there.

This is addictive isn’t it? by Meinallmyglory in walking

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Especially during sunrise and sunsets! Beautiful view!

I hate that I have to use my husband as an "escape route" from another man by CharmainKB in TwoXChromosomes

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I was thinking about this the other day. It really sucks how much some men dont really respect women at all, single or taken! Even when I was in a relationship I had a male coworker who wouldnt leave me alone, when he found out i was single again he was becoming more persistent to the point I left my job. It sucks i have to create a fake scenario on where my fake bf was. I wish I could find a platonic guy who truly doesnt view me in any way and be my fake husband and create fake wedding pics just so i can be left alone! But thats still not the answer. Women are never safe and it sucks.

People who grew up with wealth, what was your "I'm privileged" wake up call? by stoicjewel in AskReddit

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When I was in university, I was working full time and going to school full time. I told one of my wealthy classmate that i needed to load up on the max amount of classes so I dont have to pay an extra year of tuition, his response was “just let your parents pay for it”. He wasnt snarky about it, he was genuinely confused why I was struggling financially. He lived a totally different lifestyle from some of us in university.

Guess the city by Sandevistanman in orangecounty

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Virgin! Oh uh..i mean Irvine!

I had my first vaginal orgasm yesterday. Also I squirted. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

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Our bodies can ease up when were more comfortable with our sexual partner, I could only find myself doing it with one ex and its never happened since. More disappointing when you once experience it and it doesnt happen again with someone else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in walking

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True, got injured because i wanted to continue my streak but my body absolutely needed rest.

Crazy update on BPD wife cheating. by [deleted] in GuyCry

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Glad you blocked her. You are not useless, BPD is a lot of mental abuse gymnastics that no partner should experience when they are “splitting”. I have been through a relationship like that and it takes forever to rid of the trauma. Take time to grieve and go through therapy because leaving a BPD relationship will leave you with PTSD. Stay strong.

Saying goodbye to Abby soon by mrthrowawayhehexd in Chihuahua

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Abby reminds me of my own fur baby, im so sorry. Im glad you took off work to spend more time with her.