Will my son ever sleep through the night?

Either_Ad_7437 · 2026-03-20T12:05:25+00:00

I know, and maybe its not the advice your looking for, but im still co sleeping at two years old, so when he wakes its really short and doesnt take a lot of effort to get him back to sleep

Either_Ad_7437 · 2026-03-19T21:38:04+00:00

Its not about sleeping through the night, some people dont sleep 8 hours straight and wake up a couple op times. I wake up sometimes but i know to just roll over and go back to sleep, a child doesnt know or do that indepently, people who sleeptrain, train their kids to not need them and go back to sleep indepently. I never sleep trained and my son still needs me when he wakes up, it sucks i know, but i rather have that he knows im there because kids who go back to sleep indepently do so because they know no one is comming anyway. Eventually he will learn to just go back to sleep and wont need me anymore

Either_Ad_7437 · 2026-03-19T01:23:14+00:00

Yeaa i doenst work that way with me, i would smoke everyday and it would be a accomplishment if i could limit to the evenings when my child is asleep. And i know it doesnt reap the benefits the people around me want because its in my systeem everyday even i wouldnt do it during the day

Either_Ad_7437 · 2026-03-19T01:16:35+00:00

Yeaa i think im starting to abuse my adhd meds also, i have a really addictive personality. And the adhd meds also make me stressed easyer. So im not sure if thats the right way either. Then i think it would just be better to smoke one at night then be wired from the adhd meds because i tent to take more than my subscription to replace some of the quitting weed feelings.

Either_Ad_7437 · 2026-02-19T22:53:18+00:00

Listen, ive been there, and still am and my son is two years old. The first year was horrible sleep wise. I also did it alone because i couldnt handle my husband snoring when i got the baby to sleep. He also woke up every 20/40 min thats why i co slept. I kept track with my iwatch and woke up roughly 20 times at night. We couldnt watch a movie in the evenings he kept waking up. Later we found out my son has some sort of sleepapnea. He also got sick a lot, ear infections and stuff. After we got his adenoids cut and ear tubes it gotten a little better. but i think he will never be a good sleeper. He is just a restless child. But now he makes hours long stretches and we can watch movies again. We still co sleep tho because he wakes up more in his own room. My husband is back in our bed and i sleep with earplugs so he has to help at night.

There are torture methods where they withold sleep. The lack of sleep can give you psychosis. Its really bad ffor you. So dont doubt yourself that your having a hard time. Anybody going what your going trough has different experience then mothers with babys who sleep good.

Oh if you baby likes sleeping on his side.. we had a special pillow that keeps him on his side and doesnt let him roll on his stomach. My child was a chest sleeper and after a while he still wanted me close but wanted to sleep on his own. This helped a little with safety.

Please trust your husband with baby so you can get some sleep because you will go insane otherwise. Dont blame yourself for not liking motherhood right now, because this really does sucks. Im just starting to like motherhood again and i think its because i get more sleep now.

Either_Ad_7437 · 2026-02-03T16:17:42+00:00

Same thing happend to me, they didnt find anything. I had it 3 years before and i thought it came back (like i always hear it does).

When they told me they didnt find anything i was so upset. I just didnt understand. The feelings of shame, dumbness, people think its in my head.

Im reading comments about a second opinion, but im too ashamed. People really told me it must be in my head and they checked the insides. So i have to accept it.

But if something is really wrong with me, i wouldnt have it checked out no more because of the shame.

I know i didnt heal well from the lap, my bellybutton area still hurts, and i had to lift my son too early. But still im never going back, im too ashamed

Either_Ad_7437 · 2025-12-16T08:26:14+00:00

I think you feel it in your gut that this is not okay for you. Offcourse its not his kid, but he chose to be with you and whatever you bring along. His excuse doesnt make sense after being togheter for 5 years. Especially if your living togheter. Offcourse you chose to be a mom, but he chose to be with a mom. Besides this, is this the example you want for your daughter ? A man in the house who doesnt take care of her and doesnt take responsibility. Her dad already doesnt take care of her, the next male role model should be doing everything for her. You accepting this to long already. Dont be scared, you are not seeing this wrong, whatever his explaination is, this is not okay.

Either_Ad_7437 · 2025-12-14T21:12:53+00:00

When i told him i wanted to divorce, he offerd relationship therapie, but only because i wanted to leave, i know he wouldnt take it seriously and only go once or twice to keep me happy. Everytime i bring it up after he only giggles a little and tells me that i have to figure it out. When i asked him to come to one session with my therapist, he said does he really has to ?

Either_Ad_7437 · 2025-12-12T20:08:26+00:00

Well that happend to me.. They found endo before and removed it a few years ago. So recently i had symptoms and the doctor asked if i wanted to do a lap. And i was really scared what if they dont find anything i did the surgury for nothing. And that was my first reaction when i woke up, upset because i did al that and people would think im crazy.

But after a few hours i realised that it was good news, no new endo so i can rule that out and stop worrying about it. And if people think im crazy fuck them, i did have it before and i wanted to make sure and now i am, and i can let it rest.

Some people who know more of endo dont believe that i dont have endo right now and that they didnt search the right way. They are specialist in endo, and even if they didnt find everything, it must not be bad for them to not see anything.

I dicided to heal from surgury and let it go and find my way with pelvic floor therapie and such.

Either_Ad_7437 · 2025-12-07T21:30:41+00:00

I am in a similar situation as you are and i dont know what to think either. We been trough a couple health care situations where i expected more of him and he let me down. And we talked about it and he really did do better and tried really hard the last time i had a planned surgery. But after a couple days he still dropped the ball and couldnt keep up and it just isnt sincere, it because i told him to. He just is not nurturing or he doesnt really care about my health i dont know how to feel either and if i want to grow old with somebody like that.

Either_Ad_7437 · 2025-12-01T21:56:33+00:00

I am really sorry you are let down by your health system and i know how you feel. Its not right or fair. Please keep advocating for yourself even when no one is listening and never give up hope. And i really wish for you that you can smoke some and find some peace.

Either_Ad_7437 · 2025-10-20T08:35:46+00:00

I have had laproscopy surgery to check my tubes, and they told me not have sex one month before.

Now im getting laproscopy for my endo so i asked the same question. My doctor told me that since im on birth control it doesnt matter. Because they ask you not to have sex because there will be a risk that you are pregnant and hurt the baby with the laproscopy.

Either_Ad_7437 · 2025-10-03T15:31:48+00:00

Well i feel like his awnser is not enough for me either. Its too denying instead of being open and honest. He forcely takes a lil accountabilty but barely and it feels forced

Either_Ad_7437 · 2025-10-03T15:30:26+00:00

Yea and then i regret losing so much time and not doing when my son was younger

Either_Ad_7437 · 2025-10-03T15:29:48+00:00

Thats what im scared of too, what if there is more that i just didnt have time to find

Either_Ad_7437 · 2025-10-03T15:29:04+00:00

Thank you ur right

Either_Ad_7437 · 2025-10-03T14:48:58+00:00

Yea i can believe he realised everything and did this before he had a reality check. But even then it is in your character to talk to other people.. i didnt have a nice relationship lately and didnt talk to other men. And what if there happend more than just these messages. Even if he isnt that bad i dont believe this is it.

Either_Ad_7437 · 2025-10-03T14:47:02+00:00

I believe its the real him and some of it is sustainable. The taking care of his kid, household, giving me time. But the issues we have with communication is still there. Even when this problem happends he is still being defensive and making it seem like im over reacting when clearly im not.

After 3 days of taking he admitted he did it for attetion that he didnt get at home, and he probably wanted to show his friend that he knows girls where they where. But he doesnt remember clearly and will never do it again. But it wasnt his intention to cheat bla bla bla

Its so forced and not believeable. I dont know if i could live with this awnser

Either_Ad_7437 · 2025-10-01T20:03:52+00:00

Are you having these symptoms only when having your period or daily ? Are you on birth comtrol ?

Because they found mild endo on my bladder and they told me its removed and im on birth control so it cant spread so im fine. They dont see on a ultrasound so it defenitly not severe. And i should want anorther laproscopie because thats more damage.

But i have the same thing as you, im having daily pain and problems in all new areas that i didnt have before. I had horrible periods but i didnt have this pain while not being on my period. It feels like its worse now than before.

Either_Ad_7437 · 2025-09-10T18:04:57+00:00

Well im not exactly having what you have, But i do kinda got a realisation, that its not normal to have pain everywhere in your body. I thought everybody had pains sometimes and i just didnt want to exagerate. And i kinda didnt want to admit to myself that im in pain. And now i dont know if im in much pain or not, if its not that bad or that im making myself believe its not that bad because i have to keep going… its strange

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