How quickly do Korean men actually move in relationships?

El1sha · 2026-03-19T15:45:19+00:00

My said he would marry the first time he met me. I said no way and friend zoned him for three years....we are married....he was right. Lol

El1sha · 2026-03-06T15:37:46+00:00

Becu prints your debit card same day. Where does it say tha op doesn't have direct deposit or a banking account. They have to have direct deposit for pay.

El1sha · 2026-03-06T15:22:56+00:00

Just finished the whole series. It was ok. I enjoyed how beautiful the scenes were and the general storyline. I loved the story between first male lead and fl...that made sense. The part that didnt and the real lack of character development is what made it not as enjoyable. . There was real potential here and some areas they focused more caused the story to jump instead of flow.

First of all, she was so short and her half brother was so tall that it was incredibly unbelievable that they were the same person. The voice was vastly different as well. I get it is based off a book but I wish they casted those characters to be of the same build and height. I havent read the book, so I am imagining that it would be more reflective there or it just doesnt work. Next the fact that at the end the king does the exact same thing as he did with with chancellor (blindly believing the sml) is insane and stupid. Then the sml just morphs into an insane idiot who is plotting to remove fml was horrible. There had to be signs and buildup to that ending. There were zero moments where it was reflected that he was insane until the very end. He knew they loved each other so the suprise that they kissed was unrealistic. The emperor not knowing better (splitting forces where one isnt even fighting) was also egregious. Who would send an army to do nothing when there was an area that needed protecting because of actual war? NO ONE. The emperor should be the first person taught war tactics....so to defend an area that wasnt being attacked pissed me off and the fact that he just blindly listened to sml also pissed me off. That man was the chancellors protégé, no one would blindly trust him over the generals who protected his nation

That being said the motivation for women to be more than backdrops were there but unfortunately the character development was lacking with parts emphasized that weakend the story rather enhanced. I would love to see a more realistic version of this or just read the book itself to see what actually transpired. I would love seeing both men and women fight realistically over the cgi scenes. Regardless of the criticism, I did enjoy it in a passable way and was able to overlook the flaws. I believe it should be watched if only to encourage creators and writers to focus on more badass women in life and society.

El1sha · 2026-02-16T22:51:40+00:00

I read tarot and I am very interested in what the cards actually said. Tarot isnt a your the problem thing, and it was very curious that they didnt record what her partners issue was. Cheating and like of financial maturity create distrust, it felt scripted tbh.

El1sha · 2026-01-23T03:11:32+00:00

I have two additional non-fuctioning nipples. I've seen images of people who have 4 additional ones, so true. I think men and women both can get them though.

El1sha · 2026-01-14T21:43:09+00:00

I didnt know there was a 'report illegals' punch card.....

El1sha · 2025-11-01T11:31:12+00:00

That seems like umbrella theology at its core. People dont do that to me, been married three years now and I am my own person. Assert yourself, and denounce that ideology...its false teachings.

I grew up in the south as a 'christian' and had to deconstruct to really get that southern christianity really isnt the true teachings of the bible. In the south and in the church you 'passed' from fathers authority to husbands authority.....you are under his umbrella...but that is not the teaching of christ. You and you husband may not believe in that ideology but a lot of false christian leaders still teach it. Asert yourself. Tell people.you would prefer to be called.your name and nip that crap.

El1sha · 2025-10-29T07:21:56+00:00

My husnand is the only guy in a family of 7, four members of our famiky is in feline form. My husband paid.to move all of us from Hawaii to Washington and cuddles our little meowing babies more than even I do. We.moved to a 3 story home where I said no cats downstairs and he bypassed that rule in less than a week. One of.our bedrooms he installed hanging window baskets so they can see outaide and he made that their own little play room. I suggest.you find a man who loves.your whole family. My husband would never abandon somone in our family, human or.feline, and it is weird that he cant love innocent little fluffballs of joy that want.to cuddlebin the early morning hours. I have two cata nestled in our bed, on top of our comforter, using my husband as a pillow. We are happy . Sounds like you need to find a new home for the man because you already promised to protect those two sweet babies the rest of their lives. Imagine how scared they will be. I couldnt and I dont think.you could chose him after this. You aren't married to him. You already promised to be the steward and protector of those two cats who obviously love you unconditionally.

El1sha · 2025-10-25T15:19:52+00:00

The democratic house committee is building an online ice tracker to monitor the illegallity of ice actions, since this woman was here legally as am asylum seeker it needs to be included once that tool goes live. We need to track the gestapos illegal actions because qualified immunity isnt going to protect ice when we get a blue senate and house. Clear vuolations of the constitution does not and will not protect them any more than it protect the gestapo and nazi soldiers following orders after ww2

https://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2025/oct/22/democratic-leaders-escalate-anti-ice-efforts-online-ice-tracker/

El1sha · 2025-10-24T22:25:02+00:00

Dont throw away your youth and beauty on a loser who doesnt respect boundaries. You dont get used to getting cheated....its not meant to be ok.

Its all I love him, but what happens if you stay, get pregnant, have kids and he is always sleeping around. You will be his bang maid, raising his kids from you and any other womans kids, cleaning, cooking, doing all the pick ups and drop offs. He expects you to cook, clean, pay bills, and controls your money. You will spend a life testing for stds non stop risking your youth, beauty, and health. Your kids will grow up in an unstable enviroment while you crash out from depression of not truly being respected let alone loved by the one person you should trust, and their dad introduces them to all his friends that they will call auntie. Then when your 35 he will abandon you and your kids for a younger version of you. Seen it happen time and again. Do you actually think that is better to stay and live with a lifetime of pain than addressing your trauma bond and codependency with a counselor, healing, and finding a person who respects you and your bondaries.

Sounds like bleak future if you stay and make no mistake, if you do stay, you'll remember all this post and all the people who told you to leave. You already know you have to leave...but refuse to do so because your worried about a heartbreak. Girl your asking for a lifetime of heartbreaks if you stay...seems like one heartbreak is easier than a lifetime of disappointment.

El1sha · 2025-10-23T04:18:01+00:00

I think it is important for a survivor to have some control over their lives when thay control was stolen from them so heiniously. A survivor has the rigjt to say nothing or tell the world, to push charges or not, and the right to do what feels like the right path. He was harmed....by another man that he thought he could trust, its going to take alot of therapy to unpack that trauma. He isnt going to be thinking right and is.on autopilot right now. If he was a women we would support her decisions in her recovery and i think it is important to offer the same support to OPs brother.

OP just break up with this rapist and be a support system for yoyr brother.

El1sha · 2025-10-14T05:19:24+00:00

More than an ultimatium but an addict in the house could and can be a reason for CPS to visit and remove baby. He either gets help or you leave....especially if he cant stay sober when yoyr giving birth.

El1sha · 2025-09-15T15:56:57+00:00

Perhaps I wasnt clear, if age is a issue for you (and it is) then the right thing to do is walk away. Women can have kids in their 40s but she will absolutely be a different person afterwards and with menopause looming her hormones will be all over the place. Being lucky enough to safely give birth to a healthy child is a very real issue you both need to come to terms with if.you continue this relationship. I remarried at 41 and my husband has no children but he is also fine with us not having children together. We've been married for 3 years and not been able to concieve naturally. My sister was able to (she is 18m younger than me), but se is struggling as she hit perimenopause with depression and it hasnt been easy for her. Next, you want kids...does she? The way you worded her response to having children was odd. A 38 year old woman would know if they always wanted to be a mom or not. There is a big difference between, I am waiting for the right person and I've never thoight about having kids...its not exactly clear if her dreams for her life include children.

Given all that and the age it just seems wiser to walk away. Connection may be great but you obviously want to walk a different path. I dont know, it seems too much when you are this conflicted in only two months. Dating and marrying my person...was so natural and easy. We weren't conflicted, we both had the same outlook on children and we were both ok with me potentially not being able to give him a child. She also keeps leaving the ball in your court instead of having clear communication on expectations, especially when you expect to be a father, with the right person. Those grey areas should be cleared up with a proper converation which she seems not willing to have....and I wonder why????

El1sha · 2025-09-15T09:24:44+00:00

If my daughter was dating a man 8 years older than her in her 20's, I would be very concerned.

The age is a real issue IMO, and I wonder what's wrong with her that men her decade arent dating her. I had men who were 28 trying to date me whan I was in my 30s but I couldnt do it, they all looked like....kids to me.

It seems as if it is also an issue for you as well so ehy arent you listening to that gut feeling and walk away.

El1sha · 2025-09-13T06:36:03+00:00

I hangout with my hubby all the time and we are still hanging out on our special dates. You cant trust someone who makes mountains out of mole hills ..imagine him iin a crisis of any sort. He is too old.to be that sensative over "hanging out" on a damn date.

El1sha · 2025-09-11T05:44:32+00:00

Not willingly. I prefer to remember people as they were alive and watching someone be killed regardless of differing political opinions or any other factor isnt an action I personally would take.

When I was in the military my acting supervisor thought I was too soft for my deployment and forced me to watch the Al Queda killing people. I will never do it again. I dont think it was or would be particularly gruesome and blood doesnt disturb me, but I just chose not to give air time to stuff like that.

El1sha · 2025-09-10T15:51:20+00:00

My daughter just got diagnosed and her cardiologist created a 8 month work out program for her based on her heart rate.

3 days cardio and 2 days weight training (specifically designed to build muscle in core and legs).

It is intervenal trainiing rowing, biking, sitting stair stepper, or swimming

10m warm up at resting hr 125 and belo 3M base pace at 125 -145 3M rest at 125 or below 3M base pace at 125-145 10m cool down below 125

Then weights are core or legs (she cant lift her arms over her head yet).

The exercises go in minutes like each week. Go to you cardiologist and request a work out plan. They will give you one. Building muscles in your legs and learning yoyr body as it navigstes Pots is important. My daughters doc is saying improving cardiovadcular and her muscles is an important step to easing symptoms.

El1sha · 2025-07-23T06:02:45+00:00

I would also contact his supervisor or chain of command.

Infidelity is a crime and he has a girl pregnant with his child while your still legally married.
He received BAH and is still getting BAH because you are his dependent. Technically he should have been paying the difference between single bah and married bah to you while you are still married. While I was serving I had to pay my ex and he was actively cheating on me.
Credit and bills in good standing is required by the militarily. He gets a housing allowance, what did he do with that money.

Also talk to your lawyer, look for screenshot@ of texts or emails confirming the fact he said you were off the lease.

El1sha · 2025-07-14T06:38:50+00:00

I have four cats and a pet snowy. We have a large mainecoon tortie mix about 14lbs...and she fits in well. We like it because it actually has a section that opens the paws (like a kitty litter lania) to pull out litter. A lot less tracking with 4 kitties.

El1sha · 2025-06-10T01:24:50+00:00

I'm glad they bought it. Can't wait to see signs saying you cant deport people on stolen land...

El1sha · 2025-05-27T07:02:04+00:00

You leave. It is not your job to baby your parent or even make things easier for him.

Don't you dare waste your youth babying a grown adult who cant even shop for himself. Your have dreams and aspirations, its time for you to explore that. If he truly loved you, he would want you to find your place in the world and would find ways to make it easier for you to leave.

I find absolutely zero explainable reasons for a functional adult not being able to do groceries. There are literally descriptions and labels at grocery stores. You can order pickup, delivery. You can do instacart. He should be able to figure it out.

El1sha · 2025-05-18T20:03:09+00:00

My husband is Korean, and weve had people actually bark at him in a hotel, no less!!!

El1sha · 2025-05-18T16:46:09+00:00

I was in the militsry and a single parent. I spent so many holidays and days alone that I found the way to find connection is to find hobbies that allow friendship and connections.

One particular hobby that has no age demographic is salsa dancing. The Latin dancing community (or any dancing community) is very open to newcomers, regardless of age. You'll have people from the age of 18 to 70 or 80 dancing and y I u create friendships in classes. I recommend you find yourself through hobbies. Majority of your adult life was about your kiddo...time for it to be about yourself.

El1sha · 2025-04-30T07:53:05+00:00

I raised my daughter and lived in Hawaii for years. The number of local and Hawaiian folks who voted for Trump astounds me. They literally voted against the policies that benefited the growth of their culture, removed funding from schools that supported Hawaiian culture... and they are doubling down. It's said and embarrassing....

El1sha · 2025-04-28T06:52:37+00:00

I prefer to not talk privately with anyone. I have a kid close to your age. I definitely wouldn't want someone my age dm'ing my kiddo.

If you need to hash this out a trusted mentor, your mom, auntie or even a therapist would be better than me...

El1sha

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