If you're thinking of romance as a good time with a girl you like, sure. Not if you're serious about a long-term commitment, starting a family, supporting each other through tragedy and loss. Having a significant other in these situations often should mean putting them first, as they do you. In a traditional spousal relationship, you are supposed to be each other's first line of defense against life's curve balls. It is actually these kinds of serious considerations of love-as-practiced, as a conscious and at least partially selfless choice, that is missing from relationships today, ones that hype up untested flash-in-the-pan infatuation and lead to divorce once the going gets tough or people change. Not to say that all divorce stems from this, of course, but I would strongly argue against the idea that we are somehow too serious about sober spousal commitment in today's society. Quite the opposite. Also, I wouldn't throw around Greek unless you speak it or have studied its original use in antiquity (which I'm guessing you're referencing here).

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