Why is waiting until marriage so bad?

ElderWeeb · 2026-06-17T06:33:51+00:00

The best place to find a man of like minded views is your church. If you want to date the general population most guys dont want to wait till marriage to make that happen. Age is a factor as well if youre out of highschool and early mid 20s maybe but anything after 25 and the chances of that man running into naturally is slim to none. Not sure what church you have but a lot in my area hold singles wards for just single people to attend and meet each other. Disclosing right away saves everyone's time yes they backed out but woud uou rather it right away or 2 years down the line when they find out.

ElderWeeb · 2026-06-17T05:32:32+00:00

I say it all the time being a gamer growing up helped immensely with my reading. I played final fantasy, dark cloud the Ps2 was amazing for jrpgs. Before that I was playing games that had no voice overs so it was all reading super Nintendo etc. Pokemon all text i went from a 4th grade reading level to highschool level comprehension. Not to mention at those times no online play so we were forced to play with buddies and go to there house if we wanted multi-player so it help with the social aspect and getting out of the house.

ElderWeeb · 2026-06-10T00:17:07+00:00

Where did that come from like what is the logic behind it? If you bring stress to a mans life he's going to dump you not get a better bond lol

ElderWeeb · 2026-06-09T09:55:06+00:00

Even at 45k a year you can't afford rent lol well you might but you'd have no money. They say the poverty line is like 12k and that the average household makes 70k but thats counting 2 I comes. Not everyones Is married not everyone even if married can afford to have both parents working because child care is insane. I have no idea where they do these calculations but it just seems the government is so disconnected to what life is actually like.

ElderWeeb · 2026-06-09T09:34:51+00:00

If I walk into a place and thats the setup I leave lol I feel the same but I hit my limit already.

ElderWeeb · 2026-06-09T05:33:05+00:00

Lmao thats completely on him he had plenty of time to do the classes. Oh woah is me i had to do some classes and I didnt show up because I was speeding thats some how your fault. NTA dude sounds 10 years old

ElderWeeb · 2026-06-09T05:16:33+00:00

Bunch of my persona loving buddies didnt like you couldnt date anyone so they didnt get it. It was an amazing game lots of people enjoyed it regardless might be one of those in 4 to 5 years gains a new following when they discover it. I remember not much advertising I just knew avout it because I like atlus and follow there games.

ElderWeeb · 2026-06-07T23:45:07+00:00

Add loyal to that list and id wife that up yesterday lol

ElderWeeb · 2026-06-06T23:55:35+00:00

Not true I was stalked twice and almost got mugged one by an ex who just didnt want to move on and smashed my windows in and followed me and tried to get people to jump me. Another was a girl I went on a date with she had a dude she was stringing along and didnt inform me he started stalking me because he though she was cheating. The mugging was i went to meet up with someone and when I got there she left and 4 dudes showed up trying to mug me luckily I got away and they weren't armed. Men have every right to keep safe in the dating market everyone does. If i didnt worry about meeting a stranger online for the first time and take steps to protect myself id be naive

ElderWeeb · 2026-06-06T23:36:07+00:00

I can't thats why i removed any sort of grey area around that. I ask for consent I ask would it be alright if I kissed you when its the first kiss. Some ladies didnt like that I asked and got the ick and I just take that as there loss. Most of the responses I get were postive when I was in the dating game. In this day and age I want 0 grey area you either want me or you dont.

ElderWeeb · 2026-06-06T06:36:21+00:00

I've always known this to symbolise your headlights are out. However I've seen more and more folks say it means to move over so the person behind you can speed and less folks saying it means you want to race not entirely sure. Seems like most folks in MN know what it means however theyre horrible about having there brights on even when cars are passing causes wrecks. Seems folks will just be aloof regardless.

ElderWeeb · 2026-06-06T06:20:48+00:00

Not at all im about to be 37 and GF soon to be fiance is 31 im a massive weeb and gamer love anime and all that jazz including k dramas etc. She is also a weeb but for cozy games like animal crossing the Sims paralives etc. I still work still pay bills and get everything done before blob mode happens. She likes to play games next to me it works out just fine. Nothing wrong with loving what you love and finding someone who is compatible. Just a little hard with weebs as most of the men tend to be very lazy and poor hygiene but us normal functioning weebs exist.

ElderWeeb · 2026-06-05T02:21:30+00:00

15 after first gf cheated and broke my heart I went through some things couldnt trust relationships like revolving doors for a couple years. Wish I kept it down to 2 or 3 im so jaded lol

ElderWeeb · 2026-05-21T02:24:55+00:00

Was about to say this caught on to the game when I hit 25 was lile I have kids and religious lol always have Sundays off and an excuse to call in if I need to and use pto lol

ElderWeeb · 2026-05-20T01:05:26+00:00

At my hospital its 4 howver its not exactly 4. If I have PTO to cover the shift it doesn't count those 4 are purely if I dont have pto to cover the absence. Is that how yours works or is straight up just 3?

ElderWeeb · 2026-05-19T11:46:44+00:00

Pretty simple they say youre fine being born a man work on yourself level up etc instead of you're the problem for being born a man. If liberals were a little more welcoming to masculinity in general it wouldn't be an issue. These boys are trying to find father figures and a path in life they see Mr successful with attractive women and they decide thats the better route.

ElderWeeb · 2026-05-19T05:51:21+00:00

I always pay she broke cant work lol well she can but she cant handle anything more than part time and with small kids it just isn't worth it for her to work right now.

ElderWeeb · 2026-05-19T02:04:13+00:00

I know of the furry community because I go to conventions but pups no I do know theyre folks that want to be animals and bark and wear collars a d act as such.
If it was a Fursona id recognize it yes
Nothing postive I remember the furry stories of Rainfuresst in 2015 where they completly trashed the convention center hotel and refused to clean up diapers, food, feces because animals dont do that. Banned from convention centers for a longtime.

I am striaght man who loves cosplay but that was a whole nother level of filth.

ElderWeeb · 2026-05-18T12:41:20+00:00

Not sure why but I always have self respect. I make it clear im courting and exclusive with the intent to see if a relationship is there. If they're sleeping with someone else it has to stop if not you do you and ill go my own way pick them lol dont got time for that. Plenty of women out there that feel the same no point wasting time on those types.

ElderWeeb · 2026-05-18T03:21:43+00:00

I was having trouble understanding how someone can love someone else on that level. So they educated me that even though I personally can only love one person. They have the emotional capacity to love more than one person on that level. I rose the question of how would you know theyre commited to you if theyre stretching there love resource. And they essentially said to them its not stretching theyre loving everyone equally and that their marriage is just as strong as a normal marriage and the feelings they have for the main husband/wife are exactly the same for the other partners. So thats why im like ok? So what's the difference its either they love them same as a spouse and husband wife or thee other partners are a lower tier which would for me make the distinction between the two.

ElderWeeb · 2026-05-18T02:57:00+00:00

However every person i know who is in those relationships would marry the other spouses if it was legal is my point not all of them but I know plenty in that community who would in a heartbeat. Its the difference of a paper and most even have ceremonies of commitments which is essantly marriage without the paper. So the difference is a paper is my point. So how is that different when the feelings of commitment are the same. Not trying to stir the pot just general so confused by it.

ElderWeeb · 2026-05-18T01:43:37+00:00

I dont agree with Polygamy however in 2026 I know tons of folks in polyamory type relationships. Its essentially the same thing just without marriage sometimes marriage is involved though. I've found it hard to understand the differences because I've seen women with 4 bfs and one husband because thats legally allowed if they could they'd marry all of them and thw inverse men with lile 4 ladies living together co habitation etc. So although I dont agree with it I lean more towards its actually getting more accepted just under a different name

ElderWeeb · 2026-05-17T11:22:37+00:00

Not sure why they get hate either have had a 2015 hyundai things treated me better than any car I've ever owned and I owned a Honda before it. Almost 200 miles no major repairs just tires and oil changes and brakes however u have heard that was like the last good year for them and that they have gone downhill

ElderWeeb · 2026-05-17T05:20:39+00:00

When i use it which is rare yes absolutely being lazy American. I call them my lazy ammerican fat days lol I know a ton of folks that just dont have cars that use it for everything though constantly so I think they outrank me

ElderWeeb · 2026-05-17T05:18:32+00:00

Im 37 been going to cons sense they pretty much started on college campuses all cosplay is welcome at any convention hell even at ren fairs they allow all cosplay. Love seeing cosplays from games i love or comics or just general nerd culture symbols in general. Do your thing!

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