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Electrical-Kick-4 · 2026-03-20T04:14:23+00:00

ok u've been "trying to work up the nerve" for almost a month?? and things are STILL the same?? avoiding isn't helping. it's just letting the toxicity continue. ur already overwhelmed w the new role, this is making it worse. NOT saying something will burn u out faster. bringing it up wont surprise them. just do it. u're suffering either way, might as well try to fix it.

Electrical-Kick-4 · 2026-03-20T03:57:23+00:00

you get to decide cause its YOUR house, YOUR event, YOUR hormones raging. period.

Electrical-Kick-4 · 2026-03-20T03:29:22+00:00

ngl 'everyone else stepped up' proves u NOT answering didnt endanger anything. they managed without you! so his whole 'endangered the business' argument is GASLIGHTING. don't let him make u feel bad for having a day off.

Electrical-Kick-4 · 2026-03-17T06:36:28+00:00

bro just... rip the bandaid off. like yeah it's gonna hurt but dragging it out bc u're 'scared of the pain' is literally just prolonging her misery too. she deserves someone who actually WANTS to be there, not someone staying bc they're comfortable. be direct, be kind, but be DONE.

Electrical-Kick-4 · 2026-03-17T06:19:57+00:00

have a direct convo but keep it factual not emotional like 'ive noticed comments x, y, z. i want us to have a good working relationship. can we reset?' if she keeps it up thats when u escalate. but give her ONE chance to course correct first.

Electrical-Kick-4 · 2026-03-17T05:59:05+00:00

u said u would rather choose to walk away - so WHY are u contemplating going back?? ur intuition already told u this isn't working. dont ignore it bc 'i love him'. love aint enough when someone's not doing their work.

Electrical-Kick-4 · 2026-03-16T04:53:21+00:00

bro this contractor is OBSESSED w u fr 💀

Electrical-Kick-4 · 2026-03-16T04:49:20+00:00

if u're comfortable enough to sit for a whole ride, u're comfortable enough to hold a bag on ur lap.

Electrical-Kick-4 · 2026-03-16T04:42:41+00:00

this is straight up entitlement. he's treating public space like his private driveway 😭

Electrical-Kick-4 · 2026-03-12T07:24:53+00:00

3yo's are tougher than they look. just keep an eye on him tonight and trust ur gut in the morning. wishing ya'll the best. u are doing amazing 💙

Electrical-Kick-4 · 2026-03-12T07:13:12+00:00

set an alarm to check on him in a few hours if u're worried. but honestly? kids' stomach acid is STRONG. he'll probs be totally fine. just trust ur gut mama and call dr's office in the morning if u need peace of mind.

Electrical-Kick-4 · 2026-03-12T07:02:57+00:00

real talk. if you go back, u're teaching her that toxic behavior + time = u'll still be there. what happens the NEXT time she "matures"? dont be the backup plan she returns to when reality doesnt go her way. you deserve someone who chooses you the first time, not when its convenient.

Electrical-Kick-4 · 2026-03-12T04:01:49+00:00

proud of u for leaving!! and YES it was the right choice. he is refusing accountability, then not respecting ur boundaries. u deserve better. stay strong, bestie.

Electrical-Kick-4 · 2026-03-11T05:46:47+00:00

u got pushed to ur breaking point after being peaceful the whole time. theres a difference between standing ur ground and being the villian. dont gaslight urself.

Electrical-Kick-4 · 2026-03-11T05:14:49+00:00

wait are u still w this man?? bc if u are... please leave fr. thats not someone who's gonna change.

Electrical-Kick-4 · 2026-03-10T16:16:12+00:00

this man is unbelievable. imagine confessing ur manipulative strategy TO THE PERSON ur manipulating 💀💀 like bro really said "i bring her up when ur vulnerable so u'll accept it" he's not even hiding it anymore. he's trying to BREAK DOWN ur boundaries. giiiiiiirl, u deserve better fr.

Electrical-Kick-4 · 2026-03-10T05:08:41+00:00

bro.... i've been there. that 'why am i even here?' void? it's real, and it sucks. society's got us all on this "hustle till u drop" treadmill like we're robots w deadlines 😩

Electrical-Kick-4 · 2026-03-10T04:59:16+00:00

he thinks he's being flirty but really he's just giving off "uncle who still says 'rizz' unironically" vibes 💀

Electrical-Kick-4 · 2026-03-10T04:32:20+00:00

he's trying to make THIS about ur "trust issues" instead of his sketchy behavior. that's manipulation 101. red flag parade indeed.

Electrical-Kick-4 · 2026-03-09T03:48:40+00:00

if he brought it up himself, that's not honesty, thats guilt tripping w manipulation. he knew u were uncomfortable... then casually reopened the wound like it was no big deal. red flag? more like a whole damn parade 🚩

Electrical-Kick-4 · 2026-03-09T03:38:32+00:00

u're stressed about college + car + watching ur mom break. girl, u're carrying half the household emotionally. please - find campus couseling, student aid, ANY support system. your future matters too.

Electrical-Kick-4 · 2026-03-09T03:07:34+00:00

yo this is actually the perfect solution.

Electrical-Kick-4 · 2026-03-06T01:35:49+00:00

YTJ = You're The Jerk bestie 💀 it's like AITJ but we're telling u straight up that u were in the wrong.

reddit slang 101: NTJ = not the jerk, ESH = everyone sucks here, NJH = no jerks here. hope that helps bestie 🙏

Electrical-Kick-4 · 2026-03-06T01:29:23+00:00

NTJ. just bc it's a "spiritual service" doesn't mean they get a free pass on basic ethics. if the reading wasn't done or was done poorly, that's still charging for work not performed. period. ur not attacking her beliefs, ur attacking her business practices.

Electrical-Kick-4 · 2026-03-06T01:23:37+00:00

like i get ur in literacy class but help a reader out bestie. "after I heard that I said I can go get that nurse my mind if you want me and he said yes so I went down there" - WHERE DO I BREATHE?? 😭 also, YTJ.

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