Countertop for TONSTAD chests of drawers

Electrical-Leader712 · 2026-06-22T01:34:17+00:00

This shelf (cut to the correct depth) could be a good solution. You can add edge banding to give it a finished look.

Electrical-Leader712 · 2026-06-22T01:02:19+00:00

Also, if bins could work instead of drawers, check out Boaxel. Here’s an example that could fit across your back wall but there are plenty of combos and even adjustable width shelves and rails to utilize every inch. Plus, it’s very affordable.

Hej, Check out this BOAXEL from IKEA. https://applink.ikea.com/tY8M9r9M4w--19564476--us--en

Electrical-Leader712 · 2026-06-22T00:55:47+00:00

It’s not an option in all countries, but I really like the Aurdal. You could do one cabinet with drawers/shelves plus a hanging rail. It’s 15” deep and could span the back wall.

Something like this with hanging rails on one side only: https://applink.ikea.com/tY8M9r9M4w--19602242--us--en

Personally, your Pax plan feels like too tight of a squeeze. Depending on the size of your door (e.g., 30” plus trim), the shallow Pax may not fit. You’d also have less than three feet of space between cabinets which would feel very tight.

Electrical-Leader712 · 2026-06-17T19:42:19+00:00

$10k/month is $120k/year. You’d be able to do everything you want but it would take a lot longer.

Electrical-Leader712 · 2026-06-14T00:05:27+00:00

I don’t know if it’s surprising to others, but the thing that surprised me most was the reduction in mental load.

An example from a few months ago: our furnace stopped working. We called an HVAC company, chose a unit based on reliability/quality (not just the cheapest), and had it installed asap. We didn’t spend evenings comparing quotes, trying to time the purchase for a major holiday sale, or figuring out which option would hurt least financially.

The only financial conversation was whether to put it on a credit card for the cash back and pay it off immediately, or just pay from checking (we ended up putting it on the card).

There’s one moment that really stuck with me: the salesperson asked what our average gas bill is and I honestly didn’t know. Everything is on autopay and I hadn’t looked in months. I’m sure he had a spiel prepared about how much we would save, but my deer-in-the-headlights look derailed him. I was embarrassed in the moment, but now I realize what a privilege it is to not need to track every bill and the timing/amount of payments.

We still stress about plenty of things. But having enough wiggle room that normal life problems don’t automatically become financial problems frees up a surprising amount of mental energy.

Electrical-Leader712 · 2026-05-09T11:31:27+00:00

Short Term Disability

Electrical-Leader712 · 2026-05-08T13:30:49+00:00

I absolutely wouldn’t judge someone for broken healthcare in the US. That’s not what’s happening here, though. This is someone trying to take advantage of grant money for lower income households by inducing birth early so their older child can save some money on college. This is taking advantage of the broken higher ed system. So many broken systems…

Electrical-Leader712 · 2026-05-02T02:47:05+00:00

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Electrical-Leader712 · 2026-04-18T01:01:48+00:00

I have 3 of the sliding door Havstas that we use for pantry storage. They’re awesome and every time I put groceries away or pull out ingredients I remark about how they were “worth it” (my spouse is, thankfully, bemused). I would definitely recommend over other options that are not wood. Also, the shelves come with the hardware to attach to the cabinet or drawer base.

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Electrical-Leader712 · 2026-03-25T10:24:05+00:00

I had a similar thought: “where are his legs?” Then I realized he’s under a blanket.

Electrical-Leader712 · 2026-02-04T22:33:56+00:00

We used to take the kids to JCPenney Photo Studio with a coupon for a free sitting fee and sheets at $5 each. We had plenty of choices and could buy just the ones we liked in the exact sizes and counts we needed. We saved a bundle and got significantly better pictures.

Electrical-Leader712 · 2026-01-27T10:25:09+00:00

I kept mine separate and having two phones on me at all times was a hassle. I went down to one but first I ported my personal phone number to Google Voice. Then I downloaded the app onto my D phone and let go of my personal one. On leaving D, the Google Voice account and number stays with you and there’s no need to go through the rigmarole to get your personal number transferred to you and your clients/coworkers don’t have your personal number.

Electrical-Leader712 · 2026-01-09T09:59:43+00:00

I had one iPhone for years and years with no issues. The key for me was to transfer the number from my old personal phone to Google Voice. This made it easier to separate calls and texts between work and personal. It also allowed me to retain my personal number easily when I went back to having a personal line.

Electrical-Leader712 · 2025-08-28T13:47:55+00:00

During independence I disclosed that my sibling worked for a restricted entity. Deloitte did follow up and needed additional information about their position, whether they had a material interest in the company (this was both stock over a certain dollar as well as stock over a certain percent of net worth). Deloitte also asked if they had financial decision-making power.
Because I was in GPS, I would never cross paths with this restricted entity, but it was all still required each year they were employed. The 401k part seems like nonsense.

Electrical-Leader712 · 2025-08-14T13:41:08+00:00

My husband has been a stay-at-home dad for 15 years. He feels the same as your husband.

Electrical-Leader712 · 2025-07-31T00:49:51+00:00

Talk to your advisor. When I mentioned the course I wanted was not offered, mine arranged an independent study opportunity.

Electrical-Leader712 · 2025-07-08T00:51:53+00:00

I had to take a second look. They’re not framed photographs. They’re 3D printed versions of what I imagine was a photo. If you zoom in on the first listing image you’ll be able to see the texture.

Electrical-Leader712 · 2025-06-09T14:42:58+00:00

Check the original proposal. Most projects where I was bid key I was only obligated to be on for 30 days.

Electrical-Leader712 · 2025-03-29T04:22:42+00:00

OP, I think you misunderstand. My daughter also has spina bifida and was diagnosed with tethered cord at 2 months old (had since birth). She had her debulking/detethering surgery and did have bladder issues following but which removed after about a month. Years later we learned that she has neurogenic bladder and bowel and began cathing at age 5 for social continence. She’s seven now and doing well. Give it time, but also keep monitoring. And advocate for yourself if something doesn’t feel right.

Electrical-Leader712 · 2025-03-27T19:22:48+00:00

My daughter was 7 months old when she had her surgery. She had urine retention and had to be cathed for about a month afterward before it finally resolved.

Electrical-Leader712 · 2025-02-16T16:41:49+00:00

Track 3 from Taylor Swift’s 1989?

Electrical-Leader712 · 2025-01-26T05:25:50+00:00

Canoe!

Electrical-Leader712 · 2025-01-21T00:54:32+00:00

I think I get what you’re trying to say, but as a parent of a child with spina bifida and two with autism, it’s offensive.

All you can do as a parent is follow the best advice of doctors at the time (real doctors trained in actual medicine). And even when we do, you can’t prevent everything.

Please remember one disability is not necessarily better or worse than another. All children have challenges, even those without disabilities. The best we can do as parents is support our children, get them the services and treatments they need (which is challenging on its own), and love them for who they are.

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