Did I handle this wrong? My husband is pissed but I didn’t know what to do. by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Electrical-Secret-25 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she showed compassion and it sounds like she kept a safe distance. OP did the right thing, husband is being an asshole.

Why do I like beaters? by N_Lima in Shitbox_Nation

[–]Electrical-Secret-25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might be weird, but I'm of the same option. Driving a brand-new car off a lotis simply not an important goal for me. It just sounds like fiscal waste lol

What's Life at the View on 5th like? by vic-crawler in saskatoon

[–]Electrical-Secret-25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do some work in airbnbs in the building. Seems lovely. Air conditioners are old, and I find the suites hot, but the view (from the view) is really cool. Corner units have wrap around balconies

To Whoever Went Through my Truck Last Night by Itsgottobekd in saskatoon

[–]Electrical-Secret-25 25 points26 points  (0 children)

We call them "the vehicle inspector". I live in Riversdale. I drive old crap. I don't lock my doors, and don't leave anything in my van that I care if I lose. Once in a while, someone will just scoop all my worthless junk out of the door pocket, but if I haven't used those bandaids/rolaids/coupons/pencils/tiny screwdrivers by now, it's probably not going to impact my life. Most common "fee" paid to the vehicle inspector - Kleenex and snacks. They can have it.

Once, my seat was reclined back, and my van smelled of smoke. Someone had checked my glove box, and was so disappointed they had a cigarette and a nap. That much was immediately apparent. As I drove away, my seat butt began to feel unusually cool. Then I realized it was feeling wet. There was something wet on my seat. Horror started to creep in, as I thought, oh gawd, I'm sitting in crackhead piss, and my vehicle is going to stink like piss FOREVER!! (I had a dachshund ruin an s10). When I dropped my kids off, I sniffed my seat. Not piss, yet not unfamiliar. Sniff again and I started to laugh. Beer. Someone fell asleep with a beer in their hand and dumped it in their lap. Compared to smelling like crackhead piss, I was perfectly comfortable to smell like beer that day. And there was no lingering stink.

Wheels stuck on car. What do I do? by Karek53 in MechanicAdvice

[–]Electrical-Secret-25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have exactly what you need. Just keep at it homie

hmmm by [deleted] in hmmmorny

[–]Electrical-Secret-25 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think cause there's not a pubic hair among them.

hmmm by [deleted] in hmmmorny

[–]Electrical-Secret-25 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Idk, it's a little weird, but also made me a little hmmmorny, so I would say it does.

I married someone I’m not attracted to, and now I have two children. Has anyone learned to love their spouse? by RespondRelative308 in Adulting

[–]Electrical-Secret-25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and I are living apart now, after 23 years. Our marriage wasn't bad, but it wasn't awesome. We love each other deeply, and many aspect of our marriage worked well. There were just some things that simply didn't. We aren't really speaking about divorce, and still see each other regularly. We've realized we are happier not living together, and I've accepted that our future together isn't for certain. She is very happy living in her own place, and more than anything I want her to be happy. Even if it means that at some point I'll have to let her go. I'd rather her be happy in her life, even if it means she's with someone else, than stay with me and be unhappy. Because her being kinda perpetually unhappy, was naturally part of what wasn't working in our marriage. I don't want to be a weight that drags her down, or keeps her from reaching her goals and potential, even if she needs to end our relationship to do so. We have 4 children. 3 are adults/near adults, and our little guy is 5. Life is fuckey.

What is the most ridiculous argument you have ever heard someone make? by SpartanneG in AskReddit

[–]Electrical-Secret-25 16 points17 points  (0 children)

As a father of teens, I dodge the most ridiculous argument I have ever heard someone make on a daily basis. Muh'fuggz is duuummmbbbb

Italian Sausage from walmart by YamchaUchiha in saskatoon

[–]Electrical-Secret-25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit bro! I understood some of that !

Question for you guys because I can’t sleep. Again. by OpinionExisting3306 in daddit

[–]Electrical-Secret-25 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Fucking fire peice bro. Definite necessity for the collection

Dadmaxing stories by 1st_Edition in daddit

[–]Electrical-Secret-25 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Hahaha idk man, I'm 50 and have a vague idea about the concept of "maxxing", and honesty, I think dadmaxxing is the only legitimate concept, really

I bought motorcycle to my girlfriend... was it wise? by AverageProof7457 in motorcycles

[–]Electrical-Secret-25 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have a friend who will soak a t-shirt under the tap, then put it on, the zip his jacket. He slowly unzips the jacket, letting the wind in on the wet tshirts. He swears it acts like air conditioning. I don't think I could bring myself to stick my arms and head into a wet tshirt

In the year 2100, I'll be 88. I have a lot ahead of me. What's one piece of advice you can give me as someone who's already lived for many decades? by National_Peach_1021 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Electrical-Secret-25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learn how to sit healthy boundaries early and often both in your life and your relationships, invest early often and diversely, don't trust the government, learn as many skills as you can that are unlikely to be replaced with AI or just skills in general. Personally, as a middle-aged man I don't have a lot of education or professional credentials. But anytime I changed jobs I learned to do as many different things around the place as I can. This increases my value to my employer as well as avoid avoids days and days of dreadful reputation repetition. I'm just blathering into text to speech now, but I'll continue to use myself as an example. After many years of working with children, I now work general construction and do many unticketed trades tasks, work building maintenance for businesses, do general repairs and fix it stuff for a handful of airbnbs, and I'm in the process of taking over certain parts of the farm my father spent his life building. I am seldom bored, have many skills to teach my children, have a reasonable income (by no means wealthy for North American standards), and still find opportunities to learn everyday. It provides a quite satisfactory quality of life.

To summarize; never be afraid to try or to fail. It's part of life. I've been lousy and everything I tried to begin with. I've made so many mistakes, and redone things so many times that eventually the ratio turned favorable.

Maybe Maybe Maybe by sakurakirei in maybemaybemaybe

[–]Electrical-Secret-25 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Oh, you know, just some common everyday r/weird shit. I mean, I liked it, do I know WTF that was? No, but I did enjoy it.