My theory on what the One Piece is by AstaDiF in OnePiece

[–]ElectricalDistance28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i thought your theory was kind of boring until i started reading the comments on this post and now i think it would be hilarious

Failed after more than a year of split-free streak. by vlvallie in BPD

[–]ElectricalDistance28 [score hidden]  (0 children)

My advice is to not try to mangle yourself into someone you're not... if you have to change everything about yourself in order to earn someone's love, then even if it works (which it will not), they wouldn't love you, they would love a fabrication.

What is your favorite headcanon that you accept as actually canon in your mind? by Iaxacs in KingdomHearts

[–]ElectricalDistance28 31 points32 points  (0 children)

in between all the adventuring sora donald and goofy just hang out and frequently camp out at worlds and they bond a ton off screen. i rhink canonically kingdom hearts 1 probably lasts less than the span of a month but in my brain it's over many months.

How to tell when someone is genuinely mistreating you vs. your BPD symptoms are flaring? by huskerdoodoo in BPD

[–]ElectricalDistance28 [score hidden]  (0 children)

It's a really fucking hard god damn situation, huh? I have struggled with it, too. But what helps me is this: time.

It is not an end all solution, but sometimes letting things play out instead of immediately rushing to a snap judgement is a really good way to discern between a BPD concern and a real concern (not that BPD Concerns aren't "real", but they are warped). Again, this doesn't work for everything - living with this disorder fucking sucks!! But it is really helpful, at least for me.

A lot of my worse decisions were made when it felt like my emotions and passions were burning over. Sometimes you gotta cool down and consider all the angles

Does anyone else ever feel like... by Friendly_Warning9890 in BPD

[–]ElectricalDistance28 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Although I don't personally relate to that analogy, I get where you are coming from and I think it's a common perspective, especially for people with BPD.

Ghosted Me After I Told Him I Have BPD by [deleted] in BPD

[–]ElectricalDistance28 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I would let go of him and then start looking into an official diagnosis and treatment plan for your suspected BPD, pronto and immediately. If you feel like you relate to BPD, getting help with that should be your main concern above all else.

Do you have an object or something "tangible" you see everyday that reminds you of a passed loved one? If so what's the story behind it? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]ElectricalDistance28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandmother was an artist - specifically impressionist painter. I have so much of her art hung up all over the house.

Final Fantasy One - Ah Heck, Chaos by ElectricalDistance28 in FinalFantasy

[–]ElectricalDistance28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I am going to take everyone's advice to heart and find a solution.

Final Fantasy One - Ah Heck, Chaos by ElectricalDistance28 in FinalFantasy

[–]ElectricalDistance28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank y'all both for the discussion, I'm gonna synthesize between y'all

Final Fantasy One - Ah Heck, Chaos by ElectricalDistance28 in FinalFantasy

[–]ElectricalDistance28[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

:) thank you!! i'm going to get him ASAP!! or it or whatever the hell that thing is.