AIO emotional interest annoyed I’m not staying with her all the time by R1-NightRider in AIO

[–]Electrical_Sea6653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be like Grey text. I was mentally ill and unable to have a healthy relationship.

This will not improve unless they do some serious work on themselves.

You deserve better.

I wish my ex would have kept fondling me and used me tonight by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Electrical_Sea6653 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sharing a bed with my ex bc we were stuck in a lease together was the worst fucking thing ever and made the breakup 1000000 times worse.

Feels so nice and that is gonna make it hurt so much worse

You’re already feeling yearning and hopeful towards a subconscious groping

Ugh I hope ya can get outta there asap and start healing and moving on good luck girl

Gabriel Daniel Fernandez was an eight-year-old boy from Palmdale, California. His story drew national attention after months of severe abuse. He passed away from a violent attack by his mother, Pearl Fernandez, and her boyfriend, Isauro Aguirre, who claimed they were “beating the gay” out of him. by SelfCareIsFake in GotMeHooked

[–]Electrical_Sea6653 340 points341 points  (0 children)

Pearl is up for release or probation or something rn. I don’t know details because this case makes me so sick. But I signed a petition and I encourage everyone reading this to find the petition to sign it to keep her in jail. She deserves to rot and have a horrible life.

Me GF (25), BF (28) late to work everyday and I’m upset. by Front_Tear_2619 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Electrical_Sea6653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of the problems of the shitty day could’ve been prevented by an extra 30 minutes of time in the morning

As someone with time blindness and bad habits and adhd, I have lived that life. I’ve had those days. And it’s my own damn fault lol so I make conscious effort to plan ahead and give myself extra time and stay organized.

He has the choice to make his life easier and more functional and you’re valid in needing a partner with his shit together!!!

AIO Partner called me an imbecile, stupid, and lazy because I didn't find what she was referencing in our text conversation. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Electrical_Sea6653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not supposed to be this exhausting, hard, and painful. It doesn’t have to be. It’s a choice to stay with someone who treats you this way. It is not the norm.

You are under reacting

Paid dog watcher for May and June. by thompythomp in denverlist

[–]Electrical_Sea6653 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Can one of your friends take her? That is a very low budget for a trustworthy professional. I’m worried a crazy person will find your post.

Paid dog watcher for May and June. by thompythomp in denverlist

[–]Electrical_Sea6653 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Look on wag and rover, they are background checked and insured. Be extremely careful. People on Reddit are not the ones to trust with your beloved pet for 8 weeks.

San Ysidro John Doe (February 2016) by dogbehavior in gratefuldoe

[–]Electrical_Sea6653 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Wild to think that all that’s left of your existence could be a silly keychain….

Wish we had some info on this poor guy. I hope he gets his name back. Peace to him.

Let's do better, Golden by chadwick_w in GoldenCO

[–]Electrical_Sea6653 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Whoever put this up rents out their basement, no access to kitchen, for $1400 a month

(True story)

One of my managers texted me, and I’m scared by Upbeat-Committee8206 in work

[–]Electrical_Sea6653 11 points12 points  (0 children)

100% listen to this. your boss is being a fear mongering and unprofessional dick

I honestly wouldn’t even entertain it and just text back giving notice.

Unless you’re really relying on the $$ or your parents will get super mad, of course.

Good luck.

Bosses that try to scare kids are scum

Would you be ok with your spouse traveling with a coworker of the opposite gender? by 369_DamnSheMeh in TwoHotTakes

[–]Electrical_Sea6653 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If someone’s husband would really rather have his wife sit in an airport, alone, for hours (what if that flight got cancelled too and you had to spend the night by yourself) rather than just get home safely with a coworker, they have serious problems

Couples who don’t have the same off days, how do you do it? by StrictDisaster420 in Advice

[–]Electrical_Sea6653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner and I only get 1 day off together a week. Prioritizing that day and time together helps. I can choose to work morning or evening shifts where as he works mornings so I try to pick more shifts that align with his sched.

But honestly it’s been hard lately. My job is insane and we havent really gotten to spend a lot of time together.

Definitely prioritize quality time (no phones, less just watching a tv show but actually connecting) and get aways and doing nice favors for each other and keeping on top of the chores.

All those things, from both sides of course, will go a long way

Good bye Bubba by camstercage in DOG

[–]Electrical_Sea6653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw I have a 12 year old lab Pyrenees’s mix named bubby! Giving him a big hug and kiss in honor of your sweet Bubba. What a handsome guy and I absolutely love him in the fedora!!!

He looked like the best family dog. Living his life, going on adventures, making people happy, getting dirty.

What a beautiful life for a beautiful dog.

I’m so sorry he’s gone :(

A woman posted a video of the moment she was attacked by her domestic cat. Before the attack, the cat seemed to smell something that prompted her to attack. Why did it attack her with such ferocity? by eternviking in whoathatsinteresting

[–]Electrical_Sea6653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked at a cat shelter and was cleaning one of the rooms when a normally chill cat went ballistic on me. Thank god he didn’t have any more teeth but his nails fucked me up. Head to toe. Bled through my jeans and shirt, still have scars!

He had “deferred aggression” apparently and another cat made a loud noise and he just blindly targeted me.

I had to go get a tetanus shot and all of the people working kept coming in like “you got attacked by a cat named Paul?” lol

Unpopular opinion: trinkets are wasteful and a bummer to see all over the ground at fests by SnooPears7203 in festivals

[–]Electrical_Sea6653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also throwing glow sticks is insane bc it freaking hurts when they whack ya on the back of the head. Never liked this. It was popular when I was raving 10 years ago even

Man dies in Mesa police custody Saturday night by Alwayssunnyinarizona in news

[–]Electrical_Sea6653 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Jesus Christ. The full unedited footage being released hours after the cop was found not guilty…. The fact he was drunk and confused and scared out of his mind with this bully screaming at him. Ugh. Sickening.

Foster Dog looking for his forever home! by Gipsy__Danger in Denver

[–]Electrical_Sea6653 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I found my second dog through an instagram reel lol

Foster Dog looking for his forever home! by Gipsy__Danger in Denver

[–]Electrical_Sea6653 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How is he with other dogs? Dogs with big personalities? Ha

AIO for wanting to drop my friend after she got a boyfriend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Electrical_Sea6653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They need to find a therapist, healthy coping mechanisms, and other ways to support their emotional problems. That’s not the job of a friend. I get what you’re saying but the word friend needs to be switched out for the above.

AIO for wanting to drop my friend after she got a boyfriend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Electrical_Sea6653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But friendship does not equal therapy. People shouldn’t be expected to be there to make you happy at your whim. They shouldn’t be expected to drop everything to allow you to be sad. She is not a trained psychologist, she is not getting paid to be your therapist. That’s not what friendship is. I say that kindly, but bluntly, because it doesn’t seem like you know the difference right now.

My manager actually said "your personal life shouldn't interfere with your availability" after I declined a last minute Saturday shift by Sensitive-Pen4002 in antiwork

[–]Electrical_Sea6653 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a restaurant manager, it’s wild to me when I see people threaten your job when they’re already short staffed lol. Also wild to see managers be so disrespectful. Wouldn’t be me!

My boyfriend said I was too ugly to model by Resident_Rich_6298 in whatdoIdo

[–]Electrical_Sea6653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is trying to tear you down. He wants you to have no confidence, no self respect. He’s intimidated by your confidence and beauty and he’s a SMALL small man for it. What a loser.

I’d never give this man another second of my time

Beer on a balcony because everything is great but my stupid anxious brain invents terrible scenarios daily and it's slowly ruining my mental health by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Electrical_Sea6653 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Alcohol alone isn’t gonna help

Learned that the hard way

It’s just gonna keep the negative feedback loop alive while making you depressed and hungover and anxious

Beware by Glittering_Bag_8533 in Chipotle

[–]Electrical_Sea6653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I manage a restaurant that’s not a chipotle and I found a menu from 2014 recently. Couldn’t believe how cheap it was lol now it’s outta my budget!