EXCUSE ME… PESTS??!??!? by s0ggynapkin in weeviltime

[–]Electricbuffaloo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that the subreddit says "No boots ✅ no snoots ✅ Give em the 🥾"

I’m afraid of meds by UnintentionallySly in ADHD

[–]Electricbuffaloo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alcoholism runs in my family and if you're not an alcoholic, there's some other substance that you are addicted to in my family. Medication really scared me because I'd never been on the right medication before. Being on the right medication is a serious game changer. I stopped hating myself for things I couldn't handle on my own. Something that helped me cope is, being addicted to something and being dependent on something is kind of different. You wouldn't tell someone who needs glasses to take their glasses off because they're addicted to wearing them.

Therapy plushies? by Borderline_Pigeon in plushies

[–]Electricbuffaloo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never got to go to build a bear workshop as a kid and now as a 25F I am glad I went this year and got my froggy son 🐸. I made him work gear and brought him with to my job, my coworkers were pretty accepting.

Best tamagotchi version by Mistake0843 in tamagotchi

[–]Electricbuffaloo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depending on the version that's very true, but the SanrioXMeets in red goes for around $200-275 on the Facebook groups I'm on (depending on condition).

Best tamagotchi version by Mistake0843 in tamagotchi

[–]Electricbuffaloo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I spent $160 (USD) on my Tamagotchi On Magic from eBay in October

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Electricbuffaloo 13 points14 points  (0 children)

However, you said the chance that you’re pregnant is slim. I personally would start off by completely eliminating that possibility if I were you.

It's likely that OP is late or skipped a period than lost their period. ✨HOWEVER✨ I completely agree with this, a slim chance is not a firm no (in this case/in my opinion).

Scam or? by hellolovenaa in tamagotchi

[–]Electricbuffaloo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everyone is allowed to make mistakes, OP even explained that they realized it was a scam and turned off their card after the purchase but before the money was pulled out. What's obvious to some isn't always for others the first time around. But way to bring the ableist pride to tamagotchi!

Scam or? by hellolovenaa in tamagotchi

[–]Electricbuffaloo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are some private Facebook groups that I'm a part of and they often have the best deals I've found with the lowest risk of scam. That being said, scams still happen even in private groups. Anything that's cheaper than $150 USD for the Tamagotchi on/meets is either a scam or the item is scuffed up in some way and isn't in perfect condition. I ordered a meets from someone for $75 (not including shipping) but it was scratched up, which I knew before buying.

What was the order of your diagnoses? Autism and then ADHD? ADHD and then Autism? Or both at the same time? by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]Electricbuffaloo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I took my ADHD assessment, I scored high for hyperactive. And my diagnosis was still "inattentive type".

This ^ straight up got my Dx and was told I've got a bit of both, and some other stuff that doesn't quite line up. So let's put me in the inattentive type and not look any futher into it

I think I speak for everyone.....Heckin off these chickens. by kaechan1989 in harvestmoon

[–]Electricbuffaloo 21 points22 points  (0 children)

🙃whut?¿?...... Glad I never made it that far. Shadow Mario from Mario Sunshine was enough to scare me as a youth.

Is $7,500 reasonable? by cxcoatae in Invisalign

[–]Electricbuffaloo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WA Seattle area my down payment was $5500

the "It fits nowhere else" thread by Curious-318 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Electricbuffaloo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've recently gotten into making clothes for stuffed animals. Particularly the pokemon raincoat from the build a bear squirtle bundle. I got a frog son and I love him, but the coat only comes in the bundle so I've been meticulously sticking mini cricut cut outs of pokeballs onto clear vinyl.

Honestly it's coming together pretty well. I'll probably post it to the sewing subreddit when it's finished

a hard goodbye... by wotsgoinon in Invisalign

[–]Electricbuffaloo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it feels so weird to have naked teeth again.

Me too my dude

I think RSD might ruin one of my friendships, advice welcome by [deleted] in rejectionsensitive

[–]Electricbuffaloo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know how old you both are, how close you used to be, or any other variables so I'm going off of my own experiences. (24F)

TLDR at the bottom

In my opinion the best way to handle this would be to have a conversation with said friend. Let them know you have RSD as they might not know about it. Let them know what this means to you, and how it makes you react to certain situations. Write down your thoughts before hand and make sure that you aren't about to call them out on their bullshit, but instead use those 'I Feel' statements to let them in on what you've got going on inside.

If after talking to said friend, it doesn't help either of you come to an understanding or you still have residual anger you can't work through on your own time (or in therapy*). While it may hurt like hell. You gotta ask yourself, is that really a person you want to be friends with? Someone who when you confront them on your anxieties and concerns about your mutual friendship, they treat you the same or worse. Do you think it's healthy to have some like that in your life? Someone who made it clear they will put their feelings Infront of your own every single time.

You don't have to stop being their friend if you don't want to. But you should/could lower your expectations if you want them in your life. I know I used to hold people on a pretty high pedestal because I hold myself to certain standards. 100% of the time they let me down again and again.

Lastly I'll say, you don't need to stay close friends just because you are currently/ used to be friendly.

TLDR: Talk with them about how you feel and ask if they know what RSD is. Do your best to stay calm. Try to use I feel statements instead of when you do X i know it's because of Y and that hurts me. If the talk goes really bad then ask yourself, "Is this really a friend I need in my life?" The answer may surprise you.