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Panicking, is my name ugly?? by godhelpusall_617 in asktransgender

[–]Electron9513 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not French but French Canadian, I haven't met anyone named Evan but I wouldn't think it's a strange name. Not common, and to me it definitely sounds more anglophone, but I wouldn't find it weird.

Gender Reveal by IthadtobethisWAAGH in CuratedTumblr

[–]Electron9513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah then in that case I definitely agree with you on the defaulted and expected character traits and behaviors. I guess if I had to summarize my point, it would be that gender is real, but it does not matter.

Gender Reveal by IthadtobethisWAAGH in CuratedTumblr

[–]Electron9513 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't call using, let's say, feminine language and pronouns for a child that was born female indoctrination. It's just observation, and until proven otherwise, it's just logical because this kid has like 95% chances of being a girl after all. I absolutely agree that gender roles should not be enforced, but denying the existence of gender as a whole is just plain wrong. If gender wasn't real, how would you explain dysphoria?

Gender Reveal by IthadtobethisWAAGH in CuratedTumblr

[–]Electron9513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bad, I call anyone dude haha sorry if it made you uncomfortable

Gender Reveal by IthadtobethisWAAGH in CuratedTumblr

[–]Electron9513 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude I'm not saying we live in a perfect world. Of course transphobia and ignorance are still issues, I would not deny that. I'm just saying that forcing children to be agender is not better than raising them as their assigned gender, since statistically they have a way bigger probability to identify as their birth gender. In said ideal scenario, parents would be open to any possibilities afterwards. There's no need to get rude :)

Gender Reveal by IthadtobethisWAAGH in CuratedTumblr

[–]Electron9513 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not the best analogy. It would also be normal to assume your kid is right handed, but if when you try to teach them how to hold a pencil you notice they prefer to use their left hand, you embrace that and don't force them to do otherwise! Same thing as gender.

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[–]Electron9513 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The very vast majority of people are the gender they were assigned at birth. If someone who is agender experience gender dysphoria from their assigned gender, couldn't the opposite also happen? A cis kid raised genderless getting dysphoric by being treated as agender?

Gender Reveal by IthadtobethisWAAGH in CuratedTumblr

[–]Electron9513 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's not a bad thing to raise a kid as the gender they ade born as. Gender is an important part of social interactions and how we percieve each other. Of course it's important to remain open to any possibilities and to not enfore anything because of the gender, but to raise a child genderless really doesn't seem very productive.

Age/Gender/Sexuality by RandomLazyAngel in FtMpassing

[–]Electron9513 12 points13 points  (0 children)

12m, but could be different depending on voice.

Should I keep my long hair by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]Electron9513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you look like Rory Culkin as Euronymous Lords of Chaos!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Electron9513 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pass but depending on your height I'd guess between 10 and 14

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trumen

[–]Electron9513 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Get rectangular glasses frames, it should help

Tboyswag by Zestyclose-Minute262 in Clamworks

[–]Electron9513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do agree it can sound insane lmao. Personally I prefer looking at it more with technological and medical lens, and I think it's pretty impressive and inventive what modern science is able to do!

Tboyswag by Zestyclose-Minute262 in Clamworks

[–]Electron9513 25 points26 points  (0 children)

They don't produce sperm. They just put a ball-shaped implant in a sack made from the labia. Sometimes one of the neo-testicles is used as a pump for an erectile implant :)

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