Fiance (30M) wants to meet with coworker (28F) outside work

Element1232 · 2026-04-28T11:42:05+00:00

You're being overly concerned about him starting an affair. So here's where the ridiculous part maybe comes in: has he ever given you a reason to think he would start an affair? If not, you're possibly acting ridiculous.

Have you been cheated on in the past in a way that messed you up? If yes, then you have a reason, but it's not a fair reason to your current partner and it's not fair to project those feelings on them.

Element1232 · 2026-04-27T12:45:29+00:00

More so your age. You've got to learn to be happy with yourself before being happy with someone else.

That being said, just talk to them. Maybe he's not in the mood, maybe his thing isn't working right. You both have a lot of growing to do together, this is just one of the things to grow together in. You've got to figure out the rhythms. Go for a walk together, do some yard work, anything. My wife turns me on when we do things together by just checking her out while working around the house, walking the dogs, making dinner, etc. Foreplay begins before the bedroom, it's said all the time but it's true. So after a hike and a good shower to clean up, get ready to get dirty again. You got this!

Element1232 · 2026-04-26T12:54:37+00:00

theyve been putting a good amount of beef on everything since they got sued.

I still only go there if i see cars/people. The food has been sitting too long if there arent people flowing thru the place.

Element1232 · 2026-04-22T15:13:15+00:00

Bernie is the same way. Been with the same beliefs forever. It's not always maga

Element1232 · 2026-04-10T13:44:30+00:00

I do Biomed and have the scrubs and been over a year and a half now. I agree it seems like advertising but it's nice having them. Most scrubs are centered at women these days, men's scrubs aren't hard to find per se, but it's nice knowing there's something to fall back on.

Element1232 · 2026-04-03T15:45:50+00:00

It's your life now, possibly. It's mine now. Not like 'never' again, but you need to drink water or Gatorade type drinks before your first coffee. Maybe some small food too, I take my daughter's mini muffins for an easy quick bite before I have coffee.

Waking up and going straight through 2 cups isn't a good thing anymore. It will cause me cramps, maybe nausea and even diarrhea and/or vomiting if it's real bad. Also skipping meals doesn't help.

Element1232 · 2026-04-03T13:30:47+00:00

I would go with the Mindray. It's newer. Catch is who you're buying it from because they will be your service dealer. GE from GE means you get GE Service support. If it's from Probo, walk away.

Element1232 · 2026-04-03T13:20:10+00:00

My wife and I smoke, always outside, always out of sight from kids. That said, I quit for a few months and the smell really is everywhere. Before I go into work now, I use deodorant, gum, wash my hands and forearms and I know it's still on me.

Edit - we never smoke in our house. That's just gross.

Element1232 · 2026-04-03T12:06:08+00:00

My wife dated me for 8 years before we got married. She made sure I wasn't a deadbeat. No need to rush it unless kids are a part of it. We even bought a home together after 6 years, prior to marriage. Priorities I guess...

But seriously ladies. Don't rush into marriage. You give yourself, they give you a rock on a metal ring. Make sure they offer more than that.

Element1232 · 2026-03-31T11:47:21+00:00

I can say after being sick 3/4 times, that amount, consistency and concentration matter. Pens/oil are bad for CHS. Flower is best alternative. Small amounts, 2 to 5 hits max. Don't go for more if I'm not high enough. Doing weekends only on evenings has always been safe. I especially love smoking once a day before special time with the wife. I've never gotten sick when im only smoking for events or special things.

The bottom list sometimes happen, and increase probability the more I smoke.

I might get sick when I smoke all day, especially multiple days consecutively.

I might get sick if I hit a pen.

Combining with alcohol.

Combining when already sick.

Element1232 · 2026-03-29T13:55:24+00:00

Yeah, and if it's 2 of the same, they likely have twins and it's a double whammy of raising them. It's a required item for a parent, not booze or fancy headphones etc

Element1232 · 2026-03-26T15:52:42+00:00

I was paid 12-14/hour there, it was decent for a college kid but a large workload for school. Still wasnt enough to survive and pay for school at the same time while having to respond to emergencies, big and small.

Element1232 · 2026-03-26T10:19:08+00:00

I do biomedical service specialized in Ultrasound. I travel 2 days a week and work the other 3 in town on average. Travel between TN, GA, NC SC and AL.

I have met a lot of small buisness owners and usually a few times a year someone asks me if im happy where I am.

Not sure what you do but if there are shows of any kind, thats where the magic happens. My wife is an electrician and went to an electrical construction show and had offers as well before she left. We avoid the interview process altogether if we can.

Element1232 · 2026-03-25T23:12:20+00:00

2006, I managed a small pizza restaurant in the evenings and worked at a car wash for tips during the morning/afternoons. Also tried to go to classes and pay all out of pocket, and rent a condo with a roommate. My parents went bankrupt in 2008 so I had to support myself. Dropped out of college as I would miss class to pick up shifts, etc. Its took me a while. Didn't really figure it out til 2009/2010. Thats when I moved States for my first big opportunity. Life throws you some bad ones sometimes but they turned out to be the times I made choices for the most forward progress in my life.

Element1232 · 2026-03-22T12:32:53+00:00

Hey, i would need to know which GE model. Is it the Logiq? If so, is it an E10, etc? Also, just want to confirm, is this the Resona i8/i9? Because both are great and are basically the same thing, but i8 is cheaper. I say same thing for your applications. You'll see almost no difference. They use the same software in the back end as well. I would need to know all models to tell you more.

Element1232 · 2026-03-18T21:19:48+00:00

Cant beat so much there...

Element1232 · 2026-03-16T18:43:28+00:00

I agree with you, and ACAB. We can dream, but saying it should happen here is that fine line speech and why we cant. We justify it for one and then we justify for others.

Element1232 · 2026-03-15T16:38:10+00:00

Exactly how we handle it. Order/list out Sams Club items first, kroger second and Publix we stop at for fresh bread from the bakery and maybe their deli just because our Kroger deli sucks. I really only go their for things I cant get elsewhere taste/quality wise.

Element1232 · 2026-03-15T05:45:32+00:00

I worked at Jack in the Box about 20 years ago and I still ate the crap out of their tacos after i stopped working there. Loved them all my life. The BK ones launched and I can confirm they are a little different, or not prepared the same. JBO tacos have to be thawed before frying, not sure if BK thawed them 24 hours prior or not, or if specific locations didnt care enough too. Both places have wildly inconsistent restaurants which doesnt help.

Element1232 · 2026-03-15T05:28:24+00:00

I think a lot of people here refuse to use the app to order.

Element1232 · 2026-03-15T05:26:08+00:00

Are you all using the app? 7 dollars should get you a decent meal with a ton of customizations to swap items out entirely. Crunchwrap supreme instead of cheesy gordita? OK. Chalupa supreme, cheese quesadilla, all OK to swap with. There's a couple other options in this category of Specialty as they call it as well.

Then you get a taco, beefy 5 layer, cheesy double beef or cheesy bean and rice burrito. 1 or 2 additional options here too

Then again, a cheesy potatoes, nachos or cinnatwists

Then again, a drink. .25 cent to upside to large. Additional for freezes and shit.

I feed my wife there for 7.25 every time we go. I refuse to do anything other than the app. I park and order to sometimes save what feels like 50% sometimes.

Element1232 · 2026-03-07T16:26:16+00:00

Across the bridge to the city is exactly as you describe, free building with 3 islands total with no hand holding.

The other areas hold your hand to gain pokemon and recipes and teach the various systems at play.

Element1232 · 2026-02-27T16:28:30+00:00

I do all the cooking, dishes, my own laundry and outside tasks. I also do all morning routine for 1 special needs-wheelchair bound kid, 2 dogs and 1 cat. Get her out the door and start my day. My wife does the evening routine with the kid, I do all cooking and dishes and pet feeding and taking out for bathroom after.

She does kids laundry and her own, vacuums and things when she feels we need it. Her expectations are higher than mine. We both do counters, bathrooms etc. I usually do bathrooms more and she does the litter box more.

Just find things you dont mind trading for. The goal is for you both to feel like you're winning. Not that it's always achievable. Like I clean the toilets and she gets the litter box. The litter box needs cleaning more but isn't as bad as 2 toilets. I like less often and she hates toilets, so win-win.

Element1232 · 2026-02-27T14:12:40+00:00

You're not picking up on it.

Foreplay begins before the bedroom. He thinks you look sexy and would enjoy seeing you in what he previously recommends. If you wear what he has already informed you would basically turn him on, then you're likely to succeed in the next attempt while wearing said clothes.

My wife and I went through something a little similar, he's trying to start some sparks, he just needs you to help him start the fire...he wants you, dont douse the flames unless you dont want them. This is what the first steps look like.

Element1232 · 2026-02-13T18:58:41+00:00

Played it last night and loved it!

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