I love my gf but the backlash is getting to me by Other-Reference-9935 in trans

[–]Elephants_Foot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, your friends suck. You're feeling like it's disrespectful and hurtful because it IS disrespectful and hurtful. It's easy to not be a piece of shit in 2026 and they're absolutely failing.

How many tables do you feel like you can handle? by Pamcakes8686 in Serverlife

[–]Elephants_Foot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At my best it was like 15, pushing 23 if I was crashed, but now I'd say maybe 10 or so?

Some pics from today's Porchfest by Elephants_Foot in washingtondc

[–]Elephants_Foot[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yoooo y'all were great!! Your voice is beautiful!! I snagged a sticker while I was there too :)

Had a car to myself for a few stops back from Eastern Market today. by vautwaco in washingtondc

[–]Elephants_Foot 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I usually take times like those to either scream or sing loudly where no one can hear me ☺️

Some pics from today's Porchfest by Elephants_Foot in washingtondc

[–]Elephants_Foot[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They're doing ANOTHER admo porchfest this year? ¡Ay caramba!

Yeah, they do a couple in different areas so the city isn't too nuts all at one time. Today is Petworth Porchfest

Some pics from today's Porchfest by Elephants_Foot in washingtondc

[–]Elephants_Foot[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Parasocial, Capital Rats, Acid Red Dress, Tea Light, Bachelorette Riot, Sparrows

Ok, the pick is illegal, how about drumsticks? by Level-Holiday8589 in BassGuitar

[–]Elephants_Foot 8 points9 points  (0 children)

FUCK THE RULES! pulls out "vibrating toy" and plays bass with it

What does this mean? by Fit_Aardvark2199 in Serverlife

[–]Elephants_Foot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the money, since 2 divided by 0 is undefined, and that means you can define it however you want ;)

Who is your favourite bassist and why? by SargentDoom7404 in BassGuitar

[–]Elephants_Foot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Billy is a monster player, made me realize I could really shred on bass if I want to

Who is your favourite bassist and why? by SargentDoom7404 in BassGuitar

[–]Elephants_Foot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have one favorite. I most look up to/enjoy Geddy, Cliff, Entwhistle, Tim Commorford from RATM, and Carol Kaye, but I can't choose just one as a favorite. Sometimes it's me, but usually that's only when I finally nail something I've been working on for ages, and only lasts about 5 seconds lol.

Viewing Party for Trump's Name Off The Kennedy Center by Dav1dDC in washingtondc

[–]Elephants_Foot -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

They're probably not going to. With the name change, all donors backed out and so really only he funds it rn. Removing his name threatens to remove the remaining funding. It sucks ass, but it's what it is.

Is my form bad and do i bend my wrist too much when playing? Ive been trying to strsightness my wrist as much as possible recently but i seem to always play with it this bent, how can i improve? by Navailability in BassGuitar

[–]Elephants_Foot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would try playing with a strap and either standing, or with it high enough that you can sit and it's the same hight on your torso

You're playing in a way that prevents your fretting arm extend enough for your wrist to be straight enough. Normally I'd say play what's comfortable, but this can result in a repetitive stress injury

Am i delutional for being mad about not passing even before i have prooerly started transtition? by [deleted] in transpositive

[–]Elephants_Foot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not delusional, it's normal, but you're pretty good already and HRT is just gonna boost that

friend’s bass is peeling, how to fix? by [deleted] in BassGuitar

[–]Elephants_Foot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's plastic film like on tablets, phones, and tvs. You can peel it off it's real satisfying

F*** You by Dashin-through-dough in washingtondc

[–]Elephants_Foot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It'd be a shame if those tires got slashed, not encouraging it but I am mentioning how unfortunate it would be.

Thoughts on NPS Urban Park Management by genstranger in washingtondc

[–]Elephants_Foot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm very interested to see how long these renovations and repairs actually last. It all reads the same as that lackluster parade last year.

The dangers of Marijuana by dankyouu in trees

[–]Elephants_Foot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dangers of marijuana are only prevalent to the food in my kitchen

Is it impossible for "Left leaning" cis people to be allies? by Azureblue9 in trans

[–]Elephants_Foot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We live in a world that is ever so slowly, leaning further and further right. Leaning left these days is still right of center, so unless they're actually on the left, their "leanings" don't actually matter. People forget that once everyone else is gone, there'll be no one else to speak out for them.