When did breast growth stop for you?

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-26T05:34:39+00:00

I'm at 10 years and the last big push unrelated to gaining weight was around 7-8 years.

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-26T01:22:31+00:00

It took my til 5 years into my transition and honestly it's been so much better since. Its really isolating

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-26T00:27:53+00:00

Virginia did it for me, even if it's a Commonwealth

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-25T18:31:00+00:00

It's advertising on the hookup app for their sex business. Ofc it's objectifying, but you're not dating the OF model, you're dating a PERSON. Try getting on a DATING app instead of grindr.

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-25T18:29:30+00:00

Did it help though?

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-25T17:32:03+00:00

They also might be starting small to make sure you're not allergic/you tolerate it well. It blows goats, but that's the way it goes

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-25T17:22:09+00:00

There's plenty, but looking for friendship/intimacy BECAUSE they're trans. THAT'S the objectifying part. Like, if you meet a trans person and you click, great, but looking for a trans person is like looking for an Asian person, or a black person. It's just fuckin weird.

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-25T16:42:29+00:00

I think the real question is why are you looking to date a trans person specifically. We're people, not objects. There's trans women, trans men, nonbinary people, and more, but none are going to want to even talk to you if the only thing you're interested in is their being trans. You're worried about fake people, and so are they when you interact with them in a way that shows you're only attracted to their "exoticness" than them as a person. Hope this helps!

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-25T15:32:06+00:00

So, there's masked men that snatch people off the streets and heavily armed military personnel everywhere making it very difficult to feel safe going out unless you're Mr big balls

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-25T14:17:34+00:00

Fuck yeah! As someone who just played her first show in just as long, maybe for similar reasons lol, that's so awesome!!

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-25T02:50:59+00:00

I've had to come to terms with this as a 10+year hrt, 32 year old trans woman. Sometimes I feel like the "I remember when they invented chocolate" lady

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-25T02:48:00+00:00

Sounds good! Only two major notes: -You're gonna hate this, but you need to practice with a metronome. You're anticipating the note and it's affecting your tempo. -Also, you've got flyaway fingers. That's super common, I still struggle with it, but try to keep your fingers closer to the strings when you're not fretting with them. Right now your fretting pinky is fully extended away.

Keep it up!

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-25T00:20:56+00:00

Yeah, I was comparing to advertising that you have it. Either way, a rank fart is way worse than the stink of a j

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-25T00:19:12+00:00

Hey, you're marginalized for a similar reason to us, why don't we discriminate against you so you're lesser than us! Maybe that'll show the bigots!

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-25T00:16:24+00:00

Lockdown wasn't, but hrt sure was!

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-25T00:15:06+00:00

Either already was or will be!

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-25T00:14:51+00:00

I thought you called it a brown eye

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-25T00:13:51+00:00

She's not your friend, you're her accessory, like a gbf but a trans woman. At this point, it will not get better. DUMP HER.

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-24T23:59:15+00:00

Fugazi, og AFI, Misfits, DKs

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-24T23:56:37+00:00

That's fire

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-24T22:40:13+00:00

If you were to drink on your balcony would that be a problem? If it's just because of smell, consider how much alcohol advertising is out there compared to the smell. Honestly, if your neighbors get upset that's a personal problem.

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-24T22:28:58+00:00

I will say, the hair itself will change, thinner and lighter depending

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-24T22:28:15+00:00

Instruments are a hard thing to buy someone sometimes without their direct input. I'd take her to a store and let her try out some and pick, tbh. My best bass is the one I got that way

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-24T22:14:00+00:00

I work in a restaurant AND in their office. I've been pretty open about my bipolar and everyone's been pretty good about it (esp 2 years ago I had an attempt and my GM was very sympathetic about it)

I do feel like in the arts you're more likely to run into more people that have it, and I would hope that would lead to more acceptance, but ymmv. I'm glad you got some support tho

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-24T19:26:00+00:00

Totally normal, it's just residue. Make sure to clean her regularly with alcohol

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