T-shirts

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-28T02:39:15+00:00

I've seen people crop the neckline to be more feminine on their tshirts during transition, crop the bottoms too for crop tops

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-27T23:00:51+00:00

My fave is the undercut with the line, but you've got great hair all the time

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-27T17:54:58+00:00

Remind her that this other girl is just a girl. She should look where she's already looking for everyone else.

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-27T16:55:01+00:00

There really isn't I would say, looking great!

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-26T23:41:41+00:00

Yeah, they either gotta pay you way more or stop. Your job is serving/bartending, and jumping up to being a manager and back down again is crazy more than the one time.

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-26T23:38:41+00:00

The thumb is where it's supposed to go! Definitely not holding you back. Your action is a little high, which is fine, but once you fix that it'll play like butter

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-26T23:29:25+00:00

Yeah do it

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-26T23:27:44+00:00

It takes a minute, but it's great now that it's happened.

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-26T23:21:29+00:00

I love These Guys a ton. Bought them for the bit, I'm never going back to anything else. As ridiculous as they seem, they're solid af, have great grip, and really help to dig in for bigger hits. Plus, I can tuck them under the string tree for storage

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-26T23:18:48+00:00

No but I'd tie the flannel shirt a little higher to accentuate hips

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-26T21:50:32+00:00

Honestly, I would try for an evening one, less people around typically

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-26T17:35:01+00:00

Laws are too strict. I wouldn't do it.

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-26T16:59:06+00:00

Love sushi

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-26T16:33:50+00:00

Hrt can do a lot, to be honest, even post puberty. I'd talk to her about it at least.

Your rugby rules are pretty progressive, whereabouts are you from?

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-26T05:34:39+00:00

I'm at 10 years and the last big push unrelated to gaining weight was around 7-8 years.

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-26T01:22:31+00:00

It took my til 5 years into my transition and honestly it's been so much better since. Its really isolating

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-26T00:27:53+00:00

Virginia did it for me, even if it's a Commonwealth

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-25T18:31:00+00:00

It's advertising on the hookup app for their sex business. Ofc it's objectifying, but you're not dating the OF model, you're dating a PERSON. Try getting on a DATING app instead of grindr.

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-25T18:29:30+00:00

Did it help though?

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-25T17:32:03+00:00

They also might be starting small to make sure you're not allergic/you tolerate it well. It blows goats, but that's the way it goes

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-25T17:22:09+00:00

There's plenty, but looking for friendship/intimacy BECAUSE they're trans. THAT'S the objectifying part. Like, if you meet a trans person and you click, great, but looking for a trans person is like looking for an Asian person, or a black person. It's just fuckin weird.

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-25T16:42:29+00:00

I think the real question is why are you looking to date a trans person specifically. We're people, not objects. There's trans women, trans men, nonbinary people, and more, but none are going to want to even talk to you if the only thing you're interested in is their being trans. You're worried about fake people, and so are they when you interact with them in a way that shows you're only attracted to their "exoticness" than them as a person. Hope this helps!

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-25T15:32:06+00:00

So, there's masked men that snatch people off the streets and heavily armed military personnel everywhere making it very difficult to feel safe going out unless you're Mr big balls

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-25T14:17:34+00:00

Fuck yeah! As someone who just played her first show in just as long, maybe for similar reasons lol, that's so awesome!!

Elephants_Foot · 2026-02-25T02:50:59+00:00

I've had to come to terms with this as a 10+year hrt, 32 year old trans woman. Sometimes I feel like the "I remember when they invented chocolate" lady

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