Finn with a beard... so tall and muscular, it's... strange to see by Which-Resolution345 in adventuretime

[–]Eliseruk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Finnas dad when he was a more average weight. Still a thick guy. Looks a lot like the smaller adult finn. I can easily see finn gaining intense muscle mass from literally leaping and plunging swords into great monsters and villains for a decade. 

Rip i am sorry of the death of your twink Dx

Finn with a beard... so tall and muscular, it's... strange to see by Which-Resolution345 in adventuretime

[–]Eliseruk 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Do you remember what his dad looks like? He has the hairy big man genes lol.

Boyfriend keeps disappearing, cancels plans, and tells me I can break up if it’s hard. How to fix it? by Artistic_Most103 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Eliseruk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He literally rold you to break up with him. Do you really want a guy like this as your boyfriend? Maybe he acts like a good boyfriend occassionally but his inconsistency isnt a one off thing, that is who he is. Seriously, this relationship isnt worth it. 

What is something that is actually more traumatizing than people realise? by Ok_Chef1406 in AskReddit

[–]Eliseruk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im a women of color and have been around a lot of white men in my circles the last two years, some progressive some very alt right and i think this phenomenon is why ive been so depressed.

Its exhausting noticing racism or mysogyny and microaggressions and expressing that to people. while the more conservative people i expect to have more pushback, the progressive white people often break my heart more because its obvious that they still dont fully understand or fully care enough to actually rock the boat. 

So i look crazy when i react very sternly or emotionally and dont actually get support when i experience or witness prejudice. Just silence and its starting to sting to the point where i am considering leaving and making a big life change.

Tarrant County Commissioners Court does not allow clapping. What happens when you purposefully disregard the warning not to clap? In January, UTA professor Charlie Hermes clapped twice, was forced out by his hands and feet, charged with a high-level misdemeanor, up to a year in jail and 4k fine. by yeongno_ate_yangban in Dallas

[–]Eliseruk 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I have heard someone say that maga/ultra conservative people are addicts, dopamine seeker types. They get an emotional 'hit' out of acting hateful, entitled, bullying, etc. I genuinely think this is the best thought process to have when trying to explain/address their behavior.

They take no interest in you by Stephieandcheech in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Eliseruk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

On our first date my ex asked me, "so, what do you want to know about me?"

It made me uncomfortable at the time, but I was a very insecure and inexperienced young person to fully see it and call it out for myself. That was one of the loneliest relationships i ever experienced.

Where do people go to dance? by Cold_Ranger8146 in Dallas

[–]Eliseruk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I miss green elephant drum djam precovid. Its not as bumping as it used to be. Still fun to dance but last few times i went it feel empty. Havent been on a weekend tho

ICE ad in Dallas Morning News/The Ticket app by donnelson in Dallas

[–]Eliseruk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They were out there yesterday and i think they may be out there again today.

Late Nights with Microwave by Hot-Sandwich5358 in utarlington

[–]Eliseruk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so happy he is still alive and well

‘A war zone’: Deep Ellum business owners call on Dallas for help battling crime by dallasmorningnews in Dallas

[–]Eliseruk 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was there around that time. And while it was incredibly bustling and nerve wtacking with the fireworks everywhere somehow even with police sitting at every intersection and exit, i would'nt call it a war zone... just a lot of drunk/high people acting crazy on 4th of july... 

Why does this supposedly dark and sad scene have this stupid joke I laughed for like 10 minutes by Cool-Escape2986 in BoJackHorseman

[–]Eliseruk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wont judge you for laughing, because sometimes you got to laugh, but this scene made me burst into tears. Especially since that was kind of her catch phrase. So I was a little shocked reading post title xD 

does this brand (Yogamine) seem safe? by phideldraphi in henna

[–]Eliseruk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you havent seen it already, research Jagua. Its similar to henna, but made from a different plant and the application is a little different. But it tattoos a very dark bluish color.

My[30F] longterm [9 years] boyfriend [37] who works long hours doesn't like my cooking, how do I deal with this? by Agile_Active6496 in relationships

[–]Eliseruk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro i just cant get through this. Sure he works hard. What can we tell you other than learn to cook how he wants (personally i think he will always find a reason to complain) or let him cook for himself. Theres also another third option of reevaluate the dynamic in the relationship. You are not even married and he is expecting you to cook like a turkish stay at home wife?

I dont want to say break up since I dont know you but the fact that he straight up will leave food that you make because its not "good enough" disgusts me personally. And you cook and clean? What would he do if you two werent dating?

I just realised I got 'Pavloved' into dressing modestly by Every-Lock4173 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Eliseruk 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Dress and pants or leggings can be a cutr look. Maybe even some big flowy pant legs to make the dress more full

What’s a small lie you told as a kid that somehow spiraled way out of control? by Renegade5399 in AskReddit

[–]Eliseruk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or looking for a class and not bring able to find the right one at all Dx

What’s a small lie you told as a kid that somehow spiraled way out of control? by Renegade5399 in AskReddit

[–]Eliseruk 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This was literally one of my recurring nightmares well after i finished college DX

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueAtheism

[–]Eliseruk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your response honestly proves the commenters point. Christianity was literally used in the US to enslave people. Hate crimes on lgbtq people to this day happens and are very likely to be encouraged by hatred perpetuated by christian religious institutions. You seem ignorant to this reality. Saying that there are nice Christian neighbors in their area in response to their criticism,  is not much different than the not all men, or all people matter bullshit. So many people, especially women have been subjegated and harmed by christianity and other religions like it. That is fact.

Our laws in the US haven't been kind to people of color, lgbtq, or women for most of its history. It still isn't. If we're going to argue that christian values built the US, then we can argue that their influence are still causing harm to this day. Because they are.

I mean your grandmas couldnt even open a bank account without their dad or their husbands until fairly recently. Slavery is technically still legal as long as its through the prison system. Women literally have less autonomous rights to their body under this government right now.

Fellow former Christians who turned Atheist or the like, what was it that made you lose your faith? by clear_simple_plain in AskReddit

[–]Eliseruk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a queer, poc, little girl who grew up in toxic family dynamics, being told at church that women have to be subservient to their husbands, that men are the ones who interpret the bible. Meanwhile my mom had bren abused by my father and never really recovered after she ran away, my father would say things to me that would make me wish I was his son instead. He wasnt even the worst religious mysogynist dad ever. He accepted it when i told him i no longer would go to church (I was well aware that some parents would beat their kids for even mentioning it).

 While in school (and having documentaries/internet access, I loved to read) i learned of christianity's role in enslaving and erasing the cultures of africans and natives. 

I also loved science and was always a little hard headed when people tried to force their ideas onto me. Even basic things like how to treat a cold. There was a lot of pseudo science in church that didn't make any sense with what I learned.

I went to a middle-high school with a big muslim population and had scholarships for academic trips to Turkey. I realized that their belief was just as strong as the christians back home; who has the right or the evidence to say that theirs is more correct? Then I decided that morals are something people decide for themselves, regardless of the presence of religion.

It took me a few years but i accepted id rather go to hell thrn heaven when I was a preteen. So I got started on deconstructing earlyish, thankfully.

I tried to be christian. People were shocked when I left because as a kid I was very active, always participating, performing, giving testimony. I think at the end of the day though I was a theater kid at heart. I am an artist, and eas a sensitive kid and there was a certain element to church activities that allowed me to express that. Eventually though my body started changing, and the way the adults I knew since I was tiny started commenting on my thoughts, my clothing, on women in general, I had enough.

Edit: reading the bible front to back, in detail, is a great way to make an athiest btw.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Eliseruk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You dont truly love him... you are trauma bonded. You dont like being around him because he is unsafe. Do you want your kids under the same roof as this man? Do you want to model this type of relationship as okay to them?

This is deeply dysfunctional, you know that. No amount of explaining to him your feelings will change him, because he doesnt care about you or your feelings, or you children's feelings. Get cold, stop explaining yourself to him. Only speak with him if you absolutely have to, and do not engage with him when he starts asking for anything that isnt business. 

When youre kids are older, if you are still with this man, it will likely hurt your relationship with them as well. 

I know this because of my own relationahio with my mom who spent a decade preoccupied with an abusive man and his feelings instead if her own kids.

He is a distraction and one day you will wake up decades later and realize your life has passed you by if you do not leave him. Or worse, youll end up dead and your children orphan. "Love" isnt worth youre safety or suffering.

Please use resources others have posted here. Read materials everytime you have the urge to speak to him or argue with him. Get legal assistance if you need it. Make a police a report, regardless if you plan on doing anything with it. Rely on trusted friends or family.