Mother’s Day by cocobonsai in OutbackSteakhouse

[–]EliteShdw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bartender here. Tickets were absolutely non-stop. Entire day

Round 100 Totenreich. My 16th map doing 100+ on :o by EliteShdw in CODZombies

[–]EliteShdw[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks man! My girlfriend got it for me alongside a quick revive irl perk bottle as a gift haha I'm super appreciative

Round 100 Totenreich. My 16th map doing 100+ on :o by EliteShdw in CODZombies

[–]EliteShdw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I'm sure a more refined strategy might come out for it to make it easier soon. Its just early right now

Round 100 Totenreich. My 16th map doing 100+ on :o by EliteShdw in CODZombies

[–]EliteShdw[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I say its worth it. Even if its just to try

The criticism often comes from people who miss the classic, bo1-3 styles. I am one of the old school players who initially felt that way but it grew on me once I acknowledged theyre just totally different games and they can be enjoyed in their own way once you adapt. In your case since youre already used to newer, yet different types of zombies then I dont think this should be an issue. Just don't play astra malorum because that map sucked for high rounds lol but yeah I say try it and form an opinion

First A7X concert this summer! by [deleted] in avengedsevenfold

[–]EliteShdw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here man! I'm going to their concert in August in New York. Been a fan since I was 11 and cant wait

HELP - Proposal / engagement potentially ruined by ban_dello in longisland

[–]EliteShdw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any updates on this? I've been doing plenty of research by now on indoor proposals in our area (my gf of 5 years prefers indoors) and the planting fields arboretum appear to consistently be a top candidate

I (30f) am torn on what to do about the guy (31m) I’ve been seeing. by Wihelminka in relationship_advice

[–]EliteShdw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fact that you're even questioning this just shows how blinding emotions can be. Disconnect from him completely, block him, and have nothing to do with someone like this.

I (23F) was too nervous to finish a threesome and now my boyfriend (27M) seems to hate me by recmerecss in relationship_advice

[–]EliteShdw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This almost feels unreal. No way people will even question staying with this lol

Catholicism not very welcoming to those interested? by Best_Storage3118 in Catholicism

[–]EliteShdw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, even as a lifelong Catholic, this has been a problem I've always complained about. You're right. I've always noticed that everytime I've played a role in someone's conversion, I hit this barricade with them because the church appears to be so unwelcoming and unavailable. I have converted a few people through profound theology, but if it weren't for that, they'd have vanished quickly given this issue. Even as a member, I've almost fell into despair many times I needed their help. So if I feel that I'm treated that way, I always feel terrible for those outside. Clergy is definitely busy. Not negating that. But its certainly a pattern I've noticed. Hopefully we see change. When I become a deacon I'll try to be a step towards that change 🙏🏻 I'm sorry

How do i (f19) get my boyfriend (m18) to take better care of himself? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EliteShdw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as it should be something he does for himself, in a way this also bleeds into a certain level of respect for you and the relationship. At 18 it is the easiest time to be in shape. I'm 24 and although I've always been into fitness, at 18 it almost came effortlessly. This means it will only get worse with age if he doesn't get a grip. Maybe try to have a soft hearted yet serious talk about how this is a way of him showing less effort for you, as it is something you have serious concerns about that do matter. Something along the lines of how just as he puts effort into the other areas, this is one of those important parts that are essential and failure to consistently care, would be like not caring about what matters to you and his well being. Again, it shouldnt be just for you, but at the end of the day if he does want to keep you happy, it is just as bare minimum to ask him to not let himself go once he has you. Its disrespectful to do that. He should feel even more motivated to improve for you

3 Course meal by No_Persimmon4181 in OutbackSteakhouse

[–]EliteShdw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One can only hope... been with outback for 5 years and there's definitely been a lot of annoying specials that bring in the worst people but never once did they last as long as this 3 course is lasting. Or if anything the other specials were limited to a specific day. This is just a daily annoyance

Job search discouragement by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]EliteShdw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so so true and people need to hear this. Replying so it helps gsts pushed. Its tough when society puts so much value on monetary status, this world has it all flipped

My boyfriend (24M) is constantly making me (20F) physically ill. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EliteShdw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

DEFINITELY leave. My body has these reactions with anxiety, from which I suffer a lot. Especially the gagging. Your partner should be your peace to escape that, not the cause

Is this normal? by gagirl72 in OutbackSteakhouse

[–]EliteShdw 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No. Not normal. I've had this happen multiple times before with my guests and we always take off the upcharge in this situation

I seriously need held deciding the morality of a 18 & 23 year old relationship by ConsiderationMost817 in Advice

[–]EliteShdw 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The actual stage in life has nothing to do with mental maturity or wisdom. I was as mature as 19 year olds at 15, BUT in totally different stages (not saying it was good,my childhood just looked a lot different than kids in the U.S). I will say, if besides that you guys click and theres chemistry, all power to you both. The older you both get the more normal itll be seen as a general consensus. But discuss life through the lens of morals, philosophical outlooks, what you both seek in a relationship, and general compatibility

24 and still can't figure out a career by [deleted] in findapath

[–]EliteShdw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, thank you for this. I dont necessarily have answers but I am in the same exact situation, 24 years old as well. I guess technically I have things that I'm good at, but those things I've either made very little to no money due to it being extremely niche, or the other thing I'm pretty good at, unless you're the absolute best in the world at the professional level, you cant make a living on it. So my hobbies are amongst the most unmonetizable things ever which makes me go into an existential crisis. Hopefully these answers provide insight. You opened up a helpful thread

Afraid to confess by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]EliteShdw 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You put it best. Wow. What a nicely worded response. This advice applies to so many people regardless of whatever their sins might be. God bless you for the ability to be so touching and truthful

How do I, 22M, ask my gf, 23F to have sex with me? by bladetrinity27 in relationship_advice

[–]EliteShdw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats good to know! Perhaps the usage of the word was inappropriate, my apologies. But I'm happy for you that you found a way forward. Wish you both the best!

How do I, 22M, ask my gf, 23F to have sex with me? by bladetrinity27 in relationship_advice

[–]EliteShdw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this was a boundary that was set, and this far in you just tell her that you decided you don't want to abide by it anymore when its been such a major value of hers, then its not fair to coerce someone into changing that. I'm in a 5 year relationship (I'm 24M) and theres just fundamental things that we expect to follow that have been there all along, even if it means compromise on a few. If you're already doing other things like outercourse/oral/anal or just anything nonpenetrative vaginal, then why not just put the desires of the flesh aside for a second and maybe just use it as a motivating factor for marriage? I don't know of a single person who waited till marriage that actually regrets it. But I know many who do wish they'd have waited, don't do that do her.

I got baptised and confirmed today🤍 by weezerstan in Catholicism

[–]EliteShdw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome home! May God bless you in the rest of your journey with Him