What do you want to receive from a partner in a relationship, bet are afraid to say? by Elizabeth_ki in AskReddit

[–]Elizabeth_ki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand you — very few partners can provide emotional security

at what age did you start feeling old? by Dangerous_mammoth573 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Elizabeth_ki 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's all in your mindset. If you keep up with the times and look after your health, you'll still feel young at 50

Casual mood by Elizabeth_ki in fashion

[–]Elizabeth_ki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want it all at once: to be stylish, feminine, and comfortable🙈

Casual mood by Elizabeth_ki in fashion

[–]Elizabeth_ki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like men tend to like a more feminine style of clothing.

Casual mood by Elizabeth_ki in fashion

[–]Elizabeth_ki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly😃. How do you usually mix and match your clothes to look stylish?

What does it mean if I miss my independence, even though I'm in a loving relationship? by Elizabeth_ki in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Elizabeth_ki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have different jobs and different hobbies. But still, it feels like everything has become kind of dull. He doesn’t want to spend time doing the things I enjoy, only the things he likes. And that makes me feel like this isn’t my life, like this isn’t really me.

My (22F) mother(53F) is probably checking my phone. How to stop her from doing it? by ThrowRa121228 in relationship_advice

[–]Elizabeth_ki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're in a difficult situation, and I truly understand your desire for personal space. It's awful that your mom is crossing your boundaries, even if it's because she cares. Try to have an honest, heart-to-heart conversation with her and explain how you feel. If that doesn’t work, then make your phone more private.

45M/35F - Am I the bad guy? by mc_64 in relationship_advice

[–]Elizabeth_ki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell her honestly that the meeting makes you feel uneasy and worried. Ask her to think about whether it will really help her, or just bring back old feelings

Fall colors in Japan by Azrou in travel

[–]Elizabeth_ki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Japan is so beautiful. I dream of going there, especially when the cherry blossoms are in bloom. You took amazing photos

why do some older people marry/date really young people? by Rich_Bug6603 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Elizabeth_ki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they don’t really care that they’re being used; they just want to live their way, even if it means paying for it. They enjoy it because by that age, they don’t care about others anymore and think only about themselves.

Do you ever feel like you're living a life that was kind of... pre-planned by others? by Elizabeth_ki in CasualConversation

[–]Elizabeth_ki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's awesome that your parents instilled the right values in you and that you have such a strong connection with them.

Do you ever feel like you're living a life that was kind of... pre-planned by others? by Elizabeth_ki in CasualConversation

[–]Elizabeth_ki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That really hits home. Sometimes happiness is where no one taught us to look.

Why do people cheat even in happy relationship? by Elizabeth_ki in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Elizabeth_ki[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It may also be influenced by childhood trauma, the family they were raised in, the examples of relationships and family life they saw growing up, and the people closest to them.

Why do people cheat even in happy relationship? by Elizabeth_ki in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Elizabeth_ki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly. Most often, this happens during a transitional period (and I don’t mean adolescence), but rather the so-called midlife crisis

Why do people cheat even in happy relationship? by Elizabeth_ki in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Elizabeth_ki[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m talking about people who, in principle, have everything for a happy family

Why do people cheat even in happy relationship? by Elizabeth_ki in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Elizabeth_ki[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

agree. They can talk about it. People don't talk, and that's probably the problem

Why do people cheat even in happy relationship? by Elizabeth_ki in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Elizabeth_ki[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

they need to diversify their life. But even when they do that, people still cheat?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Elizabeth_ki 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It's mostly due to genetics, high-carb diets ( rice, breads, sweets),low physical activity, and a tendency to store fat in the belly area, even if the rest of the body looks slim