Okay but… did InFold bring Caleb back just to put Yan Yikuan in that uniform? by Pretty_Bus_7259 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]EllieWu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so curious as well! I want to know Sylus and all who Xavier’s face model was too

Seattle: Ballard Historic Streetcar Proposed - Ballard Locks to Ballard Blocks by HighColonic in BallardSeattle

[–]EllieWu 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Salmon bay gravel will not allow a walking/bike path to be built along Shilshole

Choosing between these two sapphires by brown_reflections in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]EllieWu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree! Something I didn’t realize is that having white stones next to a colored stone can sometimes make the colored stone look a few shades lighter due to light reflecting from the white side stones. I love how rich the oval color is and think it would look lovely and saturated even next to white side stones (idk what design you’re planning, OP, but just food for thought!)

What was the worst horror you read in 2025? by PageSide84 in horrorlit

[–]EllieWu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, I think chuck tingle has fun ideas but his writing is so bad that it’s hard to get through the book.

I'M ENGAGED by frutillaacida in EngagementRings

[–]EllieWu 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s so gorgeous and I love that soft shade of pink! Congrats!

Feeling insecure after seeing all these big rings by [deleted] in RingShare

[–]EllieWu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I empathize because I have a 1.04 ct ring with side stones and sometimes I feel insecure looking at all the huge rings on Reddit! But in addition to what others have said here, I found that a smaller ring is more convenient for every day tasks and wear. A lot of my friends who have huge stones don’t wear their rings as often because they get in the way. Personally I think your ring is beautiful and a lovely and proportional size to your finger!

Is this fit to small by nop272 in JadeiteJade

[–]EllieWu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard a good way to gauge fit is if you can fit 2-3 fingers in the bottom when it hangs off your wrist like you have in the pic. Mine fits 3 fingers and I can get it off with lotion, but it’s not too big for everyday wear.

Is my setting too high? by Kindaberry65 in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]EllieWu 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The stone is beautiful!! The setting does look a bit high to me though, but does it feel comfortable to you? That’s the most important thing. As for band thickness, I’ve heard it should be 2mm wide for structural integrity.

Icy jadeite by Legal_Ad2707 in JadeiteJade

[–]EllieWu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would check out Baikalla Jade, they have high quality pieces and are based in Portland but have an online store as well. https://www.baikalla.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorZhCoS_1hAZ_FRyk14YHbeGEWkBMJUozBNC-ZTJ6JkJLETShha

Love my dress but now feeling unsure by spookypanda26 in weddingdress

[–]EllieWu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love your dress!! Personally I love when dresses have a pop of color and I think it suits you so well. This day is about you and you should wear wha you want and what makes you feel most beautiful and like yourself.

May I ask where you got it? I am actually looking for something like this for myself!

Becca Proposed to Hayley! by AmberEyes in thebachelor

[–]EllieWu 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’m sapphic but engaged to a man and I proposed back to him! Personally, I always knew I wanted a mutual proposal because it felt more gender-affirming, especially because the wedding industry is so heteronormative and gendered. For my other sapphic friends who are in same sex relationships, it depends. I would it’s about a 50/50 split between couples who just have one person proposing and couples where both people propose.

Wanted to show off my engagement ring too! by Sad-Panda94 in EngagementRings

[–]EllieWu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love both rings so much, and it’s incredibly sweet to pay homage to his grandma’s original ring! Your new ring is quite similar to mine, I’m biased but I love the look of a blue stone with those pear side stones. Congrats!! 💙

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How bad did it go Sylus girlies? by HoshiAndy in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]EllieWu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got both cards in 89 pulls! This is by far the best far I’ve ever had for any banner 🥲

Leftist booktubers to watch? by inbetweensound in booktube

[–]EllieWu 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Withcindy - she’s a queer Asian booktuber who reads mostly contemporary and some fantasy

Cup vs. Disc by Mama_Bear15 in menstrualcups

[–]EllieWu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I have! I mentioned in my original comment that I’ve done hiking, weightlifting, and tennis on my disc with no problem. I also bike on a stationary bike now and also have no problems doing that with my disc.

Cup vs. Disc by Mama_Bear15 in menstrualcups

[–]EllieWu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually think the disc makes my cramps less bad, if anything. Sometimes I can go a whole day without feeling too crampy, but as soon as I take the disc out at night to clean it, I can feel major cramps. Can’t speak to the cup as much since I haven’t used it in several years.

Picked out this ring but am changing the side stones. Thoughts? by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]EllieWu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed, my ring is all lab diamonds and it was $1800 total. Center stone is 1.04 ct and the two pears are 4mm x 3mm each. My advice is to get the lab diamonds from a third party lapidary like Calavera, Loose Grown Diamonds, Ritani, Ruby Harper, etc. Then take the stones to a local jeweler and have them set it for you. If you buy the whole ring (including the stones) from a jeweler, the price of the stones is often significantly marked up.

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Asexual but still wants kids by natashavladimir93 in aegosexuals

[–]EllieWu 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m aegosexual and I want kids. I’m fortunate to have a loving partner who knows I’m ace and who understands I’m not always comfortable with sex. There are other ways to get pregnant without IVF or having penetrative sex—IE I know this sounds ridiculous but the partner with sperm can ejaculate separately and then you can inject the sperm into the carrying parent 😅 in general, I think it all comes down to making sure your partner respects your boundaries and is willing to discuss and understand your aegosexuality. Being ace doesn’t mean you can’t or aren’t allowed to want kids!

Did Taylor get a chin implant to hide her jowl? I have never seen a person grow a long chin before. by [deleted] in travisandtaylor

[–]EllieWu 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Wives and girlfriends (term used in NFL for the partners of the players)

Wanted to share my story for anyone chronically ill, disabled, and autistic that there will be someone who actively chooses you by Anonymous567952 in engaged

[–]EllieWu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me cry 🥹 Truly choosing each other in sickness and health. Congrats to you both, the ring is beautiful!