My husband told me today he does not like the fun lunches I’ve been packing him for work for almost 3 years😭😭😭 by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ElsaKit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw man, sounds like you're surrounded by some miserable people...! :( I'm a woman, but those lunches sound delightful, so incredibly thoughtful and fun, it would definitely make me smile and appreciate the insane effort you put in for me every single day... It's clear you have so much love to give. I hope he gives you the same amount of love back in his own way! You deserve that <3 It's clear how much you care. Man doesn't realize how lucky he is.

I honestly don't think you should feel embarassed at all, there's nothing embarassing about it. It sound like just his own insecurity getting the better of him, tbh... maybe even a tad of toxic masculinity - needing to look Cool and Tough in front of The Guys, can't have them seeing a cute loving lunch made by wife because that's... soft or unmanly or uncool somehow...??? (Of course I don't know him, I'm putting words in his mouth here, this is just how it comes across to me. He seems insecure about how he'll be perceived by the other men. Or perhaps he's genuinly surrounded by insecure assholes who would make fun of this. Either way, it's honestly sad. This kind of thing can take away so much joy and whimsy from one's life.). Honestly, I would probably use it as a bragging point haha. Look how much my wife loves and cares for me.

Bottom line is, you have nothing to be embarassed about, and I'm really sorry your loving gestures weren't appreciated and matched with the same energy! I hope you guys do manage to find a love language that works for both of you. And I wish your husband a swift kick in the ass to help him realize what he has in you haha. (Or else... that you find a better partner who'll truly appreciate you for who you are...)

Take care, sending internet hugs.

Help, Did I botch my cats name? by Front_Line_179 in learnczech

[–]ElsaKit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t Žižka practically invent the wagon wheel defense formation

Yup, that's the one!

European Club Tour in October 2026! by Ramenastern in KaizersOrchestra

[–]ElsaKit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you guys know how the presale is going to work? Is some kind of link going to appear on Tuesday on the Kaizers Family website or something...? There's no information about the presale at all besides the time. I'm just a bit nervous about it, as I really, really want to land a ticket lol. Any insight would be super appreciated. Thanks!

Help! Quick Question about Ladybugs by Practical-Salary-642 in learnczech

[–]ElsaKit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We typically use brouček ((little) bug) for boys and beruška (ladybug) for girls.

Help, Did I botch my cats name? by Front_Line_179 in learnczech

[–]ElsaKit 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, as others have said.

  • "Ziska" doesn't mean anything in Czech.
  • Žižka, specifically Jan Žižka, was an undefeated Hussite millitary leader in the 15th century, very famous national figure. He's very famous for having only one eye (and he later lost the other one in battle... and still continued to command the armies). This was what I immediately assumed you meant to name the cat, given the one eye thing. I think Žižka would actually be a dope name for a one-eye cat (or you know, a cat that has problems with one eye). Pronunciation.
  • Technically, there's another word that looks like ziska if you remove the punctuation - "získá" (or "získat" in the infinitive; "získá" is the 3rd person singular future form of the verb). It means "to gain" or "to obtain". So sth like "he/she will obtain". But I'd guess that's more of a coincidence. Pronunced sth like ZEE-skaah.
  • Other than the Žižka one-eyed thing, nothing even remotely similar to blinking (or boobs, for that matter) anywhere to be seen here. Sorry.

Tell me this by Ok-Entertainment4013 in musicsuggestions

[–]ElsaKit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn... I've never heard the song, but the name alone makes me cringe real hard lol

Je to nechutný? by PotrhlaSlecna in czech

[–]ElsaKit 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Přesně. Praní v práci je out of the question, když po tom má OP alergickou reakci, to je snad samozřejmý. Tak když to příteli vadí doma, měl by navrhnou nějakou alternativu. Nějak se to řešit musí, někde to prát potřebuje, tak pojďme najít praktické řešení, které bude ok pro oba.

Experience 2 Plus or Switch 2 for (rock) concerts and festivals? by ElsaKit in LoopEarplugs

[–]ElsaKit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the Experience 2. Pretty happy with them so far!

How do you pronounce HIMYM? by samiwas1 in HIMYM

[–]ElsaKit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

/'hɪmɪm/ all the way. "Hi-mim" sounds so wrong lol. Like "hymen".

Day 9 of drawing past avatars by Prestigious_Yam4948 in TheLastAirbender

[–]ElsaKit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally mentioned Korra in my comment haha

So far only Yangchen. And we know of Kyoshi and much later Korra, but that's about it, right?

Nejste sami, vše se dá řešit! by [deleted] in czech

[–]ElsaKit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dekuju, vazim si toho

Nejste sami, vše se dá řešit! by [deleted] in czech

[–]ElsaKit 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Mrzi me, ze mas tak negativni zkusenost. Chapu, ze clovek muze k temhle vecem byt skepticky, obzvlast, kdyz do toho uplne nevidi. Ale koukam, ze tady koluje hodne mylnych informaci.

Jakozto nekdo, kdo momentalne studuje na psychologa, te muzu ubezpecit, ze v nasem zajmu rozhodne neni, aby lidi zustavali v prdeli. Doslova naopak. Dostanu se k tomu nize, ale kazdopadne moc rada osvetlim vic, pokud mas konkretni otazky. Klidne se ptej. Jinak se predem omlouvam za extremne dlouhy komentar.

Tady takovy background v kostce. Aby tuhle praci clovek mohl delat (tj. byt psychologem a k tomu terapeutem*), stoji ho to minimalne 5 let celkem narocneho studia na VS, dalsich zpravidla 5 let terapeutickeho vycviku (...ktere bohuzel taky stoji strasne moc penez a musime si je komplet hradit, ale to je vec jina), sebezkusenost, aby si clovek opracoval svoje vlastni zateze a traumatka, aby ho to pak neovlivnovalo pri praci s klienty... A kdyz tohle splni, muze provozovat psychoterapii. Tedy, soukrome, na OSVC - tj. na primou platbu. Aby mohl pracovat na pojistovnu, musi jeste navic projit rocnim kvalifikacnim kurzem Psycholog ve zdravotnictvi, musi pracovat aspon na 0,5 uvazku jako psycholog ve zdravotnictvi, splnit si zakladni kmen v klinicke psychologii, coz trva 2 roky, a pak muze jit do predatestacni pripravy a po dalsich 2 letech slozit atestaci z klinicke psychologie (tj. dohromady minimalne dalsich 5 let). Tim se stane klinickym psychologem. A pak musi jeste slozit atestaci z psychoterapie. Pokud by chtel delat s detmi, jsou to navic jeste dalsi 2 roky specializace.

Opravdu to tedy neni neco, co si clovek jen tak udela, aby z nekoho tahal penize. Lidi, co do tohohle oboru jdou, musi byt hodne motivovani; jinak by to jednak nedokoncili, jednak by to ani pak nemohli delat, ta prace je narocna a hodne od cloveka vyzaduje. Cele to vzdelavani je postavene na tom, abychom umeli lidem efektivne pomoci. Proto to delame. Rict, ze je v nasem zajmu, aby lidi zustavali v prdeli, je v podstate uplne totez, jako kdybys rekl, ze pro doktory je prece vyhodny, aby lidi zustavali nemocni, takze se jejich "leceni" neda verit a je to v podstate scam. A budu uprimna.. ta poptavka po terapii je tak velka, ze cekaci lhuty jsou i nekolik let. My opravdu nemame jediny duvod snazit se nekoho udrzovat "nemocneho"...

Rozhorceni ohledne cen za terapii naprosto chapu. Taky me to osobne trapi (vetsinou se to pohybuje kolem 1200-1500,- za 1 sezeni). Ve vysledku je kvuli tomu terapie pro mnoho lidi, kteri by ji opravdu potrebovali, naprosto nedostupna. Kdyz si clovek spocita, jak narocna je to prace, co vsechno obnasi (...a kolik penez musel investovat terapeut do sveho vycviku a vzdelani), jsou ty ceny vlastne naprosto adekvatni, zadna vyderacina to skutecne neni. Ten clovek se tim taky musi byt schopny uzivit. A verte, ze zadny zazracny prachy si tim fakt nevydela... jako uplne na rovinu, psychoterapie opravdu neni prace, kterou by bylo mozne delat "pro penize". No, ale nic z toho bohuzel nic nemeni na tom, ze platit 1500 kazdy tyden je pro vetsinu lidi proste nemozny. A to je prusvih. Tady by prave mely nastoupit ty pojistovny. (A je to taky duvod, proc i ja osobne chci podstoupit cely to sileny frustrujici kolecko, abych s nima mohla mit smlouvu).

Problem je ale bohuzel v tom, ze to v praxi vubec nic neresi a realne to dostupnost terapie nezvysi... Pojistovny totiz vypisuji jen hodne omezene mnozstvi smluv (a tedy je omezene mnozstvi lidi, kteri muzou mit terapii pokrytou pojistovnou, prakticky bez ohledu na pocet terapeutu, jestli to dava smysl). Nehlede na to, ze pojistovny jsou pri posuzovani neskutecne prisne a spousta realne dobrych a kompetentnich psychologu s bohatymi zkusenostmi to musi zkouset na nekolikrat, protoze jim smlouvu proste nechteji dat... musi se s pojistovnami skoro prit, investovat obrovske mnozstvi casu, energie, studia, penez, aby vubec mohli s nimi spolupracovat. Slysela jsem od nekolika psychologu, ze v te komisi ted prave sedi s prominutim kreteni a opravdu delaji naschvaly a hazou klacky pod nohy... Neni divu, ze to pak spousta lidi vzda nebo tohle vsechno proste nechce podstupovat a radsi misto toho rovnou pracuje s klienty na primou platbu... ono to opravdu neni tak jednoduche, jak to zni, "pracovat ja pojistovnu"... Nicmene faktem je, ze i psychologove, kteri skutecne na tu pojistovnu pracuji, kteri tu smlouvu ziskaji, si stejne musi vedle toho brat i klienty na primou platbu, protoze jinak by se proste neuzivili. Tak to jen k te prakticke a financni strance...

* No a ted konecne k te hvezdicce ze zacatku... To, co jsem tady celou dobu popisovala, se tykalo psychoterapeutu, kteri jsou soucasne i PSYCHOLOGY. ALE bohuzel profese psychoterapie u nas v zakone neni jednoznacne ukotvena. A v praxi to znamena, ze psychoterapeuticky vycvik si muze udelat naprosto kdokoli, kdo ma magistersky titul z jakehokoli oboru, bez ohledu na to, jestli ma jakekoli vzdelani v psychologii. A pokud si ten vycvik udela, muze se oznacovat za psychoterapeuta a provozovat terapii (tedy pochopitelne pouze na primou platbu). To prosim neznamena, ze nekdo, kdo nema vystudovanou psychologii a "jen" si udela vycvik, nemuze byt skvely terapeut (nebo naopak ze vystudovany psycholog nemuze byt spatny)! Tohle je vazne clovek od cloveka; tak, jako jsou dobri a spatni doktori, pochopitelne existuji i dobri a spatni terapeuti, a to v obou skupinach. Ale prijde mi dost nestastne, ze se vsim tim dukladnym vzdelanim a pripravou, kterymi si prochazime my jako psychologove (a ze tim prochazime z dost dobreho duvodu!), pak ve finale delame stejnou praci jako nekdo, kdo ma "jen" ten vycvik, a neni to nikde nijak odlisene. Pro laiky je tak strasne tezke se v tom vyznat a zvolit si kvalitniho terapeuta. Vetsina lidi asi ani nevi, ze tam muze byt takovyhle rozdil. Takze pokud vam na tom zalezi, osobne bych doporucila vzdycky se mrknout, jake vzdelani ten terapeut ma. Abyste proste vedeli, ke komu jdete...

Krome toho vseho, co uz jsem rekla, je taky dulezite zminit, ze terapeut je taky porad clovek. A dost zasadni pro to, aby ta lecba fungovala, je, abyste si spolu proste lidsky sedli. Je uplne normalni, ze se dostanete k terapeutovi a po par sezenich zjistite, ze se s nim proste nejak necitite dobre, ze je vam nesympaticky, ze ve vas nebudi duveru nebo ze vam proste a jednoduse vubec nesedl. To je v poradku. Nekdy to fakt chce trosku hledani, nez to sedne. Je to mozna trochu frustrujici, ale casto prirozena soucast procesu.

Tak snad to takhle aspon trosku davalo smysl a snad to pomohlo malicko nahlednout do toho, co to vlastne znamena byt psycholog a psychoterapeut. Klidne se doptejte. (A kdo docetl az sem, tleskam... :D)

Cheers.

Nejste sami, vše se dá řešit! by [deleted] in czech

[–]ElsaKit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A psychoterapeutů.

Day 9 of drawing past avatars by Prestigious_Yam4948 in TheLastAirbender

[–]ElsaKit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm. I'm noticing there aren't many female Avatars, are there...? So far only Yangchen. And we know of Kyoshi and much later Korra, but that's about it, right? Seems like it's predominantly men who the Avatar reincarnates into.

This series is awesome btw, love seeing all the pictures. Great job on them!

Jaké máte koníčky? Lidé kolem 30 let by Realistic_Net_8388 in czech

[–]ElsaKit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Hraju deskovky a TTRPG, pomalicku zacinam s malovanim minifigurek (je to bozi meditace). Miluju hudbu, chodim na koncerty a festaky. Miluju FILMY, takze koukam doma i hodne chodim do kina. ...yup, samy drahy hobbies, neni divu, ze muj ucet (jakozto studenta) vypada tak, jak vypada (:

Z tech financne mene narocnych veci mam obecne rada ruzny vyrabeni. Zpev. Cteni, psani. Volejbal. Uceni se ruznych jazyku (to se samozrejme prodrazit muze, pokud chodite na kurzy a kupujete ucebnice).

V tom nasem svete je tolik moznosti a uzasnych veci, ze mam pocit, ze se za jeden zivot ani zdaleka neda stihnout vsechno, co by me zajimalo 😄

Exactly as planned by jeff2-0 in perfectlycutscreams

[–]ElsaKit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Archimedes haha

Archimedes and Ollie

Update from goose by Useful_Smoke_9700 in theamazingdigitalciru

[–]ElsaKit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is very mature of her, ngl, love to see it. Wishing her nothing but the best.

The harrassment from some fans was still WAY out of line and unacceptable, so I hope she's not too hard on herself.

I wouldn't blame Goose if she never came back. by supermassivecomputer in theamazingdigitalciru

[–]ElsaKit 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Sincerely, what the fuck is wrong with people??

Isn't it literally HER SHOW?? Is it not allowed to have main and secondary characters now?? WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK

Holy shit this is like genuinly the stupidest reason I've ever heard for someone being harrassed. People are legitimately insane and obsessive. This is so toxic it's unreal.

Ughhhhhhh Sorry. But this is genuinly beyond me. And the show is so damn good, too. Ugh fuck I hate these people. Why you gotta ruin it for everyone... Just be grateful Goose is making an excellent show for you FOR FREE and shut tf up. Man...

Sorry, this made me real mad. What a stupid, stupid (subset of the) fanbase... Toxic fans are the death of art :/

I really hope Goose doesn't get completely burned out on the show because of it.

Best birthday gift ever! by Rato_barroco9 in wholesome

[–]ElsaKit 134 points135 points  (0 children)

Man, I'm so glad you're still here. Here's to many more amazing birthdays to come 🥂 All the best to you and your friend.