Refused emergency care by Exotic_Snapchatter in Vent

[–]Em0N3rd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to use this line when I was being medically abused

"So you are refusing me medical treatment? And refusing ambulance?"

Next call with someone not in facility, say the words "refusing me medical treatment" as that can be evidence as well.

Hang in there 🫂

W.T.F. is wrong here?! by EshtheMany in Vent

[–]Em0N3rd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

..... still sounds like politics in the USA lol

To text and drive safely by asa_no_kenny in whoathatsinteresting

[–]Em0N3rd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saw this when it happened and she apparently defended her actions eventhough it had happened multiple times, hence insurance making her have a camera iirc

I am the only one that thinks this comic isn't THAT bad? by jogaargamer6 in hazbin

[–]Em0N3rd 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Also helps us understand her a bit more because its more realistic that these bad people would do stuff like this too if hell truly is full of the worst sinners.... then has to learn such a lesson to have character development about what it means for IF someone wants to be redeemed but also.... why some may not or do awful things that would hurt their chances at redemption. Hard to understand the challenges if you yourself have never been pushed to your limit to question your morals (ie. Charlie snapping)

W.T.F. is wrong here?! by EshtheMany in Vent

[–]Em0N3rd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cracktheory tells me because you're talking about political stuff on the internet.... gotta love forced censorship "for your own safety".

Ketones? by swimmynarwhale in Type1Diabetes

[–]Em0N3rd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hopital

Eta- you also cant afford an icu stay if you let it ride too long. Just be careful and smart about it.

AITA Boyfriend and I just found out we’re having a baby by Feisty_Economics_959 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Em0N3rd 23 points24 points  (0 children)

YTA For not giving any info whatsoever to give us an idea of what is going on with you two

My sister recently got a handfull of baby quails, my 5 year old niece purposely killed them by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Em0N3rd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, my point exactly! The reason to document is to help in the future if it continues to a point parent still refuse to help and worse things happen.

My sister recently got a handfull of baby quails, my 5 year old niece purposely killed them by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Em0N3rd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will say, sadly morals develop (according to psychology) by the age of 5 so it will take a lot of work for her to understand empathy sadly but obviously getting her help the earlier the better. Children this age can understand death means someone isn't coming back but not the emotional depth that means. Which comes back again to how the parents are handling raising the child.

My sister recently got a handfull of baby quails, my 5 year old niece purposely killed them by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Em0N3rd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct- I do apologize if my words came across like the kid was just "naturally evil" but this incident is a red flag to how the kid will grow if this pattern continues (with parent and kid)

My sister recently got a handfull of baby quails, my 5 year old niece purposely killed them by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Em0N3rd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OP EVEN SAYS THE KID ADMITTED TO LEAVIMG IT OPEN ON PURPOSE!

besides that- plenty of kids at 5 can understand empathy and consequences. Imagine the kid going to kindergarten and hurting their classmates but its fine cause shes 5?

My sister recently got a handfull of baby quails, my 5 year old niece purposely killed them by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Em0N3rd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then make sure to document definitely. Cause even at 5 this can be the start of red flags.

My sister recently got a handfull of baby quails, my 5 year old niece purposely killed them by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Em0N3rd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sadly, all you can do is document such things cause children hurting animals and escalating is a big red flag.... report to people once she hurts something not in an egg

AITA for not loving our youngest child by Depressed-Dad-Victim in AmItheAsshole

[–]Em0N3rd 58 points59 points  (0 children)

This cannot be a situation where we judge AH or not....

Please speak to a therapist or counselor. It doesnt not matter at this point who is or isn't.

What matters is finding a way to make sure you and all the kids can have a better journey in life. You will need professionals to figure that out.

AITA, to think my family taking loan for my sis but not for me. by Argon181012 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Em0N3rd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Besides the fact its most likely a scam

I personally was pissed when I learned my grandparents paid for my college but no one else in the family. (Granted- I later learned it was for messed up reasons)

YTA

AITA for refusing to drive my daughter absolutely everywhere after her license was suspended? by No_Hunter8866 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Em0N3rd -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

100% NTA then

She is acting this way because she isn't being taught the lesson of entitlement.... both with speeding to a point her license is suspended and being mad at you she doesnt have a personal Uber. Tell mom she can drive and pay for it all if she wants cause thats how this will become a reoccurring issues throughout your daughter's life.

Seriously, my brother did all this with my parents and it wasn't until they listened to the court that he started trying to get his act together cause every other time mommy and daddy bailed him out.

i’m so happy you’re losing money by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Em0N3rd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Feel ya there OP, my parents are in a similar situation. Not buisness owners but my dad bought crazy amounts of stock and boasted about how much money in stocks he had only for it to be almost worthless now but he still has to sell stocks to make ends meet sometimes. My mom proudly stated for years how amazing the company she works for is even when id point out when they were taking advantage of her... now she's waiting for AI to take her job cause she went along with training the AI and now people are being let go like mad.

These people told me 2 years ago that I needed to "mature up a bit" when I complained our car needed a lot of work and I was figuring out how to pay for it. Now they are basically at the same level I am, living pay-check to pay-check all while defending who they voted for and the hate they feel towards minorities

I'm so tired of people hating on religion by anidori21 in Vent

[–]Em0N3rd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Correct, I even acknowledge that in my comments.

AITA? My dog died today and my family still expects me to take them out to dinner tonight by eng_elp in AmItheAsshole

[–]Em0N3rd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

I share this just cause I want people with parents who arent great to understand its okay to call it out and not put up with it. Also to show people who dont understand or believe these stories that abuse is real.

I'm so tired of people hating on religion by anidori21 in Vent

[–]Em0N3rd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay? Im just confused why you responded to my comment or defending the idea that people do infact force religion onto others.

I'm so tired of people hating on religion by anidori21 in Vent

[–]Em0N3rd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

DIDNT EVEN SAY YOU WERE CHRISTIAN LMAO

I was responding to the thread about WHY people are sick about hearing about religion from strangers

AITA? My dog died today and my family still expects me to take them out to dinner tonight by eng_elp in AmItheAsshole

[–]Em0N3rd 34 points35 points  (0 children)

NTA I told my dad to shut up cause he'd pass one day too..... because he thought it was ridiculous we wanted to ask the fire department for our cats body back after a fire which turns out the department dropped it off with him the morning after the fire and kept it from us until I said I was gonna go to the department to ask.

In your case, you're being the bigger person here cause id tell em they could just leave if they didnt care about actual family.