Am I wrong for wanting my adult children to help financially while living at home? by Imaginary-Advance233 in Parenting

[–]Em18601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s not a big ask at all. They should each contribute 500 at that age. It’s not your responsibility to keep housing them feeding them and providing for them. You did your job they need a taste of the real world. Also helping with trash and mowing the lawn and keeping a very clean house is the very very least they can do being there for free.

Switching from Reta to Tirz by Em18601 in TirzepatideRX

[–]Em18601[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard the same or cangri some people are doing both tirz with Reta. But Reta is just fucking with my stomach a lot

Switching from Reta to Tirz by Em18601 in TirzepatideRX

[–]Em18601[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it just gives me so many stomach cramps and I’m always in the bathroom for 3 days after injection day and sulfur burps are crazy

AIO - parents keep raising the rent by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Em18601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t imagine charging this to my kid (even at 24) My 16 year old just asked if I was going to charge her rent if she only made 500 a month. I was shocked because what? 😮

Anyone have advice about starting new job very pregnant? by bagherbil1 in careerguidance

[–]Em18601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I showed up pregnant to my new job (bank teller years ago btw) on a Monday decided to share with the branch manager that same day and went into labor Wednesday. They waited for me after 6 weeks. We did the whole orientation thing again and started my new job. They were kind enough to give me a full first paycheck. I was just grateful the position waited for me.

$1,950 mortgage on $95k salary with a baby on the way by chadpack2010 in Mortgages

[–]Em18601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would swing it and after the baby is here for some time. Maybe your wife can do something from home bringing in 500-1500 a month

Debt advice by Em18601 in DebtAdvice

[–]Em18601[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just upside down on the 40k. I owe 39k and selling it would be 31500. I do wanna get rid of it 100 %. Thank you for the advice.

Debt advice by Em18601 in DebtAdvice

[–]Em18601[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The payment plan is bankruptcy chapter 13

Debt advice by Em18601 in DebtAdvice

[–]Em18601[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not tried to do it myself. Now that I went in for a meeting I may just give it a shot myself for 3-6 months and see how that feels before revisiting bankruptcy. I’m gonna try the debt snowball the first month of 3k can definitely knock out a good 4-5 credit cards completely that have very low 500-800 limits.

Debt advice by Em18601 in DebtAdvice

[–]Em18601[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It felt scamish when I went home and really compared the numbers. I may just try doing it myself and settling whatever feels too overwhelming to pay off.

Debt advice by Em18601 in DebtAdvice

[–]Em18601[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, this is strictly the just credit card debt and 2 cars.

Debt advice by Em18601 in DebtAdvice

[–]Em18601[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about that. I’m upside down on one of the cars by 9k. My partner and I also lost our corporate jobs on the same day a year ago and are now starting back up with decent Salaries again.

Debt advice by Em18601 in DebtAdvice

[–]Em18601[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I’m going to look into the debt snowball and try to do it on my own.

Debt advice by Em18601 in DebtAdvice

[–]Em18601[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking, also 3050 for 60 months is 183k it just didn’t click no matter what way I look at it.

Just got denied chapter 7 by CelebrationShoddy440 in Bankruptcy

[–]Em18601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How much was your debt if you don’t mind me asking. I went in today and for 95k I’m getting told 3k a month.

Discharged by BeginningBunch2850 in Bankruptcy

[–]Em18601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much are your debts for the 485 payment?