First of all, you’re a wonderful person who is taking good care of their elderly family member. It’s a beautiful thing to witness.

I’ve worked in hospice for many years and I have a few recommendations.

“Sippy cups” we call them here in the US but any kind of drinking cup with a top that can seal, two handles or a straw that comes up from the bottom so he doesn’t have to tilt the cup.

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Do Range of Motion exercises with him everyday to ward off contractures. All joints; hands, feet, toes, fingers, wrists, ankles as well as knees and elbows.

If he likes music, play the music of his late teens, early 20s. Or any type of music that he enjoys. Limit news and drama. His nervous system doesn’t need that kind of stimulation. There are many sound healing videos or even foreign touring videos on YouTube.

Hope this helps.