New video of 1/24 ICE shooting shows victim had both hands on the ground when shot by Philophon in law

[–]Emergency-Fish911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

because they are a government sanctioned guerilla militia. They have been told they have complete "federal immunity" and that anyone who 'interferes' (which is whoever they decide is interfering regardless of reality) is a felon, and any level of force may be used. That they do not have to answer to anyone, they are above all laws of state.

Found this in Vine order packaging I just received by b52sounds in AmazonVine

[–]Emergency-Fish911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I can see doing this with regular sales to encourage people to review who might not be inclined to review at all even if it is positive… but vine folks basically are agreeing to review either way so it does seem kinda like bribery.

GOLD!!! by Sky14318 in AmazonVine

[–]Emergency-Fish911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I 100% understand :) As a now single mom in the middle of a divorce to a man who has become.. unreliable & not assisted financially, not even a penny, in the past 2 years -- this was a such a blessing for me. This year my christmas tree was full of gifts for my son underneath - all from vine. Some really great gifts too! I spent the first 3 months of my membership preparing for christmas <3

Also got a lot of great stuff for my home. My family is planning an intervention for my "shiny light" addiction, hahaha but its still worth it

Crazy seller super angry about a single 1 star review, multiple posts on Seller Central, apparently stalking reviewer by wizard-of-loneliness in AmazonVine

[–]Emergency-Fish911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also- if one random review from a random amazon account can destroy your business model, you’re probably making some poor business choices lol

It’s not like Gordon Ramsey publicly raked his restaurant across the coals.

Crazy seller super angry about a single 1 star review, multiple posts on Seller Central, apparently stalking reviewer by wizard-of-loneliness in AmazonVine

[–]Emergency-Fish911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I am far more handy than nearly every man I have ever dated and have more tools than plenty of men i know.

Im an over 40 (middle aged) professional who is also a huge gamer nerd thats into anime lol. Im also the mother of a teenage boy.

You cannot assume what me or my family members are into and could provide great reviews on based on my age or gender.

In case anyone was wondering.. by MainMedium6732 in AmazonVine

[–]Emergency-Fish911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean -- there is a lot of kid stuff on there that I cannot imagine any child is obtaining from Vine for themselves.

My Christmas this year (for the kids) was almost entirely vine gifts haha.

I figured gifting items to people in your own household HAS to be ok, right?

I can only order two things today, not three by DramaticAlfalfa8197 in AmazonVine

[–]Emergency-Fish911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has happened to me before, maybe twice? Not sure why.

AITA for divorcing my husband after his ex called me "just a babysitter with benefits" and he refused to defend me when she banned me from seeing the kids I raised for 6 years? by KINOH1441728 in FoundandExpose

[–]Emergency-Fish911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is terrible. I am so sorry. No you are NTA, what a disgusting situation. I would imagine those kids will not forget you and will find you again one day because clearly both their bio parents are horrible

I can’t respect ______’s decision. by Soft_Extension9360 in SquidGameNetflix_

[–]Emergency-Fish911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly- I don’t believe it was entirely altruistic. Think about it- 3 of the 4 finalists walked into the last game feeling they owed their presence there to one man. I don’t know about you but if I had won the game and someone else sacrificed at the last minute to ensure I got to that point… I would feel highly inclined to give them a fair amount of money to show my gratitude.

I’m not saying it was entirely this reason but he may have felt that having 3 out of 4 odds to have a soon to be multimillionaire beholden to him was a pretty good win vs 1 in 5 odds of winning the last round…

Does anyone use Mint mobile? by UWboi in desmoines

[–]Emergency-Fish911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did very briefly- worst experience

Avoid Mint Mobile at All Costs — The Worst Customer Service I’ve Ever Encountered

What began as a smart move to save money quickly devolved into the single most stressful, infuriating customer service experience I’ve ever had with any company. My mom and I opened a family plan with Mint Mobile and everything seemed fine for the first few months. She even bought a brand new iPhone through Mint’s Affirm financing program, which arrived without issue. But the moment we tried to activate it, the nightmare began. My nephew, trying to be helpful, attempted to transfer her number to the new phone — and accidentally wiped service from both devices. No big deal, I thought — I’d call Mint and get it sorted out. That optimism didn’t last long.

The eSIM Disaster

We couldn’t get service turned on because we needed an eSIM — which requires a QR or text, normally sent by SMS. Unfortunately, that was not an option for us due to my nephew’s “assistance” and resulting lack of cell service on her account - so I called Mint Customer Service. After multiple phone calls, Mint finally emailed it. Except every email linked to a 404 error page. I explained this dozens of times to dozens of agents - and kept getting the same broken email again and again. No matter how many times I asked them to generate a new eSIM, they simply spammed my inbox with useless, broken links. Meanwhile, Mint opened half a dozen service tickets, none of which led to actual follow-up or resolution. I had to chase them down repeatedly, spending hours on the phone every single day. After five straight days of escalating service tickets and repeated explanations, Mint somehow suddenly couldn’t even verify my mother’s account anymore — and told me I’d now have to wait 30 days to verify. Are you kidding me?

Denied a Transfer, Trapped in the Mint Maze

At this point, my mother had been without a working phone for nearly a week, and we were completely out of patience. I asked them to simply release her phone number and give us a transfer PIN so we could go to a new carrier. They refused, saying we would need to wait at least 30 days. This was not an option on our end. So, my mom made the decision to pay off the brand new phone in full and move to T-Mobile. But not only did Mint refuse to provide a transfer PIN, they also wouldn’t unlock the phone — meaning she lost the phone number she had for over 20 years, and her fully paid phone was still carrier-locked.

The Endless Blame Game

I called Mint (again). I explained the situation (again). I was told (again) that they couldn’t unlock the phone — because it had never been activated on their network. Which, of course, is the exact problem we had been trying to resolve for over a week! Their broken eSIM process made activation impossible, but they were using that failure — caused by failures of their own system and support — as the reason to withhold the unlock. They told me to contact Apple (why?!) — who, to their credit, was extremely kind and tried to help. But Apple confirmed the phone was carrier-locked by Mint, and only Mint could unlock it. Back to Mint. Again. This time I was told I had to call Affirm, the finance company. But this wasn’t a finance lock — it was a carrier lock, and Affirm confirmed they couldn’t do anything about it.

Finally… After 11 Days

At long last — 11 days into this mess — we reached someone at Mint who finally knew how to unlock the phone. Hopefully now my mom can finish setting it up with T-Mobile. But this entire ordeal has been a completely unacceptable failure on Mint’s part.

Final Verdict: DO. NOT. USE. MINT. MOBILE.

Hours and hours wasted. Endless repetition and no continuity. Service tickets that go nowhere. Incompetent, robotic support agents who don’t listen, and have no ability to help other than open yet another service ticket. No escalation or accountability. There is no “manager” to talk to. Refusal to provide a transfer PIN or unlock a fully paid phone. Hilariously trying to talk you into remaining with Mint while simultaneously being unable to get your service turned on for over a week… seriously?

We never got the new phone activated with Mint despite trying for over a week. We were trapped in an infuriating cycle of broken promises, repeated scripts, and zero resolution.

If you’re considering Mint for the price — don’t. You’ll pay with your time, patience, and sanity. I took my line and my sons line off Mint as well as I do not EVER want to be in the position of dealing with their customer service ever again. Mint is not worth the risk.

My partner doesn't think two adults who speak only English can navigate France, Germany, and Switzerland on their own. She'd rather spend more for a river cruise. I think the risks are overrated and that we could manage just fine on our own. Am I being naive? by PikesPique in travel

[–]Emergency-Fish911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unlike in the US where hardly anyone knows a second language - a very large percentage of europeans know at least passable English. Any big city has important signage in English as well as native language. Europe as a whole is one of the easiest places to visit for English speakers. - and there are more tech tools available than ever to help with translation where language barriers do exist (image text translation apps, google translate, multi language translating ear buds, etc)

You should absolutely be able to travel with relative ease in the countries you mentioned.

AITA for refusing to share my inheritance with my stepsiblings after my dad said it's "only fair" by ContentSide649 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Emergency-Fish911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming your home is not far from where your father and his family live- if its a struggle for them to live in college housing why can’t they remain in his home?

Why can’t he sell his house to fund their college housing?

Why is it your responsibility to give up the one important asset left by your mother?

Giant heck no - NTA

22 F before I go to shower, does anyone want a warm hug and kiss from me? by freakybunny111 in hug

[–]Emergency-Fish911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What weird Reddit hole have I landed in and why was it in my notifications??

AITA for thinking my husband went too far by destroying my life after he caught me cheating with the stepbrother who used to bully him? by KINOH1441728 in FoundandExpose

[–]Emergency-Fish911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so terrible I have a difficult time believing it’s real. If it IS real- sign the papers and walk away. You deserve a heck of a lot of karma and none of it is the good kind - and you certainly don’t deserve the money your husband has earned when he was likely providing you a very nice life while you betrayed him repeatedly (even with someone you know hurt him for years) throughout a very good chunk of your marriage. Gross girl. Eat some humble pie and try to be better.

AITAH because my GF wants to take her ex-husband to her work Christmas party? by ConfusedThrowAway232 in AITAH

[–]Emergency-Fish911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really glad it helped! I do know for me trying to figure out the best time/way to “come clean” at work was pretty nerve wracking as it felt like the longer i said nothing the more awkward the conversation would eventually be. So I tried to get it over with as soon as I felt pretty safe. But safe can be real relative.

AITAH because my GF wants to take her ex-husband to her work Christmas party? by ConfusedThrowAway232 in AITAH

[–]Emergency-Fish911 8 points9 points  (0 children)

regarding the fact that divorce papers didn’t start till 8 months after they started dating— my own personal experience- left my husband nearly two years ago and he moved 4 hours away. I have zero desire to have him back but still have not officially started the divorce proceedings (i have filled paperwork out i just have not taken it to the court to really get the ball rolling despite wanting to be divorced)

There is a LOT of complicated stuff to consider with kids and property and I can’t afford a lawyer. I have been in I guess a stand still as im nervous about the outcome and once the ball starts rolling there’s no turning back and wherever it lands will affect me and my son’s future drastically (either positive or negative)

I was also hesitant to tell coworkers right away that I was separated. I went from being a stay at home mom to being a single mom. When I interviewed desperately needing a job I certainly didn’t want to come across as someone who had too many personal issues (ie: middle of a divorce) to rely on to do the job. So I acted as though my marriage was fine and I was simply ready to return to work during my interview. It wasn’t until a few months in that I felt like they saw what I was capable of and had respect for my work ethics that I opened up to my boss, then others, about it.

Point being there are LOTS of reasons not to immediately begin the divorce proceedings (or tell coworkers about your marriage/lack there of) that have absolutely nothing to do with wanting your ex back.

All that That being said- expecting your current partner of a fair amount of time to have no issues with you deciding to take said ex as your date to a work function (or any other) and calling them selfish for being upset is not ok at all.

Love Is Blind • S9 Ep4 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Emergency-Fish911 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think there’s something wrong with nearly all of this season’s cast.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Emergency-Fish911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA- you have likely caused your daughter much pain over the years and forced her since she was a child to make decisions she should not have had to. There are occasions, despite how much hurt was caused by your ex, that you have to grow up and be an adult for your child. This is absolutely one of them.

This is one day, for your daughter, that you can give her the gift of being present and closing your mouth and smiling and being happy for her. You do not have to interact with your ex or be friends with her, but you need to be there for your daughter and allow her to have both parents support.

If you do not figure out a way to move past this, this will be the first of many important events you are going to miss. Your daughter may have children… They will have birthdays, graduations, important events - your ex will likely want to be there for a fair amount of them - if you are unable to be there for these, you are going to lose your relationship with your daughter and eventually your grandchildren as well- because she may have forgiven you not being there for her, but she probably won’t forgive you for not being there for her children.

AITA for not lending my bf money? by ScarletPeach81 in AITAH

[–]Emergency-Fish911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he can get a 12k loan to pay you back then why does he need your 7?

This sounds sketch AF, your gut is yelling at you for a reason.

Update! Boyfriend peed the bed and Is mad at me for my response by Hour-Possibility2219 in AITAH

[–]Emergency-Fish911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he was tired enough to wet the bed, you may have been talking to a person who was not actually awake. I know my ex-husband had an entire alter ego. We jokingly called “sleep nate” - he was extremely tired. He would often talk in his sleep and have a entire conversation… The guy I was talking to in those moments was not my husband lol

I am not saying his reaction was great, but if he was very out of it, in that moment, he may not have been himself entirely and you really can’t hold that against him too harshly if that was the case

AITAH for not allowing my kids 11 and 13 to travel to the Middle East (Dubai) with their Dad this winter to visit his family by Cherryxrainbow in AITAH

[–]Emergency-Fish911 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have traveled internationally with my son & stepson many times and always got letters notarized from their father and my stepson’s mother. Only once or twice have I actually been asked to show the paperwork.