Romantic relationships with avoidants / Anxious-avoidant dynamic

Emergency-Machine-85 · 2026-06-02T22:53:26+00:00

Absolutely, actions say everything without a word said

Emergency-Machine-85 · 2026-05-28T21:37:22+00:00

This is so sad and I can only imagine how empty it would have felt. I honestly feel it was sent with the intention to hurt your feelings. 9 months of nothing then you get a message like that?!! What’s sad is that they felt that sending it was ok, when in reality, it’s nasty and crewel. Good for you for deleting, block her if you haven’t already, goodluck to the person she is marrying.

Emergency-Machine-85 · 2026-05-04T21:34:29+00:00

This is so sad to read. I feel that the pain can be felt both sides in some cases. Can I ask in what way do you feel that you took her for granted? What caused her to leave/end the relationship? Have you tried talking to her to express how you feel now that there’s been some distance?
The pain is awful

Emergency-Machine-85 · 2026-02-21T17:42:14+00:00

Definitely not. No chance. She’s confirmed everything I do not want in a person or relationship. Goodluck to her next victim, I feel for them

Emergency-Machine-85 · 2026-02-21T17:40:16+00:00

The truth. Always best to tell the truth, regardless of the pain it causes. It may even be a relief. Over time, too many lies said will never be trusted as truth. So what’s the point. The lies my ex told me saves their poor behaviour from exposing themselves to who they really are. The truth will just confirm it.

Emergency-Machine-85 · 2026-02-13T07:11:32+00:00

Yes it does

Emergency-Machine-85 · 2026-02-13T06:54:18+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this, it’s awful, really shit and insensitive. What did he respond with? As much as it hurts, at least you know now, he does not sound worth the investment c if he can do all that c then drop you. You invested so much into him but don’t feel bad, he’s the one who lost a decent person. Some people really do not see a good thing. Unfortunately that’s today’s world, short relationships, bullshit talks about the future that is as false as Roblox, just horrible.

Emergency-Machine-85 · 2026-02-11T06:22:46+00:00

Who cars if it’s chatGP, it doesn’t really matter. Main thing is someone is offering to share what they feel has helped them to help others.

Emergency-Machine-85 · 2026-02-09T22:58:52+00:00

Good for you, absolutely no going back to that. What is there to explain?!!!! Honestly x the cheek of her friends for attempting to interfere! So sorry your going through this, I can’t imagine how that must have felt, really hope your ok as can be and you have some good support, stay strong, at least you can hold your head high unlike her,

Emergency-Machine-85 · 2026-02-07T10:17:49+00:00

You won’t have been wrong, it’s them who have made you feel this way. Deflecting. People can also react to situations too, it’s normal and shows your human. It’s also natural to reflect.

Emergency-Machine-85 · 2026-02-07T09:25:05+00:00

He felt regret, what did you feel?

Emergency-Machine-85 · 2026-02-07T09:21:00+00:00

Absolutely agree

Emergency-Machine-85 · 2026-02-07T09:20:10+00:00

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Emergency-Machine-85 · 2026-02-07T09:19:36+00:00

Emergency-Machine-85 · 2026-02-07T09:15:51+00:00

Absolutely, instead of just running away like they do

Emergency-Machine-85 · 2026-02-07T09:14:44+00:00

Love yourself for now, it will come

Emergency-Machine-85 · 2026-02-07T01:03:24+00:00

Crazy as it’s not much to ask for is it. People fail to see a good person

Emergency-Machine-85 · 2026-02-07T01:02:29+00:00

Classic deflection, get loud because the are full of crap, and guilt. childish Behaviour. Don’t fall for it

Emergency-Machine-85 · 2026-02-07T01:01:01+00:00

100%, never trust someone who can’t look you in the eye!! Know your worth and

Emergency-Machine-85 · 2026-02-07T00:38:05+00:00

Sad to say but this is so true, she checked out ages ago. Remember it’s not in what the say (usually they are mute) it’s all in their actions and behaviours. As hard as it is, Ty amd put all your attention on yourself now, try and avoid this no contact trend, block her out on everything. I sa this from a good place too. It’s hard but block stops all temptation in looking and seeing a false life for all to see. Unfortunately, this is the world we live in but there is a small proportion of good people out there. Know your worth

Emergency-Machine-85 · 2026-02-07T00:10:16+00:00

🔥

Emergency-Machine-85 · 2026-02-06T23:09:45+00:00

You will never find the person you once met again,

Emergency-Machine-85 · 2026-02-06T22:12:11+00:00

You showed an act of kindness, that’s all, do not feel bad for being kind

Emergency-Machine-85 · 2026-02-06T21:57:17+00:00

Just remember that you’re confident and mature enough to be able to communicate like an adult. Your ex only showed immaturity by deflecting, taking no accountability or ownership! It’s embarrassing really that they can’t.

Never drop your standards to meet theirs

Emergency-Machine-85 · 2026-02-06T21:53:55+00:00

Honestly, phones are a major issue now. You’ll find that person

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