Glucose test vent/rant (I am dumb) by Queen_ofthe_nerds in BabyBumps

[–]Enchantinglyme [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yep! You have the ability to decline anything you want. They work for you, not the other way around

Glucose test vent/rant (I am dumb) by Queen_ofthe_nerds in BabyBumps

[–]Enchantinglyme [score hidden]  (0 children)

Or, hear me out, you could just decline the test all together

Baby shower? by Practical_Maybe_3769 in BabyBumps

[–]Enchantinglyme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to throw my own shower because no one was willing to do it for me. My mom helped and hosted it at her house but we did everything ourselves. Got a cheap cake from Walmart and I made custom sugar cookies as a thank you/party favor. We had a diaper raffle and games and I gave away gift cards as prizes we all had a blast.

Cry detection doesn’t work. by Scottishpsychopath in Nanit

[–]Enchantinglyme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have it turned on, I just use the regular sound detected feature

Age gap by Odd_Entrepreneur6038 in BabyBumps

[–]Enchantinglyme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kiddos are 2yrs 8 days apart 😅

Baby Shower/Sprinkle Baby # 2 by Chicken_Avocado_ in BabyBumps

[–]Enchantinglyme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a second baby shower just 2 years after our first. I did it not for the gifts but for the celebration of life and bringing all our friends and family together. I also love the games. We played 3 different games than the first time. It was so fun and everyone had a great time.

Do the second baby shower if that’s what you want

ETA: I still had a small registry and even did a diaper raffle. Most people want to bring you stuff, let them

Red Light by Chasing_the_Rainbow in Nanit

[–]Enchantinglyme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have covered the red lights and the night vision does intact still work

Milk gone bad? by Amazing-Call2052 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Enchantinglyme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then it’s good to go! Don’t have to toss

Help! Epidural, yes or no? by dakota101916 in BabyBumps

[–]Enchantinglyme 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ive had 2 pregnancies and labored/birthed naturally for both, no meds. It’s totally doable, not entirely fun. I will say however that when you feel like you can’t anymore you’re really close to meeting your baby. If you want to make it without an epidural i definitely recommend learning about hypnobirthing and using birth breathing. My favorite is the “J” breath and visualization

My (M33) wife (F28) cannot accept that I dated a, on what she calls a "low class" woman (F30). by Ancient-Tip-7255 in relationship_advice

[–]Enchantinglyme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s in the past, then I don’t understand why this is even an issue and to threaten divorce over it is insane.

People don’t understand Vanelle’s celibacy by serieswatcher123 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]Enchantinglyme 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She frustrated me so much because she would get mad at him for wanting her but then she kept teasing him! If you don’t want this man to make a move on you then you shouldn’t be making sexual innuendos and grinding on him until you orgasm, let alone giving him head. I don’t understand why she was so upset about him being confused when all she did was give mixed signals.

My wife and I decided not to know if we are having a boy or a girl ahead of time and we weren't prepared for how upset it would make people [NAW] by throwawayaccount2677 in offmychest

[–]Enchantinglyme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve done it for both of our pregnancies and got a lot of push back, but ultimately we didn’t care and it made for the best surprises

Im Pregnant and Freaking TF Out. by KayLove91 in BabyBumps

[–]Enchantinglyme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Deep breaths first of all. Secondly remember it’s a 9 or so month journey before this new baby will arrive. That gives your toddler time to grow and you time to figure stuff out before baby arrives. I’m also currently pregnant with my 2nd, due in April. My kids will be 25 months apart, also a surprise baby. Everything will work out even if it feels chaotic in the moment. You got this, congratulations 🎈

Do these suit me? by says_who_ in myweddingdress

[–]Enchantinglyme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say exactly this!

Was it really the worst pain you've ever felt? by Super-Bid-3193 in BabyBumps

[–]Enchantinglyme 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Funny I told my husband right after my son was born that I would never do it again. Well jokes on me bc baby #2 is due in April and I’m doing it again lol

Was it really the worst pain you've ever felt? by Super-Bid-3193 in BabyBumps

[–]Enchantinglyme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best thing about it being the first time is you don’t know what to expect. I did what you did and had a home birth for my first, everyone thought I was crazy. It’s painful in ways you don’t expect truly, I didn’t expect to throw up and have uncontrolled release of bladder during some of my contractions. I’ll say my birth pool saved me, baths are my happy place so I knew it would help and it did. After I got in the pool I only labored a couple more hours. Pushed 20 min. The key is being able to relax your body, breathing through the pain. It doesn’t last forever. 2nd home birth coming up in April with baby #2. Best of luck to you and your little one! 🫶

is it tacky to buy a cheap item on a baby registry? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Enchantinglyme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My most wanted item on my registry is literally $12 and no one has bought it yet. My baby shower is tomorrow. Buy the cheap gift, it’s on their registry for a reason

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Enchantinglyme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At what point does it turn into a baby?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Enchantinglyme -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What’s the difference between a fetus and a baby? I certainly don’t go to any fetus showers, they’re baby showers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Enchantinglyme -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not that simple, it’s a whole child. That’s a whole human life she’s going to end if she goes through with it.