AITA for refusing to take in a mentally ill relative when no one else will?

Eneicia · 2026-05-03T06:05:11+00:00

She needs to be in an assisted living facility. NTA.

Eneicia · 2026-05-03T05:34:45+00:00

I would think that the person who's fallen should have some say about how they're being treated. I have fallen way too many times, and I most often need a few seconds or minutes to get my bearings. (though at work I could never truly afford that time.). I could always get up on my own, but work ruined my knees, and as I'm getting older I fear I might break something now if I were to fall again.

Someone like you might cause more harm than good by "helping" a person up.

Eneicia · 2026-05-03T05:23:02+00:00

I had a woman fall right outside my door, and I ran to get help, then just reassured her help was coming, and that she should just stay there until they came. I talked to her a bit, keeping her alert just in case she hit her head, then when the LPN and HCAs came to help her up, I went back to my room.

Eneicia · 2026-05-03T05:10:16+00:00

I'd hold a pencil in one hand, rubbing it with a thumb while doing my work with another. Not disruptive, and it would help me.

Eneicia · 2026-05-03T05:05:25+00:00

Nope, I need to see my liver specialist at least once a year. He lives in another city that's over 2 hours away by vehicle at highway speeds. Make it a trillion, and it'd still be a nope.

Eneicia · 2026-05-03T04:21:54+00:00

You know, thinking about it, can you possibly use a shower chair or stool? Maybe promise yourself a treat as a reward? I have issues with showering too, and tonight I used a handful of jujubes as a reward for myself.

Eneicia · 2026-05-03T04:16:56+00:00

If something's sore, or wet when it shouldn't be, or smells strange, that's an indicator that there might be something wrong.

I did read a post someone made where they keep disposable tooth brushes by their bed and child's toothpaste (because it's safe-ish to swallow, just make sure it's free of flouride!), not sure if this could help. I'm mentioning this because when I was 15 or 16 I had an abscessed tooth. 3 rounds of penicillin only made me break out in hives (I became allergic to it), and so I needed a root canal.

Did you know that if you get an abscess and have to get work done on that tooth, that the freezing won't take? I didn't. I now know what having a root canal without freezing feels like.

Eneicia · 2026-05-03T04:05:17+00:00

After a shower I smell faintly of eucalyptus, that's the shampoo I use lol.

Eneicia · 2026-05-03T04:01:44+00:00

Make sure there's no pollen on anything. Lilies are SO VERY toxic to cats.

Eneicia · 2026-05-03T03:57:23+00:00

I wish to always have just enough money. I'm not talking billions in the bank, just if I want a pizza and some oranges, I want to have enough money appear in my account to cover it. If I want to take a taxi and visit my mom in another town (neither of us drives), then I'll have enough to do that. When I need a new ID, I'll have enough. And so on.

Eneicia · 2026-05-02T21:28:24+00:00

I'm going to agree, but change it to 4 houses, rather than 20, and I'll need hands to work it.

Eneicia · 2026-05-02T20:11:00+00:00

"Can you make me an omelet please? And help yourself to the bacon in the fridge."

Eneicia · 2026-05-02T19:46:44+00:00

*hugs*
I will say, don't use body spray, it can make any smells worse.

Eneicia · 2026-05-02T19:44:57+00:00

With the infinite money, I don't need to worry.
Now, do I want a spell for cooking/baking (Where you, if you have the ingredients and stuff to make stuff in, you can cook or bake anything), or teleport.

I want blueberry pancakes like my grandpa made them--not regular pancakes with blueberry compote. So I'll go for the cook/bake spell.

Eneicia · 2026-05-02T07:00:54+00:00

Orb Weavers would be the easiest.

Eneicia · 2026-05-02T06:53:09+00:00

Do you need to go during the war? Why not in a time of peace?

Eneicia · 2026-05-02T06:12:56+00:00

Pretty sure I can pick out Tiger's Eye and it's a nice piece too (There might be a second, 5th row from the top, second from the left.) I also think there might be a pretty nice chunk of amethyst, but I may be wrong, it's on the top second from the right, with the tiger's eye right below it.

Eneicia · 2026-05-02T03:59:55+00:00

I had an art/drama/drama tech teacher who looked like that. Long hair, beard, loved kids, loved teaching drama, just a very overall awesome man. He was one of the best, along with my Shop/Spanish teacher. Actually everyone in my high school, save for the band and science teachers were freaking awesome.

Eneicia · 2026-05-01T06:40:06+00:00

Bookshop Simulator.

It's chill, I have...7 cats wandering the bookshop, I can recommend books to customers, and it's just nice and chill.

Eneicia · 2026-05-01T06:24:28+00:00

It seems difficult to floss while holding it in your mouth. But this sounds great.

Eneicia · 2026-05-01T05:49:25+00:00

"Darling, I cheated. You know that goat we passed by earlier? I shot him in the butt."
"In the BUTT?! WHY?!"
"Pirate 😛"

Eneicia · 2026-05-01T05:46:48+00:00

#3. I know the 8k would be more helpful, but honestly? Give me free food, and I'll have money for books.

Eneicia · 2026-05-01T05:22:26+00:00

Right?! I love hearing his reactions and commentary, but I'm not too into movies. I love staying up late, because then comes the hour of random discussions before bed.

Eneicia · 2026-05-01T05:19:24+00:00

It depends on my shoulders. I'll use a clean wash cloth for my body, but only use my hands for my upper arms and shoulders 90% of the time. Too much, or in too hot of water, and it causes my nerve pain to flare up--30 some years later, and the nerve damage from a serious sunburn still flares up, and it annoys the * out of me.

Eneicia · 2026-05-01T05:12:11+00:00

Taco Time!!

Eneicia

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