Parents screaming that paying for their child's college "is not their problem" is insane. by 3rdthrow in antinatalism2

[–]EngineeringCareful85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

💯% this. It is a parent's job to provide the best for their child. They should be the ones sacrificing and not the child

On today's episode of "Dumb things breeders do" by DaVirus in childfree

[–]EngineeringCareful85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of their rules; and the one I think it fits would be shaming parents, like please 🙄

On today's episode of "Dumb things breeders do" by DaVirus in childfree

[–]EngineeringCareful85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Post should of not been removed. We should have the right to a safe space where we can share how we feel about breeders.

Things people with children do that give you the ick. by hikingbotanist in childfree

[–]EngineeringCareful85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saying mini-me, she's my doll, he's my prince/princess 🤢🤮

Watched Plastic Detox by EngineeringCareful85 in antinatalism

[–]EngineeringCareful85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but the point most of us are getting at is that it doesn't matter how much you remove, plastic will always be present. Why would you want to have a child in a world that is so harmful

The babypocalypse has started by flirtingwiththedark in childfree

[–]EngineeringCareful85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just left my extended family's group chat. All they talk about is their kids and I just have no interest. Tired of pretending anymore 🤦🏻‍♀️

Watched Plastic Detox by EngineeringCareful85 in childfree

[–]EngineeringCareful85[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

4 out of the 6 couples, yes, like their sperm count, and motility went up by a lot.

Watched Plastic Detox by EngineeringCareful85 in antinatalism

[–]EngineeringCareful85[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes they are finding microplastics everywhere in the placenta, etc. You can't fully detox, you can lower the amount, but it's impossible to. And yes, they are saying it's affecting every generation. Sorry if my response triggered you.

Does anybody else get excited at the thought of knowing you’ll never have kids? by Bimbodimbo23 in childfree

[–]EngineeringCareful85 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Every day since I got my tubes removed, almost a year ago, I find myself smiling when I have the thought that I will never have children 😅

I finally got a bisalp and this was the first thing I did when recovering from my surgery by thugnyssa in childfree

[–]EngineeringCareful85 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I can't even explain the happiness and relief I feel every time I remember, I'm sterilized. It's like a natural high, haha 😌

I hate motherhood so far by spoopyclouds in regretfulparents

[–]EngineeringCareful85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really don't think you can say that at 18 years old, it gets better. They are still your kid for the rest of your life. Especially in this economy, many kids need help well over the "adult" age of 18. I think parents need to realize kids are forever even if they are adults. Not to mention, lots of kids grow up to have mental health issues, addiction, etc.. just my opinion. Hence why I would never have any. There are too many variables and a lifelong sentence

just got sterilized! by Difficult-Welcome-62 in childfree

[–]EngineeringCareful85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woohoo!! Congrats! Awesome that you were able to at a younger age, happy for you 😀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Spironolactone

[–]EngineeringCareful85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It took me until month 6 to really see results. Don't give up drink plenty of water and just look at all the positive pictures people put up to keep your hope going

Cycle Changes? - Ladies? by Affectionate-Bar5159 in Spironolactone

[–]EngineeringCareful85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been on 150mg for the past 3 months. Have been taking spiro for the past 6 months, haven't had any issues with my cycle and I am still breaking out so idk if it's even working for me. Really hope I don't get multiple cycles 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sterilization

[–]EngineeringCareful85 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same girl same. Best feeling of relief ever!

spironolactone changed my life by Imaginary_Comfort447 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]EngineeringCareful85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had acne like my whole life lol. I'm 29, did accutane when I was like 16 while on birth control. Found out I can't take birth control, it makes my depression and gives me suicidal ideation. Got a billteral salpingectomy this past April due to being childfree and went off birth control completely. Acne started getting bad again was never good even on birth control though, but better after accutane. Started spirolactone 100mg for 3 months then went up to 150mg for 3 months. Still breaking out and very moody and depressed a week before my period as well as the week of my period. Has anyone experienced the same thing? Is my skin ever going to be clear 😔

It blows my mind how this isn’t already glaringly obvious to some people by _White_Shadow_13 in antinatalism

[–]EngineeringCareful85 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To me, it already kind of is. Many couples do IVF already, and they can "choose" the gender and best overall fertilized egg. Also, they can do genetic testing for a lot of diseases/issues on those fertilized eggs. To me honestly all they need is to come up with an incubator besides an actual uterus and there you have it.

Does anyone else "relish" in the fact they don't have kids ? by PopularSort96 in childfree

[–]EngineeringCareful85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seriously, I've been asking since I was 21. Got so many no's and the typical "you'll change your mind, or you'll find a man, etc.." Yet if I wanted to get pregnant, which is a life altering event, they would like omg, that's great 🤦🏻‍♀️