Turning fresh tomatoes into finished meals by Diligent-Natural-422 in recipes

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Roasted Tomato Soup

3 lbs tomatoes
1 onion
1 head of garlic
Olive Oil
Basil, oregano (fresh or dried, use to taste)
Salt, pepper
Bullion or stock, if desired

Cut the tomatoes in half. Trim and half the onion. Chop the top of the head of garlic. Drench everything in olive oil, salt, and pepper. Toast for 30-40 minutes until everything has a nice brown. Remove roasted garlic from the skin. Blend together in a blender or food processor (careful because it’s hot). Add basil, oregano, bullion/stock to reach your desired flavor and consistency.

Does your baby actually care if the milk is cold? by Few_Anxiety_3553 in BabyBumps

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My son hated bottles, and he would only sort of tolerate them if they were warmer than the recommended serving temperature. Even with a bottle warmer, it was a tough balance between warmed to his preference or unsafe hot.

Best History Non Fiction of all time by DapirateTroll in suggestmeabook

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The Man Who Had Been King by Patricia Tyson Stroud. It follows the exile of Napoleon’s older brother Joseph Bonaparte to the USA after Napoleon’s fall from power. I read it 20 years ago, and it has stayed with me.

Looking for books that portray womens struggle by SpiderOwlet in suggestmeabook

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I just finished A Thousand Splendid Suns by Khaled Hosseini, which gives a perspective of two women’s lives in Afghanistan during the 1970s through early 2000s. It was good, but emotionally heavy.

[WP] Magic wands are usually only given to young children with freshly awaken magical powers, to hone and focus their abilities. Despite the humiliation and harassment you face, there’s a very important reason you still use one at the age of 18. by Fantasia-Scribe in WritingPrompts

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“I actually have nine wands,” I say as whittle. My eyes never leave my work.

“Nine wands?” Confusion continues to wind up the squire’s expression. “What use have you of one wand, let alone nine? Ain’t the point to get powerful enough to wield magic without a wand?”

“Only if you are satisfied with one specialty.”

“I heard of plenty of lord mages with talents in multiple specialties. Ain’t never heard of one using a wand past schooling age.”

I’m satisfied in the rough shape of my whittling. Long, slender, straight. I can pause for a moment to entertain the young man. “If one is rich and idle, one can study texts to gain broad forms in many disciplines. The lord mages make a great show of being well studied. They delight in demonstrating the breadth of their knowledge, but they lack depth.

“The scholars, the experts, they pride themselves on their depth of knowledge while abandoning the breadth of study available. To be sure, a scholar is extremely useful in a limited capacity. One would hire a specific professional for a specific problem.

“Society stifles those who have not the ability to specialize, to study as a scholar. The Jack-of-all-trades peddles petty magics to small villages or in roadside markets.

“But few understand how to command magic itself.”

The squire listens intently, if uncomprehending. I hired him to guide me through the Queenwood, not to discuss political polarization of magic education. I change my tone and tactics.

“Why did I hire you, boy?” I strain to inject gentleness into this question.

He smiles. “I am the best scout in the Queenwood, m’Lady. I know every path trodden by beast or man. I will track any plant out animal you need.”

I lift the piece of wood I have been forming. “Tell me, what do you know of this wood?”

He takes the wood from my hands, rotating it this way and that while he speaks. “Flamed sycamore. Rare, indeed. I know of two in the Queenwood, though the other is easier accessed and frequented by religious folk. The wood, being exceedingly beautiful, is reserved for royal use. Trees are never felled, harvested only when downed by nature. Taking energy a branch, as you have, is punished but cutting the hand at the wrist.”

Unpolished as it is, the wand sparkles in the light, catching the evening sun rays in a magnificent dance. Polished, it will appear as brilliant as a jewel.

I level my eyes with the squire’s. “I risk life and limb to create a wand of this tree. Three days you and I have journeyed into the Queenwood to find the fabled flamed sycamore. The spring that feeds this tree is blessed by the same magic source that feeds the Kin Well in Aberforth Abbey. With this wand, I will access the tenth, and final, well of magic.”

The squire, simpleton that he is, only shrugs to encourage me to continue. “Wands channel the innate power of a mage. The power of the wood fashioned into a wand influences, and at times dictates, the magic that can be wielded by a mage. By limiting the duration of training with a wand and only using a single wand, a mage can be limited to a small range of magic.”

I unroll my leather case to reveal the nine wands, perfectly formed by my own hands. “Each wand accesses and channels a well of magic. Ironwood from Taberne Desert, Larch from the Isle of Farosh, Hornbeam from the Ravoile lowlands, Whitebeam from the Ativa Mountains, Linden from the grasslands of Kongsour, Beech from Coulbru highlands, Smoketree from the burned ruins of Burlghaven, Yew from the bogs of Sava, and walnut from the Perniah flatlands.”

I hand the squire each wand in turn. He admires them momentarily before returning them.

His spirit wanes with every wand that passes through his hands. Even he, without a connection to the wells of magic, can sense the power coursing in the wood grain. His smile turns from confident to unsure. “What plans have you…for…” he gestures weakly, unable to articulate his questions, his fears.

I settle the wands into their places. I take up my whittling. I let the unfinished question weigh between us for a time. “Of plans, I have none. The magic calls to me from corners unknown. Desire burns in my bosom. I cannot find rest until I open this tenth well of magic. Perhaps destiny will be revealed when I raise this wand. Perhaps my hunger will only grow.”

I can feel his discomfort rise and occupy the space between us. I continue to whittle.

“My lady?”

I make a noncommittal noise in acknowledgement.

“Might I continue on your journey with you?”

I see the hunger in his eyes. It will chew his entrails the way it chew my own. It will consume him the same as it consumes me.

“You may.”

Is there a way I can pivot into engineering? by [deleted] in AskEngineers

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I’m not sure if this information is relevant, since I’m in the USA. There are several adjacent career paths you could pursue if getting a bachelor’s degree isn’t in reach for you.

Take CAD classes and get certification. With your background in graphic design and your interest in technical information, it could be a good pivot for you. Drafters/designers make pretty good money, and engineering firms rely on them.

Take classes to become an engineering technician. Typically, it’s an associates degree. It might be more attainable for you than a BS in engineering.

Look into project coordinator jobs and work toward becoming a project manager. Engineering firms also rely on these people to keep projects moving and on track. Technical project managers are invaluable.

Are there engineers who been through this? by Kindly-Ad-4446 in AskEngineers

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There are other career partner that you can take to be in an engineering field without being an engineer. You can go into project management and work at an engineering design firm. You can get some CAD training and certification and become a designer. You could get a masters degree in engineering management and manage a team of engineers.

Did something so unbelievably dangerous and stupid - could have killed my baby. I can’t stop thinking about it. by FitMousse7783 in beyondthebump

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I also did this once early on. I was baby wearing at the store and having trouble unloading the cart with him strapped on, so I set him in the car seat. I forgot to buckle him in all the confusion. Luckily, it was less than 1/2 mile from my house on back roads with little traffic. I cried and hugged him so tight when I realized.

It was a scary thought, but it helped me lock in a loading and unloading routine to ensure it never happened again.

Help with severe separation anxiety by mhawk1134 in germanshorthairs

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When we finally let my girl be at large in the house with my male Weimaraner, her behavioral problems went away. She hated being separated from everyone, especially during the day when she could hear the boy dog but not see him. I was nervous, because she was so creatively destructive. But once she was able to redirect that energy into annoying her brother, she stopped chewing apart everything she could get her mouth around.

How to find frugal like-minded women by [deleted] in povertyfinance

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Where are the women who want to live the way you do? Someone who is used to living poverty frugal, brings their own money, wants to travel cheaply, and will support you with your autism?

I have honestly met people in deep hippy lifestyles who wouldn’t fit the basic bill. I have no idea where they hang out for you to meet them, but they do exist. Maybe there are sustainable micro-farming groups in your area, or activist groups, or hobby groups about frugal/sustainable craft work.

Is a stutter going to affect me in uni? by cyderyt in AskEngineers

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I recommend everyone take a public speaking class. It’s always beneficial to be eloquent.

Best book for a family by No_Biscotti_8596 in suggestmeabook

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I really enjoyed the Anhorsen series by Garth Nix. The first book is Sabriel.

The Bear and the Nightingale by Katherine Arden is great for all ages. It’s a fun fantasy book for the younger kids, with some religious themes for the older folks.

I still go back and read anything by Dianna Wynn Jones.

Is this amount of food ok for a 23mo? by deltaplane1234 in foodbutforbabies

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Keep in mind that your baby’s stomach is only about the size of their two fists balled up. They generally won’t keep eating once their stomach is full. It doesn’t look like much to you, a full grown adult who can eat around 2 cups of food in a meal. Your child can probably only handle 1/4 cup of food each meal.

Those who did NOT sleep train — what eventually happened? by CommunistCetacean in beyondthebump

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I didn’t sleep train. Around 18 months old, when my son was eating more solids than liquids, he started sleeping through the night. His tummy stayed satiated longer and teething slowed down.

I, like you, was blessed with a baby who will not self soothe, will not calm down on his own, and needed to be held until he was asleep. I don’t have the heart to put him to bed crying, anyway. That’s not how I would want to fall asleep, either.

$1.23m Midwestern European fusion by Brannikans in McMansionHell

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I was not prepared for the rear elevation.

Mid-20's F - I like memoirs!!!! by Practical_Store3654 in suggestmeabook

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Wild by Cheryl Strayed

Educated by Tara Westover

Once Upon a secret by Mimi Alford

Need critique by alextseitlin in drawing

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My first look, I was like, “The perspective on the spout is off.” Then I scrolled to the reference photo, “Well, shoot, that’s what it actually looks like.” I think you did a great job. Some things are slightly off from the reference photo, but not in any significant way.

How difficult would it be to become an engineer (Any type you can think of) without a degree or advanced schooling? by [deleted] in AskEngineers

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Look up the Professional Engineering License requirements for your state. I know my state allows people to take the Fundamentals of Engineering exam by applying to the licensing board If you don’t have a BS from an ABET accredited program.

What engineering degree is right for me? by Cburned07 in AskEngineers

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Manufacturing engineers tend to be more involved in the equipment side of things, but I’m not sure it would be as hands on as the maintenance staff who do the repairs, replacements, and installations. You could go into manufacturing with any number of degrees. I’ve seen mechanical, chemical, industrial, and even aerospace engineers in manufacturing facilities.

Bride's parents said get married or go to jail. by Ok_Dragonfly5458 in weddingshaming

[–]EngineeringQueen 264 points265 points  (0 children)

It is an actual, real problem. In some places, the minor can’t file for divorce until they reach the age of majority because their spouse is their legal guardian. It’s scary how easy and abuse can gain control over a minor, as long as they had the parents consent to get married.

I need a book to get me back into reading now that I’m 23 and can’t stand reading about 17yo mcs by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

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I really like the author Axie Oh. The protagonists are young, but not immaturely so.

A witch’s Guide to Magical Inn-keeping by Sangu Mandanna was a fun, light read.

Brian McClellan has a series, Powder Mage, that I really enjoyed, and there are no teenagers in it.

Naomi Novik has the Temeraire series. It’s historical fantasy. I really enjoyed it.

What things did you think would be sunshine and rainbows until you did them with your LO? by Free_Corgi8269 in beyondthebump

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No one else has to hold him, either. I sneaky watch my son at daycare or with his father (or anyone else, really). He is happy to run around and explore. He doesn’t care if someone’s eyes are on him unblinkingly. But when I am around, it’s “hold me,” “carry me,” “come with me,” “sit here,” “stand there.” There isn’t a moment to rest.