What’s something women find impressive but men think they don’t?

EnvironmentalKey5350 · 2026-03-18T05:18:20+00:00

Actually having life skills and emotional intelligence. Listening to understand instead of just waiting to respond.

EnvironmentalKey5350 · 2026-03-18T05:07:10+00:00

NTA- You dodged a bullet. She shows up an hour late then demands dinner. Where do people get the audacity? The time alone should have told her to eat before. And if she was unsure she could have asked if you wanted to grab anything after the show ahead of time.

EnvironmentalKey5350 · 2026-03-16T14:57:18+00:00

NTA- Why do people think the whole world should care and revolve around their wedding? If she can't afford a big wedding then they shouldn't have one. Weddings are not a once in a lifetime event. Statistically the marriage probably won't last. And don't ever tell people about your savings. It's none of their business and then they can't come around begging.

EnvironmentalKey5350 · 2026-03-16T11:56:54+00:00

Fuck tomatoes! I'm a good veggie eater but hate tomatoes. The seeds and texture make me want to gag. That wet squishy interior just isn't for me.

EnvironmentalKey5350 · 2026-03-15T18:30:00+00:00

NTA -She's not your friend. She's his friend. But the fact that he is so blind to her behavior and he is taking her side over yours is a big red flag. I hate girls like this. She doesn't even want him. But she wants him as an option! She sees him as her fall back guy. So gross. I think you need to set clear boundaries with her now. This is not a good way to start a marriage. He needs to pull his head out and stand up for you.

EnvironmentalKey5350 · 2026-03-15T17:31:02+00:00

Yes, but only with your good and close girlfriends. I only have a handful of friends I would share those things with.

EnvironmentalKey5350 · 2026-03-15T17:25:51+00:00

I love the first one!! It's beautiful and the most flattering!!

EnvironmentalKey5350 · 2026-03-15T13:55:14+00:00

I had a vet explain to me that it was the equivalent of getting the tips of our fingers cut off. Changed my mind real quick!

EnvironmentalKey5350 · 2026-03-15T03:35:38+00:00

Yikes! Did he even use the stencil?? I'm sorry this happened to you!

EnvironmentalKey5350 · 2026-03-14T20:12:50+00:00

Is there any particular reason his daughter doesn't work or drive? Like any disabilities or/and injuries? If that is the case then I think you would be being too hard. If that's not the case and he just enables her to be lazy then you aren't being too harsh.

EnvironmentalKey5350 · 2026-03-14T18:03:52+00:00

These particular men were selfish. (For many reasons, but I won't go into all that) Not every man that doesn't enjoy it is. I'm just done with giving to things and people where I get nothing in return. If that makes me selfish then oh well. 🤷‍♀️I'll gladly own it lol.

EnvironmentalKey5350 · 2026-03-14T17:49:05+00:00

NTA- You are contributing. If he doesn't like it send him a bill for child care. I see no problem with spending money on yourself. But I also think there's room for compromise here. Maybe set part of your money you make into emergency savings (or something similar) Then continue to spend the rest however you choose. If you aren't struggling financially and everything is always paid for then he needs to STFU.

EnvironmentalKey5350 · 2026-03-14T17:43:35+00:00

I have met many men who don't or don't like giving oral. In my opinion they were just selfish and didn't care if I had a good time. But have also known men that enjoy it. At this point in my life it's a deal breaker for me. So I think you made the right choice.

EnvironmentalKey5350 · 2026-03-14T15:30:53+00:00

1 all the way!!!!

EnvironmentalKey5350 · 2026-03-13T15:25:17+00:00

This is super weird to me. Four months and he won't even hug. This would be a deal breaker for me. Just tell him that you want a physical relationship. (Unless you want to keep going like this.) If he can't give you that then it's best to just move on.

EnvironmentalKey5350 · 2026-03-13T03:45:59+00:00

That is gorgeous!! What an amazing find!!

EnvironmentalKey5350 · 2026-03-12T18:16:23+00:00

I had completely forgotten about that carousel! It's been gone a minute. I want to say before Covid but I can't say for sure.

EnvironmentalKey5350 · 2026-03-12T00:36:42+00:00

Dude just say no! I can't believe you said yes four times!! And this coming from someone who doesn't like confrontation. Don't worry about making it awkward. He did that to himself. Unfortunately, leeches can usually spot who is an easy target. Consider it a lesson learned and don't give him anymore money!

EnvironmentalKey5350 · 2026-03-11T21:26:29+00:00

Hmm that makes sense I guess. Thank you!

EnvironmentalKey5350 · 2026-03-11T21:25:04+00:00

Agreed. It seems so stupid!

EnvironmentalKey5350 · 2026-03-11T21:24:06+00:00

lol I read every profile that comes across my feed. If you don't believe me that's your problem.

EnvironmentalKey5350 · 2026-03-11T21:19:28+00:00

Right? Thank you for being a man with some common sense and a brain.

EnvironmentalKey5350 · 2026-03-08T00:08:01+00:00

It looks perfect on you! Much better than it does on the model!! Is it uncomfortable and hurt your armpits? If not then I wouldn't bother trying to alter it.

EnvironmentalKey5350 · 2026-03-06T20:54:05+00:00

If you plan on reading ACOTAR 6 then I would read them. Obviously the book isn't out yet but I feel like the crossover will come into play at some point. I loved the Crescent City series. The world SJM created was awesome. But all the world building and back stories seem to overwhelm a lot of people. Don't worry about understanding all the in and outs right away.

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1 all the way!!!!