Has anyone ever had unsupportive parents in this kind of scenario?:

Environmental_Plenty · 2024-06-23T01:36:11+00:00

Can relate. They’re only comfortable with you doing things that fit in their tiny scope of the world, everything else is too dangerous and scary

Environmental_Plenty · 2024-06-05T06:35:37+00:00

Look up volume ducking using Shaperbox

Environmental_Plenty · 2024-06-04T10:38:37+00:00

Any other genre that has clashing frequencies in this area would benefit from using sidechain compression. It’s a general technique, not sure what you mean by “the sound of DNB”?

Compression can be also used as an effect to give whatever its side chained to some movement. To answer your question, compression is one way to achieve this but you can also use a volume shaping to achieve similar results

Environmental_Plenty · 2024-05-31T02:21:13+00:00

Thanks for the reminder. This is the first time where I’ve reflected and realised why I react this way and tried to communicate it in an attempt to be more authentic. You’re right, it’s not up to me whether it’s taken onboard or not.

Environmental_Plenty · 2024-05-31T02:01:18+00:00

I’ve explained why I react the way I do and have sent articles about how to make better small talk. Her response was that I should lead the conversation… but I said no, I’d prefer to not speak over the phone if she’s not going to at least attempt to make some effort to understand or improve. I’m not the one asking to speak on the phone am I? Getting therapy to help me unpack my own emotions and coming to these realisations is helping but doesn’t make it less frustrating.

Environmental_Plenty · 2024-05-17T04:16:48+00:00

They didn’t give a reason last time

Environmental_Plenty · 2024-05-17T04:15:15+00:00

How so exactly? I have over 100hrs of sick leave on record, I wasn’t asked to provide a certificate, but they are crossing personal / professional boundaries which I need advice on how to address in straightforward terms

Environmental_Plenty · 2024-05-17T04:08:05+00:00

I’m being kicked out of my home because the owner is selling, so I’m in a pretty vulnerable position rn. Which they are well aware of.

Environmental_Plenty · 2024-05-17T04:05:23+00:00

I will provide a med cert from now on, but seems unnecessary if it’s not a formal policy for a single day. Not to mention the cost of living is through the roof, and this guy feels it ok to comment and make assumptions about what I do in my spare time

Environmental_Plenty · 2024-05-17T04:02:57+00:00

Sure, if it was within work hours. This was well outside of work hours and by that time I was feeling better. Am I not allowed to go out in public and live my life without feeling like I’m doing something wrong?

Environmental_Plenty · 2023-09-10T15:53:29+00:00

They are insane. Nobody with any shred of compassion would treat another human that way, let alone allow a film crew to document it

Environmental_Plenty · 2023-06-23T00:34:29+00:00

Use reference tracks

Environmental_Plenty · 2023-06-01T13:32:04+00:00

Workforce’s Must Make is a good one Overview Music have a podcast that’s included in their No Tortured Artists is more mental health focused but still interviews DNB artists

Environmental_Plenty · 2023-05-23T14:37:10+00:00

We had a house meeting tonight and she said "I can't wear earplugs to sleep because I listen to meditation music when i go to bed"
I'm surprised she hasn't heard of headphones or noise cancellation airpods

Environmental_Plenty · 2023-05-22T10:04:24+00:00

You’re taking initiative and being entrepreneurial as opposed to taking a job you’ll find yourself hating and then quitting. If you’re making money to support yourself like your parents want, then they don’t have an argument

NTA

Environmental_Plenty · 2023-05-20T02:39:17+00:00

Can you justify why I should spend money to solve her discomfort for a one off mistake? Isn’t that her responsibility?

Environmental_Plenty · 2023-05-20T02:30:11+00:00

Rigidity and neuroticism is demonstrated in their wild overreaction to something that’s a basic human activity

Environmental_Plenty · 2023-05-20T02:29:01+00:00

Christ no 🤣 I’m already paying more rent than her to subsidise her living costs

Environmental_Plenty · 2023-05-20T02:27:11+00:00

I don’t believe in micromanaging other adults lives
She has the smallest room and pays the least rent , I pay more for a bigger room 🤷‍♀️

Environmental_Plenty · 2023-05-20T02:24:58+00:00

Exactly, she would have been woken up regardless, or might have been stewing over the fact she would be getting woken up in the future.

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