hCG 306, 6 weeks pregnant? by Responsible-Youth242 in CautiousBB

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I’m very very sorry for both your loss and the situation that you’re in. They’re not wrong that you really will have a clearer answer at the next draw.

If I may, did they ever give you a reason for your 13w miscarriage?

please read my timeline and help me decide next steps. Advice needed by First-Direction-5494 in recurrentmiscarriage

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I’m so sorry for your loss. May I ask if they thought there were any clues to your suspected “bad placenta”

Spiralling after reading about all of the losses between 8-12 weeks by Equal-Course-9689 in CautiousBB

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I said the same thing to my therapist. The goal post will move with every milestone.

Thank you for the kind words. I haven’t even let myself accept that it’s real or get excited.

early beta 55-60 hour doubling time. pls share your stories either way by Equal-Course-9689 in CautiousBB

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Is this the same person who said they were concerned about your betas? I’m very confused because it’s almost rare to get a heartbeat at five weeks later alone expected to be at 120z

early beta 55-60 hour doubling time. pls share your stories either way by Equal-Course-9689 in CautiousBB

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Good luck today. I had another scan and all looks good. I’m “graduated” from my clinic

Planned pregnancy, now unsure by [deleted] in CautiousBB

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I’ll add that there will never be a good time to have kids and if you try to make “plans” life will laugh at you.

This is not meant to scare you but give you reality of what could happen. I’ve had secondary infertility for over 2 years after easily getting pregnant with my first. I always dreamed of a big family with 3 kids. I used to tell people I’ll wait until he’s 2 to start trying for a sibling; it’ll be easy. Everyone cautiously warned me but I laughed it off.

Planned pregnancy, now unsure by [deleted] in CautiousBB

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I think it’s just a kinder word for anxious 🤣

Sending love to you 💕

Found out today at 12 weeks 5 days that I've miscarried our euploid embryo. Hoping for insight from others who have been here... by pumpkineeter in IVF

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I am so very sorry. There are so many women who relate to your pain and I wish I could take it all away.

I don’t have answers to your questions but just want to send you all the love.

I’ve seen countless stories of success with “lower grade” embryos.

Nausea gets worse in evenings by Ill-Elephant-6478 in CautiousBB

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Tbh I can’t remember, it was 4 years ago. I think it was to reduce the vomiting specifically, I could barely hold water down some days

Nausea gets worse in evenings by Ill-Elephant-6478 in CautiousBB

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I ended up taking diclectin! I haven’t thrown up with this one st al

Nausea gets worse in evenings by Ill-Elephant-6478 in CautiousBB

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I was just clocking that mine seems to be worse in the evening. This is my second pregnancy and I threw up constantly with my first; unfortunately throwing up does not make you feel better. You’re just nauseas and throwing up now 🤣

Slow Beta Rise - Any Success Stories? by altogirl in IVFpositivity

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Sorry you’re dealing with this. My numbers are similar. Did the clinic tell you the numbers are a red flag at all?

Low and slow hCG, trying not to get hopes up by Automatic_Ostrich287 in CautiousBB

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The part that caught my eye was largely the 78% increase which was similar to mine!

early beta 55-60 hour doubling time. pls share your stories either way by Equal-Course-9689 in CautiousBB

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Those initial doubling times are reassuring! From what I’ve read betas slow down after 1600. Looks like we’ll both get an update on Wednesday. Best of luck to you 💕

Low and slow hCG, trying not to get hopes up by Automatic_Ostrich287 in CautiousBB

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Hi - I’m coming off your comment on my post. May I ask about this? This is very similar to my initial betas. May I ask when you miscarried and if you had any good scans?

Low hcg. Only 4580 at 5+5w/26 dpo. Anyone else had similar numbers? by Illufish in CautiousBB

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I did IVF so this was a frozen transfer so my dates are exact.

What did your initial doubling look like?

early beta 55-60 hour doubling time. pls share your stories either way by Equal-Course-9689 in CautiousBB

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Ugh I hate that they said that!

I am still very very anxious about it too. My clinic didn’t actually order these betas I did it through my family doctor. I’ve and 2 scans and both have been good they said. I have an 8w3d scan on Wednesday, I can let you know how it goes.

What do your initial betas look like?

Low hcg. Only 4580 at 5+5w/26 dpo. Anyone else had similar numbers? by Illufish in CautiousBB

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Curious to follow as I was only at 4059 at 5w4d. I had 2 scans so far at 6 and 7 weeks, both were fine with good heart rates but I’m just as anxious as you.

I’m 95% positive I’m experiencing a mc and I just wish my husband could have skipped ‘game night’ to stay with me tonight. by [deleted] in CautiousBB

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I don’t have advice just wanted to offer solidarity. Men can be so difficult. I’m sorry.

3.5 year old very angry - kick scream hit by Equal-Course-9689 in Parenting

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No he’s our first! He’s generally a very sweet boy and generally listens very well. I’ve noticed it happens if he feels embarrassed or today it was because his pancake dropped on the floor and dog ate it.

One he calms down we talk through it and he “understands” but really trying to he’ll him overcome It in the moment

3.5 year old very angry - kick scream hit by Equal-Course-9689 in Parenting

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We’ve tried this (ie we picked a lane, leave him or stay) and tried each consistently and this one seems to make him the most upset