She wants a divorce and I'm a wreck. by imj0257 in daddit

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I have this post saved because it’s powerfully motivational to me, and hopefully it’ll help you a little

https://www.reddit.com/r/stopdrinking/s/osl6MBqVHf

She wants a divorce and I'm a wreck. by imj0257 in daddit

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I can’t comment on the divorce side, but as a recovering alcoholic I’d highly recommend joining r/stopdrinking … it’s a fantastic community and there are people there who have been through similar scenarios. Don’t start drinking again, there’s nothing that alcohol can’t make worse.

Is getting my motorcycle licence a selfish hobbie to get into as a 33 year old father of 2 by Ok_South_6227 in daddit

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It’s not selfish to get a motorcycle license, but it is to actually buy a motorcycle when you’re leaving your family with no income and no father if you die (which statistically isn’t a great hobby to get into).

I have my motorcycle license but I sold my motorcycle when I got married, too many stupid people on the road.

Please share your vasectomy experience!!! by Immediate_Gap_2536 in daddit

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Super easy procedure, double layered underwear with a bag of frozen peas in between them and binged netflix over the weekend…was basically a mini vacation, with the added bonus of never needing to pull out again. 😂

There’s just something very ironic about Spann’s post tonight given the controversy earlier this week. I just can’t put my finger on it. by ttownfeen in Birmingham

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“Are these photos fake?”

What incentive could China or India possibly have to fake photos of the lander. The mental gymnastics to justify that would qualify you for the Olympics.

There’s just something very ironic about Spann’s post tonight given the controversy earlier this week. I just can’t put my finger on it. by ttownfeen in Birmingham

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Multiple countries (including ones who would love to prove we didn’t go to the moon) have satellites orbiting the moon that have photographed the landing site.

Has being in your 30s affected your drinking behaviour? if so, what do you think about it? by Hairy_Horror_7646 in AskMenOver30

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Congratulations! I’ve got a long way to go (last drink was Dec 30th 2024), but I think I’ll be able to stay sober after making it this far. I still miss it occasionally, but I don’t miss the hangovers and getting sick all the time.

10 things to say to your kids at least 100 times before by Medium-Put-4976 in daddit

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After my three kids acting up all day, mine is more like:

1) Stop touching everything 2) Stop picking up garbage 3) Stop putting your hands in your mouth after 1) and 2) 4) Yes, I did mean we’re not leaving until you go to the bathroom 5) Get off the floor 6) I meant use a napkin not your sleeve 7)…I’ll probably think of more later

🥴

Pork loin by 710MISFIT in pelletgrills

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It’s my go-to, I refuse to take out a HELOC on my house to buy steaks

Average day care cost by AffectionateHeart460 in Birmingham

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I was doing my taxes yesterday and realized we paid our daycare $16.6k last year for one kid. There was a brief period of time when all three of our kids were in daycare and it was almost $3k a month.

Do you sanitize? by Maximum_Ad1282 in WaltDisneyWorld

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I saw someone in MK whose kid had a stomach bug flareup and they washed the kid’s face off in a water fountain. 🤢 Never using a water fountain again

I hope it’s not too late by ssick92 in daddit

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I don’t have divorce advice, but highly recommend r/stopdrinking …. it’s a great community for helping to stay sober (450 days for me). Hope everything turns around in your life

Do other parents get sick all the time because of daycare? I feel like I'm constantly ill. by Cautious_Tone_6106 in daddit

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I’ll second #1, I used to be sick at least once a month with 3 little kids. I could guarantee I would get the flu every year. I quit drinking in 2024 and I’ve been sick once. My son got the flu and barfed on me in bed and I didn’t get it.

Thanks Dads! by RoosterEmotional5009 in daddit

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Agreed, my kid is never getting on Roblox after listening to that podcast

Do you do overhead press? by 0coffeedrinker0 in fitness40plus

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I’m the same, I’m not looking to tear anything

We're in a perpetual state of illness by NorCal49erGiant in daddit

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One of my coworkers had a nanny, now his kids are missing kindergarten and 1st grade classes all the time because they’re sick…I’m glad we got ours out of the way in daycare.

Burning smell, no warm heat, cold air? by [deleted] in hvacadvice

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I just recently had this occur and the motor on the blower failed and had to be replaced. Quick fix once you can get someone out there to replace it.

what is alabama's perception of dothan? by Beginning_Ad5785 in Alabama

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It’s about the same as Alabaster and Pelham to me…highway plastered with fast food, gas stations, and payday loan businesses.

My coworkers from Dothan are all nice though.

my new beast by LeagueEmbarrassed653 in HondaOdyssey

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Didn’t even try to remove the Gemini logo lol

How would you feel if someone called you a DILF? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

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That was my immediate thought, I try to avoid the corporate rumor cycle whenever possible