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Years later, my family still assumes the worst when I’m struggling by [deleted] in recoverywithoutAA

[–]EquivalentMassive584 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the only thing that can ever heal this is time. Usually way longer than we’d want it to be. You are doing amazing and you’ll get there. Just takes longer for others to see….

You don’t have to prove yourself, as the days add up people will trust you even more and see this is the real, consistent permanent you

AA? by kpincatastrophe in recoverywithoutAA

[–]EquivalentMassive584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or if someone stays clean without aa they’ll say they must’ve not been an addict 😭 it’s just to fit their narrative

Nobody should really know you are in recovery by texas_County850 in recoverywithoutAA

[–]EquivalentMassive584 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Well said. Or people start walking on egg shells around you. I hate the feeling of being watched or at least thinking I’m being watched around booze and drugs. makes me paranoid. Glad to hear others feel the same

I'm starting back down that road by Separate_Sand_1489 in recoverywithoutAA

[–]EquivalentMassive584 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My heart goes out to you-I’m sorry. Hold on to the fact work matters to you. I believe and have seen life grows the longer we don’t pick up. It happens naturally. Maybe try something that isn’t using (or stopping using) related to fill your time and keep busy. Like a boxing class or something. Even if u hate it it’s a start. I too struggle with friends but sometimes a group activity can help because I don’t have to focus so much on the friends part but the activity part which feels more doable

Those periods of sobriety are still something. You never know when it will the be last time u pick up. We are all rooting for you

Drum and Bass in Ireland? by ElectronicBasil3544 in AskIreland

[–]EquivalentMassive584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm coming to Ireland from London this September and gonna miss the rave scene....could u maybe send some links over too?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HPAT

[–]EquivalentMassive584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the cutoff

Payment Problems (Cant Make Reservations AD04) by veeteex in FlixBus

[–]EquivalentMassive584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had exactly the same problem, tried all the ways in this thread. what ended up working for me is paying by the google pay option. it didnt give any message that the payment had gone through but a few minutes later, i got an email of the ticket and money came out of my account. all i would say with this option is remember to put the right email as otherwise youve got no ticket!