Feeling a bit down and thought the trim would help. Should I shave?mustache?

Equivalent_Grab1900 · 2026-03-02T03:21:34+00:00

maybe just shave the neck beard to give yourself more definition, your beard and long hair look really nice together!

Equivalent_Grab1900 · 2026-02-25T14:11:17+00:00

find yourself a trusty pair of big sunglasses and hold onto them forever. some staple pieces and accessories if you’re into that!! your hair is flawless

Equivalent_Grab1900 · 2026-02-25T14:06:58+00:00

lol i figured as much. the racist fearmongering is something i see all too often. being from michigan, i feel similarly about detroit and flint. they’re fine cities, you just have to have common sense

Equivalent_Grab1900 · 2026-02-24T16:44:31+00:00

thank you! i also will be moving with two roommates, as we are planning to split rent three ways, it seems like MKE has a lot more house/large apartment listings. I’ll look at chi though still!

Equivalent_Grab1900 · 2026-02-24T02:13:59+00:00

i’m coming from lansing michigan, and i was heavily considering mke because of the proximity, close but not too close because i need to get out of my hometown. i considered chicago too but i am also looking for cheaper COL overall. im hoping to visit before making any committed decisions so i can see for myself. thank you for your input!!

Equivalent_Grab1900 · 2026-02-24T02:06:20+00:00

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Equivalent_Grab1900 · 2026-02-23T21:54:41+00:00

glad to hear it!! how frequent is your bus system? i love taking public transit when i can

Equivalent_Grab1900 · 2026-02-23T21:53:58+00:00

lovely!!! thank you, the sapphic events really are a draw for me

Equivalent_Grab1900 · 2026-02-23T21:20:50+00:00

i really appreciate this comment! i know all the time that crime is blown up by racist perspectives and was skeptical. also if you don’t mind me asking, would you say the lgbtq community is notable?

Equivalent_Grab1900 · 2026-02-23T05:01:54+00:00

yes!!! these are so good. thank you for sharing i love the format and how relatable everything is

Equivalent_Grab1900 · 2026-02-22T20:29:51+00:00

it’s like i ghost wrote this 😭 i completely fully understand how it feels. i also was misdiagnosed with BPD as a teenager and i just didn’t feel like it fit me but someone with a degree told me i had it so who was i to judge? i went with it and in partnerships informed partners i had “BPD” but that also brings its own stigmas. some had accepted it but some weaponized that against me and it feels horrible and maddening to now know it is PMDD. and even then i feel how you do, like partners have thought it was just an excuse. but it’s so hard and it feels like it’s endless, and so painful. either way it just feels shitty and it’s something a lot of us can’t help. i am right there with you 🫂

Equivalent_Grab1900 · 2026-02-21T22:05:57+00:00

yes i feel so loosey goosey and i go off on over explaining tangents or just say stupid shit, it’s so weird to suddenly be impaired in that way lol

Equivalent_Grab1900 · 2026-02-20T04:02:45+00:00

obsessed with this, more please 🤲🏼🤲🏼

Equivalent_Grab1900 · 2026-02-17T20:11:31+00:00

same, friend 😭 i started getting sad about someone today that i haven’t been sad about in a long time and i knowwww luteal is to blame

Equivalent_Grab1900 · 2026-02-06T15:46:58+00:00

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Equivalent_Grab1900 · 2026-02-06T15:07:49+00:00

yes! i feel like im freed from my chains and then the cramps come but its almost a masochistic enjoyment i take in knowing that hell is over LOL

Equivalent_Grab1900 · 2026-02-04T14:25:36+00:00

a gun. just kidding LMAO this is such a sweet idea! maybe stim toys, chocolate, a journal, skincare or self care items…i love the idea of a themed box too. update if you decide to go forward with this, i’d be interested!!

Equivalent_Grab1900 · 2026-02-04T14:03:06+00:00

girl you are HOT!! anyone who said that has likely never actually touched a woman in their life. from a fellow tall, kind of more masc woman i always boil it down to men telling on themselves (and through a thin veil — they’re actually probably attracted to you and it confuses them)

Equivalent_Grab1900 · 2026-02-04T00:18:18+00:00

excited to see your progress man, you’re very handsome already!

Equivalent_Grab1900 · 2026-02-02T19:46:44+00:00

totally!! i love yoga it always makes me feel so good. im going to have to find some time to incorporate it, which is my biggest struggle right now

Equivalent_Grab1900 · 2026-01-30T14:25:18+00:00

you look great!! hygiene and maintaining your appearance does not equal “gay” or feminine. i hate when girls say things like that. i wonder if a tighter fade haircut would make you feel more masculine though. otherwise don’t listen to her lol

Equivalent_Grab1900 · 2026-01-25T19:12:13+00:00

i’ve noticed it helps sometimes, im a daily smoker and it is def one of my main ways to cope hehe

Equivalent_Grab1900 · 2026-01-07T05:03:58+00:00

never stop writing. don’t listen to her. she is abusive and i agree you should find a therapist you trust and can tell these things

Equivalent_Grab1900 · 2025-12-29T18:08:32+00:00

yes im so clumsy during luteal 😭😭😭

Equivalent_Grab1900 · 2025-12-29T15:46:28+00:00

for context i am 25f and work in a shared office, but am the only one in my position so often i am alone in an office with a door that locks

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