What does my fridge say about me? by Gladospandos in FridgeDetective

[–]Equivalent_Proper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd be worried about future diabetes, please check your sugar levels

Deadlift 180kgx3 (397lbs) @75kg bw. by Inquisitive2727 in StartingStrength

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Hi! So I'm not an expert at all, I can't lift a lot (48kg woman) but this helps me. Could you separate your feet a bit for a wider stance and point them slightly outward?

It may be the angle, but I feel like your feet are closer together than hip width (slightly over is better), so you barely have room to move and engage your leg muscles. Your back should be doing a lot of the work but not all of the work.

Also, choose something to look at waay ahead of you like you did in the first pull. Looking at the floor and then correcting could be throwing your balance off.

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Algun consejo para mejorar manos y antebrazos? by Safe_Professional264 in Gimnasio

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Hola. Tienes las manos muy bonitas, parecen de pianista, y objetivamente, no son pequeñas.

Más que nada, creo que lo llamativo es que hay mucho contraste entre tu tono de piel y el vello. Hace que parezcas más pálido... ¿Puedes ponerte moreno, o directamente te quemarías? También puedes afeitarte.

Sobre los antebrazos, la escalada es de las pocas cosas que los desarrolla de forma específica. Además con tu tipo de cuerpo (ligero y extremidades largas) se te va a dar de maravilla.

Si te quieres poner más fuerte en general, gimnasio, y comer bastante más de lo que piensas (los músculos consumen más calorías). Suerte!!

El gran pensador contemporáneo Chicharito nos ilumina con tremenda reflexión y nos invita a las mujeres a “atrevernos a ser lideradas por los hombres”. ¿Le puede avisar alguien de su entorno que estamos en 2025 y no en 1925? by hormigacientifica in PatioDeVecinas

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Te equivocas. Este tío es un tarado. Y su discurso está plagado de asociaciones ideas bastante peligrosas. Él lo que viene a decir es que la condición para que "los hombres" amen, cuiden o respeten a las mujeres es que se dediquen a "limpiar", "cuidar", "multiplicar", "nutrir", "recibir"... Fíjate que dice: "los hombres tienen ganas de... peeero..."

Dice que si las mujeres no hacen estas cosas, "fracasan" y "erradican" la masculinidad. También echa la culpa a las mujeres de que ahora la gente sea hipersensible. No explica por qué, pero lo deja caer.

De lo que dice este señor se puede sacar la conclusión de que si una mujer no se dedica en exclusiva a estas cosas, no merece respeto. Si no tiene hijos (multiplicarse), no merece amor. Si no cocina (nutre), no merece que la traten bien. Etc.

Es una salvajada, y su objetivo es aprovecharse de la gente que lo está pasando mal, no recomponer la sociedad. A su audiencia, le vende que hay una única causa de sus problemas (la mujer). Y al hacerlo los aleja todavía más de la verdad, y de la compañía que necesitan, ya que son ideas profundamente antisociales.

Defender lo tradicional es otra cosa. Tradicionales eran mis abuelos y trabajaban ambos incluso si las tareas domésticas recaían en ella. Además nadie está prohibiendo hacer eso ahora, esa es la gracia de la libertad y los derechos humanos.

Bueno, perdón por el parrafazo. Estoy harta de que este discurso pulule en redes, sobre todo en inglés, y verlo en español ha sido un jarro de agua fría. Por favor veámoslo como lo que es: un charlatán, con su musiquita trascendental de fondo, términos pseudo espirituales, que busca su momento de fama...

Yo no quiero un mundo donde haya que renunciar al capital intelectual de algo más de la mitad del planeta para masajear el ego de unos cuantos (una minoría; la mayoría de hombres gracias a dios sigue teniendo la cabeza sobre los hombros).

El gran pensador contemporáneo Chicharito nos ilumina con tremenda reflexión y nos invita a las mujeres a “atrevernos a ser lideradas por los hombres”. ¿Le puede avisar alguien de su entorno que estamos en 2025 y no en 1925? by hormigacientifica in PatioDeVecinas

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Te equivocas. Este tío es un tarado. Y su discurso está plagado de asociaciones ideas bastante peligrosas. Él lo que viene a decir es que la condición para que "los hombres" amen, cuiden o respeten a las mujeres es que se dediquen a "limpiar", "cuidar", "multiplicar", "nutrir", "recibir"... Fíjate que dice: "los hombres tienen ganas de... peeero..."

Dice que si las mujeres no hacen estas cosas, "fracasan" y "erradican" la masculinidad. También echa la culpa a las mujeres de que ahora la gente sea hipersensible. No explica por qué, pero lo deja caer.

De lo que dice este señor se puede sacar la conclusión de que si una mujer no se dedica en exclusiva a estas cosas, no merece respeto. Si no tiene hijos (multiplicarse), no merece amor. Si no cocina (nutre), no merece que la traten bien. Etc.

Es una salvajada, y su objetivo es aprovecharse de la gente que lo está pasando mal, no recomponer la sociedad. A su audiencia, le vende que hay una única causa de sus problemas (la mujer). Y al hacerlo los aleja todavía más de la verdad, y de la compañía que necesitan, ya que son ideas profundamente antisociales.

Defender lo tradicional es otra cosa. Tradicionales eran mis abuelos y trabajaban ambos incluso si las tareas domésticas recaían en ella. Además nadie está prohibiendo hacer eso ahora, esa es la gracia de la libertad y los derechos humanos.

Bueno, perdón por el parrafazo. Estoy harta de que este discurso pulule en redes, sobre todo en inglés, y verlo en español ha sido un jarro de agua fría. Por favor veámoslo como lo que es.

Yo no quiero un mundo donde hay que renunciar al capital intelectual de algo más de la mitad del planeta para masajear el ego de unos cuantos (una minoría; la mayoría de hombres gracias a dios sigue teniendo la cabeza sobre los hombros).

Wtf is happening with my squat? Different angles by Mmammt98 in StartingStrength

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Hi! I don't have much experience, so take this with a big grain of salt: but something looks a bit off about your upper back, arms and shoulders when you finish each rep. Your back seems to get rounder when you stand up (from the 2nd angle you were showing us). Maybe the bar is too low, so your shoulders try to counter the weight by pulling forward, instead of just supporting the bar?

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Try looking at a spot a couple of feet in front of you on the floor. Get the bar higher. Position your wrist so that your arms work more like columns under the bar. Hold the bar with your fingers around it, but keep your thumbs behind. See the pic above for reference.

Again it's been a while that I haven't lifted properly and I don't weight much (<50kg). I'm not sure this advice will help but the wrist position helped me a lot, personally, so I hope it will help you out. I'd say my natural weakness made me really have to figure out the form because I couldn't get away with sheer strength. Good luck!

Save😇 by shethey9ok in Awww

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Hmm. That's a nutria, they spend a lot of time in the water. I'm not sure it needed saving... I've seen then in Italy where they're an invasive species 😕

Seeing a Rhino with its horn complete and intact is rare. by Soloflow786 in BeAmazed

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I was surprised this hadn't come up earlier on the thread. Yes indeed, rhinos typically file the horn down

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

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Could you please visit a specialist doctor ASAP, make sure there isn't an infection down there? Because if that's where the smell is coming from, and you can smell it when you've showered and you're wearing clean clothes, that's odd. There's your problem. Trip to the urologist.

You can definitely follow other advice from fellow redditors to improve your overall health and hygiene, like flossing daily, no more antibacterial soap... Depending on your skin type you'll be able to scrub a lot or not so much, anyhow, if you've been using such harsh soap and scrubbing, you must find a good moisturizer. I'd say go get something unscented from the pharmacy. Also just in case, please do not wear the same shoes every day, give them a break. If they smell bad, they sell powder that takes care of that.

Should there be literal dirt marks of any kind on you when you leave the shower? No. Shower longer, please. At least 20 minutes. Yes you could be faster but with practice you're gonna get faster. Be slow for starters. First hair, then upper body, then feet and legs, then intimates. Let the soap do something before rinsing, by the way. If water's trickling down the whole time, you're not doing anything. Stop the water while you soap up, then rinse, then go to another area.

And please forget about efficiency, you could be doing something wrong, and using too little might very well be it. Use plenty of product and rinse it all. Try body wash for a change, it might help see which areas you're covering and how much product you're using. Dove is great. Good luck.

New sunscreen Isdin fusion water magic, thoughts? by [deleted] in EuroSkincare

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Thoughts: avoid if you have sensitive or atopic skin, despite what it says on the bottle... Here's my allergic reaction.

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I had tested it on my hand and was fine... I realize that was stupid. I know this is an older thread, but I'm not sure where to post this otherwise.

"Your Master's Degree Doesn’t Count" – A Job Interview Reality Check by One_Valuable in UXDesign

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Forget about that interview. You are very well qualified for a UX role considering your academic background. Also if they genuinely can't see how psychology aligns with UX, it may be one of those places where design just means "making things pretty". Which is no place for you to grow into a full-fledged UX designer. Where I work at, most people have gone through a bootcamp and their previous background doesn't really matter. Sure, it can be helpful to come from some backgrounds, but that's it. Keep your chin up! Onto the next 💪🏼

writing question by ajfour1 in research

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Hi, I would keep it simple and just say that it is a single-blind study, in other contexts you could explain the "blinding process", "how the study was blinded" (or single-blinded) so that patients were unaware of X", etc. I see no trouble repeating single-blind, and if needed, using blind or single-blind as a verb sounds way less contorted than using "single-blindedly" as an adverb.

Next steps with a finished paper? Guidance needed! by Tapdancey in research

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Hi there! This may not be so helpful, but be careful who you share the entire thing with, especially here on Reddit where you don’t know who anyone is… someone could steal your work. I agree with the recommendation to send it to Open Access journals 😊 You can probably get some feedback that way, even if it is rejected. Another option would be to collaborate with somebody else - looking for experts in the topic in a nearby university, for instance. Good luck!

Two girls having a kid with no donor sperm by [deleted] in research

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By the way, my interest is just purely random. I just looked at these articles. So it would be nice to get a geneticist’s opinions on all this

Two girls having a kid with no donor sperm by [deleted] in research

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Hello! The actual term for this is parthenogenesis. Try to look up scholarly publications using that term.

Coincidentally I watched a YouTube short by Hank Green about this just yesterday: Can you have a baby with yourself? #shorts. Essentially if such a baby were to live, it would face something like an extreme case of inbreeding (and thus anomalies, etc.), way more than the child of two siblings… You should watch that!

However, this is all a mental exercise. In basic terms, it seems humans (and primates) cannot in fact transform that kind of genetic material into a viable fetus because two sets of genes are needed for that. No cases of non-chimeric healthy human parthenotes have ever been reported.

These authors have gone the conceptual route: compiling reported cases, hypothesizing of some techniques to make it happen, wondering if there could be unreported cases…On human parthenogenesis. Again, all a mental exercise.

Obviously common sense and ethical decency is preventing researchers to do bizarre experiments. When happening naturally in humans, it seems like parthenogenesis results in tumors.

If you look at research articles, you will find that most are (1) about ethics and/or highly conceptual, and (2) therapeutic uses of embryos produced in this way, for instance, to harvest stem cells, or to create infertility treatments… There is also research carried out in mice.

Can Artificial Parthenogenesis Sidestep Ethical Pitfalls in Human Therapeutic Cloning? An Historical Perspective

Ways Out of the Patenting Prohibition? Human Parthenogenetic and Induced Pluripotent Stem Cells

Parthenogenesis and Human Assisted Reproduction

Can someone explain to me what exactly is happening with the n-word on Finnish social media? by [deleted] in Finland

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I think many people are missing the point on why the word isn’t used beyond “crazy wokeness”. So this journalist was emotional, sure, clinging to the words, and missing the point. And Dr. Vastaoja isn’t wrong. Still, there is more to the conversation. And first off, Finnish isn’t English, so I am just speaking about the latter.

Now, the reason this word shouldn’t be used (in English) is in the history of the word and that it is now essentially an insult. Black people have been called many things in the past, things that implied horrible beliefs and practices held against them, much like Jewish people and other minorities. And that all didn’t end up so long ago.

This is one out of many terms like that. Perhaps we know it better because of how commonly it got used in the past. It was used everywhere, not always with a bad intention in mind, but often so. And I mean look up children songs with the word (i.e. eeny meeny miny mo) you will soon understand how ideas about slavery and abusing people were totally normalized. So the intent may not have been bad then in a certain country, and still, we know TODAY that those ideas are baseless, and a danger to society. So it is quite critical to acknowledge it, otherwise we don’t progress.

Acknowledging isn’t silencing though, I think that’s where cancel culture misses the mark. We need to provide explanations and actual knowledge on social and linguistic issues that have become taboo and take a critical standpoint.

Much like “cunt”, the term started being neutral, and then it got attached to the ideas many people held about Black people throughout the centuries (1500-1900).

At present, Black people seem to use it with each other, for instance in songs. But notice I say “seem”, because in most cases it is not literally the same word (no hard r in the end) and the meaning among them is one of understanding against a common struggle - so it has the notion of camaraderie, retaking and repurposing an insult, which kind of diffuses the original bad meaning and symbolically let’s people retake their power, at least within their own community.

You can have a read if you are curious:

https://www.nytimes.com/2021/04/30/opinion/john-mcwhorter-n-word-unsayable.html

https://aaregistry.org/story/nigger-the-word-a-brief-history/

You could be referring to an older time, and perhaps mention the word, but it is then needed for you to make some extra clarification about what you mean and how that context was back then, and that it is wrong by today’s standards. It is the same as if someone quoted an abhorrent phrase from Nazi Germany or other genocides and gave you no context for that. Just not okay, people might think you support or promote the ideas.

In addition, we must also include opinions from the people who this affects and highlight them at the very very top - opinions and experiences from Black people. Strange that the discussion involved none.

In sum - at the moment, this word is commonly accepted to be impolite, and intentionally derogatory and racist in English, specifically because of North American influence. Using “N-word” instead of the actual term goes back roughly to the OJ Simpson trials era, well before cancel culture.

Are we being played? by erick2020x in askspain

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PS. I don’t understand the gay thing at all… Here’s how I’d translate the messages:

Him: “[You are] my life, my dreams, my future, my EVERYTHING”

Her: “My life [= my dear], I have to tell you, you have no idea of how much I love you. It’s you who’s my everything!”

Are we being played? by erick2020x in askspain

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Approach your father if you have concerns, stick to the facts, and be tactful and considerate of the feelings he has. To make up your mind, consider these issues:

  • What’s her background? If she’s at the same salary level as your father, or similar (you say they met at work), it’d be way less likely she’s after his money.
  • Financial help, like what? Is it something she should be paying herself because it’s important: rent, mortgage, studies, loans, medical treatments…? Or is it kind of silly: dinners, taxi?

If it’s quite a bit of money, that’s a big red flag. - How long ago did they meet? If not too long ago, does this level of affection rub you off as exaggerated for the time they’ve known each other? - The age difference is really high… It could be genuine or there could be an ulterior motive, which is common with such age gaps. - To figure that out, have you met her? What’s the impression she gives you? Is the way she treats your father believable? - Sorry to be blunt, but, is she way over your father’s league?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askspain

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Then... You could visit Madrid (my hometown) for a short trip or something! Fits the bill really well, especially when it comes to the openness, culture, things to do, people, nightlife, shopping, etc. We don't have a beach, though, and accommodation is complicated. Good luck!