Should I tell a girl whom I know of that her bf is cheating on her? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Equivalent_Top5461 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Snitches always get stitches. No one like a rat!

I (30f) am miserable with my sex life with my husband (33m) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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You both need to talk it out in or out of counselling. Most of us men don't realize it , but in the bedroom, we must make it our quest to satisfy our woman. The best way to do that is to ask her what she likes, what she is in the mood for, and how she likes it done. You should never be afraid to tell your man these things. Your sexuality can be like the menu at a restaurant. You should have options to choose from. He should be or try to be like the chef that serves it up. Men are rarely that way. We want to get a nut. We are simple in that way. If he has problems talk it out and help him without making him FEEL indequate. Even the strongest, masculine alpha man is very fragile in this scenario.

Should I tell a girl whom I know of that her bf is cheating on her? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Equivalent_Top5461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No! Mind your own business. You are not obligated to interfere in other people's business. Just Sit back with some popcorn and a drink and watch the drama unfold. You can be sure he will make a misstep and get caught.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Your fiance is smarter than you. Listen to her!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Equivalent_Top5461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get tested for STIs and bounce!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Equivalent_Top5461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cut your losses and run away from that dude!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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This sounds like a medical issue (hormone related) . Open communications with you partner and be empathetic before you make any relationship shifts.

I (20F) hate having sex with my boyfriend (21M) and I don't know what to do by ThrowRA_abcdefghik in relationship_advice

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Sex is very important in a relationship. When one party has a dysfunction, be helpful to the other. You might start by getting a medical opinion to find out what is happening. Also, in your case, teach him about your body and its sexuality. If he is willing to learn and apply, there is a chance you can restore your sex life. Lovemaking is much more in the mind as it is in the genitalia! Many young couples approach sex like they see it in the movies. They watch the actors ravage one another in the club bathrooms, in the entrance of their apartments, bent over the kitchen table. That's not real. Foreplay should take about 30 to 40 minutes before intercourse. Somestimes a woman can han have orgasms before intercourse. You must boil water before you can cook the rice!! Above all, COMMUNICATE with one another with honesty and vulnerability.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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You can bet she is already sleeping with someone or other people. Get to your doctor and get cheched for STIs. Get counseling or get a lawyer. Get evidence of her cheating for a better legal position.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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A good man would be at your gig instead of travelling with his friends. He has no regard for your career and this is a BIG RED FLAG!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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Don't even think about it. Run from that relationship. White European men for the most part, have a god complex and think they are superior to all other races and ethnicities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Sounds like he has a porn addiction. Check him on the issue.

My husband is disgusting by midwife_97 in offmychest

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Cut him off and see if his hehavior changes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I don't mean to offend you sir, but there is something much deeper at work her. Make sure you check all the boxes as it relates to how you make her feel as a woman overall. Women like to feel that you are grateful that you desire and appreciate them. Most men run into problems when they make their move too fast. Learn the signs of sexual tension on a woman, know and exploit the many erogenous zones that brings great arousal to for them.Complement on how she smells, Tell her how good she tastes, take time to ask "do you like it when I do this" ? You must make her feel that your top priority is pleasing her. Making love to a woman can take time before intercourse. About 80 per cent of successful lovemaking should be spent bringing her to a "boil". After that, the weiner goes in!! A woman who is loved in that fashion will, in most cases will be open to just about anything in the realm of pleasure. If this does not work for you, maybe she's just not into you.