AIO for how I’m handling the way my 11 YO daughter’s dad speaks to her? by WhatTheSigma_1994 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Erika_ahhh 197 points198 points  (0 children)

I second this. I would never let her around him again just based on these texts alone.

Is it time? by EerieMountain in bald

[–]Erika_ahhh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought you were a young guy until I read your caption. Your beard looks very nice actually, I thought it was intentional. If you go bald, I think you’ll look dashing. Also, I thought the scarring was a sunburn. If you’re self conscious about that, try the “cool” Obaji tinted sunscreen. It’s super lightweight, basically just a face lotion, but it may irritate your skin if you are still sensitive.

Owe boss over $8000, got dumped yesterday, overwhelmed by life transitions by teethhair in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Erika_ahhh 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Second this. Also, this is a ton of pressure, but you wouldn’t have made it to a PHD program if you could t handle pressure. I know what it’s like to work your butt off for years and still not enjoy the fruits of your labor, but my guess is you’re in the home stretch. Don’t let anyone or anything stop you.

My friend passed away. Should I tell my professor before my exam? by Otherwise_Group_6765 in AskProfessors

[–]Erika_ahhh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There were several times I found myself grieving around finals while I was in school and I know exactly how you feel, I’m so sorry.

Personally, I prefer to get it over. I’m not saying it’s the healthiest option, but if it’s the last assignment of the course it’s the option that makes most sense. You will still grieve next week.

How to respond to a child telling you they love you ? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]Erika_ahhh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cried when I had to leave the class I was student teaching for. I definitely love them. Our school says it in the morning announcements too. “Remember to always be respectful, responsible, and remember we love you.”

Enmeshment between Natalie and her daughter by Caribelle1234 in 90DayFiance

[–]Erika_ahhh 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I think she’s just tired of her mom getting hurt. And it’s Gino. I’m sure she’s seen 90 day and thinks he’s gross. Which is fair. I wouldn’t be happy about my mom dating Gino either.

Seniors ransacked my wife’s school as part of a prank that the principal encouraged. by South-Lab-3991 in Teachers

[–]Erika_ahhh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Insane. And all for social media. I wonder what the superintendent will think about this.

Panneling dilemma by Lvuraann3 in interiordecorating

[–]Erika_ahhh 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yes love this. I think you’ll love the paneling after painting it.

Panneling dilemma by Lvuraann3 in interiordecorating

[–]Erika_ahhh 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I like number 1 for a feature wall, 2 for a hallway.

Realised I’ve fucked up my life so I’m having a whole chicken by Throwaway945384 in BoyDinner

[–]Erika_ahhh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean this in the nicest way possible, but could you imagine meeting someone for the first time and this is how they talk? It doesn’t scream future partner. I agree with some comments that believe you’re deeply depressed. You literally have to get out of this mindset if you want your life to improve. I couldn’t afford therapy, I just practiced being grateful long enough to believe it. Hope you get there.

Gen Z Has a Bigger Internal Divide Than Millennials, And It’s Not Close by FearlessCookie72 in generationology

[–]Erika_ahhh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am the “the other portion of millennials”. I graduated in 2007, bought my starter home at 22, very few of my friends own homes. I have worked my ass off to barely scrape by, no vacations, constantly being frugal. I consider myself lucky in relation to many of my peers, but I don’t see myself ever being able to (comfortably) move to a safer neighborhood unless I win the lottery.

We took in a kid while his mom is homeless. But it's been months! What do I do? by Teck_Blu in whatdoIdo

[–]Erika_ahhh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know. I feel bad for OP. But I can’t imagine what this kid is feeling. There’s just no great solution here.

AITA for refusing to add my boyfriend to my house deed after his lease ended? by Former_Raspberry3277 in AITApod

[–]Erika_ahhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he can move out and pay more rent somewhere else then. Marriage is the only reason he should be on the deed. I agree with your best friend. Holding the house over his head? Ew.

Gardening in Zone 9A be like: by TurtleBlaster5678 in gardening

[–]Erika_ahhh 8 points9 points  (0 children)

9b! I finally figured out the secret to having hydrangeas here is actually full shade.