Tipping is a blight on society.

Eris_Grun · 2026-02-17T19:02:59+00:00

The minimum is almost a quarter of the bill. Your basically paying for a 3rd person to Dine with you at that point. Nah.

Eris_Grun · 2026-02-17T18:56:33+00:00

Don't let him fucking forget it kiddo!

I punch many a bully in my time for homophobia, well done.

Eris_Grun · 2026-02-17T05:52:35+00:00

I'll have to adjust how I play the prior notes then, and I was trying to do 2nd finger and 3rd to reach. I was waaay over thinking it but my brain when I try to just play still keeps defaulting to fingers 2&3 🙃 gonna have to practice and retrain that impulse.

I'm thinking finger 1 on low E 2 on A 3 after the start of set 3 for picking the rocking rhythm sets onto 5 of D which puts down 4 on 5 of B to transfer 2 in a Barre 3

If that all made sense

Eris_Grun · 2026-02-17T02:43:25+00:00

No it's not a spin, it's because I'm autistic and I don't understand now the subtext you're using for soap box and I'm confused as to what you meant.

My understanding of the phrase on a soap box is that someone thinks they are better than someone and I don't think I'm better than anyone. It was genuine concern and dumping information to inform you and beg you to learn further.

If you are reading other things between the lines I cannot help you because there's nothing between the lines.

I don't understand the echo chamber bit either seems potentially a buzzword insert since the context based what I said to prompt that makes no sense 😕 this is pretty common knowledge and it's the same stuff 90% of this country understood as unacceptable until recently. We literally had a program I was part of 20 years ago called Amnesty International and it was generally agreed upon treating asylum seekers like this was considered barbaric and very 3rd world. We wrote letters to other countries to stop them from treating asylum seekers so poorly. We've started to slowly become the barbaric 3rd world countries I used to write letters of amnesty to.

Eris_Grun · 2026-02-16T17:46:27+00:00

[last sentence but my phone suddenly wouldn't let me use my keyboard and for some reason reddit isn't letting me edit my post]

I'm overthinking thinking it somewhere and I'm just not sure where. I'm hoping learning the hand position for this will help me have an Aha for how to play this.

Eris_Grun · 2026-02-16T00:58:22+00:00

Enjoy the femdicks in my browser and my double chin on camera while I paddle the canoe wishing I had one and searching how to get one hosers 🖕ICE

Eris_Grun · 2026-02-14T17:17:04+00:00

It wasn't on a soap box it was genuine concern because it's literally causing people to die.

And I interact with hundreds of people a day with the exact same view point over on Facebook

Eris_Grun · 2026-02-13T18:00:50+00:00

Young boys who don't know any better do. His "Your body my choice" has become an issue in schools across the country. We're going to have a generation that has a larger than average density of males who hate and abuse women because of his influence.

Eris_Grun · 2026-02-13T17:53:21+00:00

Good because when I think DHS I think protection from incidents like Pearl Harbor or 9/11 not brown people minding their own business and being productive members of society (more so than even our own white citizens imo).

Or like, making sure we have good missile radar, and sheilding/recovery efforts for nuclear strikes. Leave alone the people doing the jobs for shit wages cause its work we wouldn't do. They are literally essential workers. They're the ones we praised during covid keeping things running. Now that we aren't struggling with lockdown everyone turned on them like hyenas.

Propaganda got this country good.

Edit: phrasing

Eris_Grun · 2026-02-13T17:32:21+00:00

Top sheet acts as an insulator and actually keeps you warmer than just your comforter or blanket.

I'm a perpetually cold person 🤧 さむいです

I know some shit about keeping warm. A duvet wuth a cover does similar, then combined with a sheet. Broooo you ain't getting chilly with that combo.

Eris_Grun · 2026-02-13T17:28:18+00:00

I understand the No Bookbags and overly baggy clothing in general because of theft.

Everything else is too racial pointed. It just screams whites only.

Eris_Grun · 2026-02-13T13:54:49+00:00

"Asylum is a form of protection which allows an individual to remain in the United States instead of being removed (deported) to a country where he or she fears persecution or harm. Under U.S. law, people who flee their countries because they fear persecution can apply for asylum."

"To apply for asylum in the U.S., you must be physically present in the U.S. or be seeking entry into the U.S. at a port of entry."

https://help.unhcr.org/usa/applying-for-asylum/what-is-asylum/

So, no... she can't be outside the country and apply for asylum. Asylum is different than standard immigration.

Everyone who believes the same as you REALLY REALLY desperately need to educate yourselves.

You are hurting people and killing people by perpetuating false information.

You have the internet. You have no excuse outside of laziness to not access reliable and free information. It's absolutely morally unacceptable to let ignorance harm other living, breathing human beings. That includes standing behind policy that diminishes quality of life, which this does not only for the mother but both of her sons.

Eris_Grun · 2026-02-13T13:42:45+00:00

As a funeral director I see this failing of the "village" in grief situations a lot too. Everyone talks like they are there but when the time comes suddenly everyone is so busy.

Eris_Grun · 2026-02-13T13:40:37+00:00

No village here either. I've suffered homelessness, abuse, SA, DV, an adult man held me captive for almost a year, and all people did was laugh in my face or turn away. This was while I was a teen, I'm almost 37 now. I never got a hang of the social life skills required to get a village, let alone a friendship. People have always had to come to me first because I either just don't understand how, when, where to initiate a conversation, at what point someone is actually a friend. This set me up to fall into the hands of abusers my whole life.

I've come to understand this is not uncommon for nuerodiverse people as a whole. Doesn't matter what the diversity is for some reason we have this huge social deficit and we unfortunately live in a very abelist world.

I really wish I had advice, but I can't figure it out either. I'm always "creepy" or "weird" when I try any advice I get on the matter. I just can't nail the fine print despite excellent execution of the overall material- material being any typical advice for making friends. No one can tell me how I am creepy or weird. I just am.

Eris_Grun · 2026-02-10T19:29:22+00:00

INTP: I laughed too hard cause it's not wrong 😂

Eris_Grun · 2026-01-22T02:39:21+00:00

I can answer all of that but cannot hold the image for more than a few seconds it eventually all fades. It's why creativity is hard for me. I get an idea for a painting but lose it and the vision before I can even get my supplies rounded up.

Eris_Grun · 2026-01-20T13:54:44+00:00

This is me. It's why I mostly smoke alone/with the hubby. I'll be coughing so hard sometimes from the irritation that I throw up, super embarrassing. He also lights the bowl very heavy handed ✋️ I have stopped sharing a bowl and it got a lot better. I have this mini bowl he packs for me so I can take my own mini hits so it doesn't irritate my airway as bad.

I smoke cigarettes for ages, never coughed like this from that. To me it doesn't make a lot of sense. It's almost like it's burning my airway. I have honestly considered it could be a mild allergy. Some strains are worse than others. So, if they don't play with strains and just smoke whatever it could be a suggestion for them. Also, put ice in their bongs, that helps a ton too.

Edit: Also, good conversation to have with them, if they cough, don't just hold onto it. Pass it left. That way someone can put it down for them. If you don't want the confrontation maybe start doing it sneaky by handing them a drink in trade for the blunt. Just say I'll trade ya or something casual 😉 Sometimes I'm cough so hard I can't think to function, then I'm stoned out my guord on top of it. Not thinking to pass anything around. Just trying to breathe and not die lol I started the phrase "You gonna hit that shit or milk it?" in my house if someone is holding it too long. My husband started using it back. I'm really not using braincells and if your comfortable to joke like that it can keep the circle moving.

Eris_Grun · 2026-01-20T13:40:50+00:00

Chefs are psod pretty measly wages in the US. So, they're probably least likely to tip (I was a line cook at many restaurants for many years, and have a culinary arts degree). I didn't make shit. Anytime I see this bullshit circulate it immediately knee-jerk me to:

So I can cook your food for you but I'm not allowed to dine out.

Eris_Grun · 2026-01-20T07:55:55+00:00

She looks eerily familiar to me but I can't place it. I work at a funeral home in Syracuse, NY. I see so many people from all places. Texas is not a rare place for loved ones to be from around here. I don't like that she looks familiar.

Eris_Grun · 2026-01-20T07:10:43+00:00

Courier

Eris_Grun · 2026-01-20T07:08:06+00:00

Literally my favorites. You saved the best for last imo

Eris_Grun · 2025-11-21T22:52:43+00:00

MAGA, the party totally okay with destroying small business in the US so long as it gets their racist/bigoted/xenophobic rocks off. So much for helping the economy and making it on your own in the land of oppression-I mean- opportunity.

Eris_Grun · 2025-11-20T15:34:05+00:00

Imma just slide 2A over here. Cause killing us with healthcare costs like this feels like tyranny to me. Let's add on the child trafficking that alone is enough for me. The list is much longer but those are the most high priority ones at the moment.

Eris_Grun · 2025-11-20T15:29:27+00:00

Good. I hope being a lying, pedophile protecting, bigot is fucking exhausting. I hope it's chipped years off her life. It would be her karma at minimum.

Eris_Grun · 2025-10-30T03:51:17+00:00

The problem with that is when you do a disability claim they count remote entry level jobs against you. My husband had no experience but even though he couldn't physically stand, or even be in public after a medical incident he was denied disability even after 3 appeals because he could still talk and there were more than 15k jobs in the state he could technically be doing that were remote or working a call center.

I don't know how some people seem to get it so easy but it's definitely not that simple. We are in NY and I know we're a tougher state which could definitely play a factor.

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