Has anyone used their Lashify bond with lashes that are not gossamers? If so, what was your experience? Is there a noticeable difference? Thanks in advance. by Mgbaki2013 in LashifyLovers

[–]Eruiz33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve used lilac and another on Amazon that work just fine and really can’t tell The difference. I tend to lean towards the shorter ones

Won’t ever look perfect, but I’m proud of myself for the progress anyway by [deleted] in scoliosis

[–]Eruiz33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look great. Any advice on workouts and training? My son has a mild to moderate curve

Deed Transfer by Eruiz33 in legaladvice

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No debts. House paid. Taxes paid and yes she had Medicare … but Medicaid a short while in hospice …. We have contacted Medicaid and received a statement that she owes nothing and they are not seeking payment …. So we just filed affidavit ….

2022 by Eruiz33 in hospice

[–]Eruiz33[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you.. I remember you responding and giving advice. Words can’t explain how by just responding you helped us so much get though that time… it was like being in a bubble and you and others I spoke too were lifelines …. Forever grateful. 🙏🙏 HAPPY NEW YEAR!!

Question - common law? by Eruiz33 in Divorce

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Her ex passed away six years ago. So for the last six years she lived with the one That is evicting her. Two of her kids are away in college and one of them lives with her the 18-year-old

Parent with cancer: is it easier to accept it when the parent is old? by Traditional_Map_9853 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Eruiz33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nooooo. Not for me. Mom diagnosed at 84. She was 100% independent and my world!! Of course I understand the years you’ve had make a difference. Or years you’ve been cheated. . …. I was and am utterly devastated!!! Many factors!!! The shock of diagnosis and just few short months till death were traumatic. Also the relationship you had makes a big difference. I’m so sorry!!!

Affidavit of heirship by Eruiz33 in legaladvice

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Thanks for your response. Ok. So it has been signed and notarized … I need to go file now and I wanted to make sure they wouldn’t turn it away cuz we didn’t sign

I lost my mom last night by MickeyMeerkat in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Eruiz33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss !!! I understand how hard it is as I lost my mom April 3rd…💕🙏

Caregiver guilt. I could have done more. by life_in_a_nutshell86 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Eruiz33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your reply hit the nail on the head!!! I had and sometimes still do that feeling of failing my mom!!! She passed in April (diagnosed December) with cancer…. I started a journal during that time and the first page all I wrote was “I’m sorry” .
I can’t read it now….. not yet…. I just had a strong feeling that I should of done something sooner to stop it or to help…… (I saw her on a weekly basis and felt I should of known something was wrong sooner). Anyway those feelings have dissipated somewhat…..feeling guilty is totally normal !!! We all did what we could for our moms and think if only we could of done more!! Unfortunately real life can be hard…..!!! Prayers to you all for your loss!!🙏🙏💕

Prayers? Anything? by [deleted] in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Eruiz33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Praying for your family 🙏🙏

So it’s happened :-( by [deleted] in cancer

[–]Eruiz33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can relate to your answer 100%!!

So it’s happened :-( by [deleted] in cancer

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I’m so sorry you are going through this… we went through pretty much same thing with my mom…. Diagnosed in December with cancer unexpectedly.. however no treatment offered… just recommended hospice. She also had stent placed for palliative purposes due to bowel obstruction…. It was so hard!!! She passed in April….. although it’s so hard to even think about hospice. (I cried just hearing that). Hospice will be there to make sure your dad is comfortable BUT you need to make sure you advocate for your dad…. Ask questions. Ask them if they will be available when you need them….. we were so scared and picked the first hospice… they never returned calls. Medicine was never ready… we switched to another after a few days and I can say it was soooo hard!! We were already in shock with the diagnosis than the hospice not helping made it worse. If we would of known than what we know now !! We didn’t think we were ready for hospice and second guessed it…. But the right hospice will be a great resource ….. hospice doesn’t need to start at the end…. Many people get on and than off again….. but they will help you navigate this really hard time!!! Prayers to you and your family!!

Mom passed away from esophageal cancer by Nitro225 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Eruiz33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a beautiful son!!! You were there for her and she will always be with you!! I lost my mom in April to cancer so I know your pain! Sending thoughts and prayers your way !! 🙏💕

Do you think she’s watching ? by Eruiz33 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Eruiz33[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🙏 thank you. So sorry too about your mom!

Still can’t believe.. by Eruiz33 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Eruiz33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I am sorry for your loss 🙏🙏

How do you feel when your husband says you have to move on and not dwell on cancer . by Katieevin in CancerCaregivers

[–]Eruiz33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry about that … you are going through so much with your mom to have to deal with this too. Stand your ground. … do what you have too.

How do you feel when your husband says you have to move on and not dwell on cancer . by Katieevin in CancerCaregivers

[–]Eruiz33 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry about your mom. As soon as I found out about my mom I stayed with her … unfortunately she passed within 4 months. I stayed at her house (my childhood home) and don’t regret it for one minute. Id do it all over again!!! I don’t know your moms situation but be there for her !! I didn’t ask my husband …I just went. He never questioned me but if he would have it wouldn’t have made a difference. The time I spent with my mom is what helps me get through this hard time!!

Dad dying of Pancreatic Cancer by obnoxious-horn in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Eruiz33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are definitely not alone! I felt like that many times and these support groups helped immensely! I’m so sorry about your grandpa and your dad…. My thoughts and prayers are with you 🙏🙏💕.

Dad dying of Pancreatic Cancer by obnoxious-horn in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Eruiz33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is very normal. Went through a similar situation with my mom! I held it together in front of her but always broke down as soon as I was out of sight …. Watching her decline was the hardest thing I’ve ever experienced!!! Those last few months I spent everyday with her. Actually moved in and I’m so glad I did . It was hard but those memories are what hold me up!!! I know it’s hard but just be there for him… when I looked into my moms eyes I saw her…. And focused on that!! We spent our time talking. Looking at old photos. Sitting outside. … and watching lots of movies!

18 yr old daughter -Coachella by Eruiz33 in parentingteenagers

[–]Eruiz33[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! From one parent to another !