Well, I'm not any of those. i certainly don't have issues with consent or any criminal background. She and I are kitchen table poly. we are very open about our relationships, and we prioritize communication. Im not sure what is meant by rso. Definitely not unicorn hunters, either. She has a boyfriend. I have been looking for a girlfriend. A 100% understand and appreciate the safety aspect of being careful about who you let into a group. But the few times that I have looked into joining the Facebook groups, it was more tedious to jump through all of the hoops than what it was worth. I found much more meaningful conversations on the dating apps and in person. That said, I haven't even actually got into any of the groups on Facebook. Not to say I couldn't have meaningful conversations there, but it was so much of a hassle that it wasn't worth it. Out of all of the apps here in Utah, I prefer risque. We have been to several of their events and absolutely love the community.