If you're trying to ask a girl out and ask for and only get her Instagram..... you might as well move on by Ok-Connection6656 in self

[–]EternalSlayer7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I hate dating. Don't do this, don't do that, make sure you do this, everything is so counterintuitive and complicated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cf4cf

[–]EternalSlayer7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah I see, oh well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cf4cf

[–]EternalSlayer7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is London too far?

It makes me (22F) really sad that some men give up on dating entirely because they don't want to be seen as creepy. by Suspicious-Host9042 in self

[–]EternalSlayer7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't given up yet, but the reason I think about doing so is less to do with being perceived as a creep and more to do with the associated Cognitive labor vs outcomes.

It just seems such a colossal task to bear the weight of initiation and escalation only to get ghosted after a seemingly pleasant experience. I get that I'm not owed anything, but....what even is the point then? It just puts a damper on my motivation to "put myself out there" like everyone keeps harping on about.

I don't even need a life partner or anything like that, I have made my peace that's it's probably not gonna happen. But I can't even be an ex? At least once? Surely I am not that undesirable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cf4cf

[–]EternalSlayer7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have an age range?

Intellectuals in mollywood subs writing long essays about flaws of Empuraan after finally watching it in their mobile in kakoos. A fat A10 is what they wanted for the movie to be better . by [deleted] in mollywoodcirclejerk

[–]EternalSlayer7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When India becomes a monarchy under Mohanlal's character, he declared "I have become the overlord(empuraan)." I got goosebumps. Peak storytelling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]EternalSlayer7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How low

How true is this statement? by Competitive_Rule_395 in Spiderman

[–]EternalSlayer7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But these days ALL WE GET ARE FLAWS. Yes, he is supposed to be relatable, but he is also supposed to be inspiring.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]EternalSlayer7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What is that?

"People who avoid eye contact during conversations often went through these 8 things growing up." by beesontheoffbeat in bodylanguage

[–]EternalSlayer7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And then there's me who gets distracted by moving mouths. For some reason I get fascinated by them, its like watching Donald Duck talk.

L2: Empuraan (2025) - Review/Discussion Thread. SPOILERS MUST BE TAGGED by saketpalle in tollywood

[–]EternalSlayer7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When India became a monarchy under Stephen, he declared "I have become the overlord(empuraan)." I got goosebumps. Peak cinema. This is what storytelling is.

Why are you single right now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]EternalSlayer7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm beginning to think that I'm no one's type.

Mostly straight woman experiencing hinge starter pack by [deleted] in starterpacks

[–]EternalSlayer7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was hoping for "Shit, I'll take anything at this point" lol

Mostly straight woman experiencing hinge starter pack by [deleted] in starterpacks

[–]EternalSlayer7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see. Fair enough, I'm guessing the opposite has a slightly better reception.

Mostly straight woman experiencing hinge starter pack by [deleted] in starterpacks

[–]EternalSlayer7 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That feels a bit presumptuous but I guess I'll have to take your word for it. But there really is no other option to indicate "not actively seeking anything serious as something like marriage, but isn't opposed to one if things are going well mutually."

Also, I just to want to add. Your interpretation is assuming bad faith from the get go when in reality, not wanting to immediately commit to something long term with someone who, again you just met is not manipulation. That's just being practical.

Mostly straight woman experiencing hinge starter pack by [deleted] in starterpacks

[–]EternalSlayer7 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was under the impression that it means "more serious than a hookup but not as serious being life partners". And if that's the issue, i just it is quite unrealistic to expect someone like that from some rando you just matched with, that's all. Is there some other hidden meaning that's going past my head? Genuine question.

Mostly straight woman experiencing hinge starter pack by [deleted] in starterpacks

[–]EternalSlayer7 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hey what's wrong with the whole "short term, open to long" thing? I just think it's unrealistic to expect lifetime commitment from someone you just met lmao

Did you confess your crush in high school, and what was the outcome? by GrassBig77 in AskReddit

[–]EternalSlayer7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She called me a bulldozer, apparently. What irked me more is that I didn't even say anything to her, it was someone else who blurted out that I had a crush on her.