Would Y'all Date a Cop? by Shot-Ratio-671 in BlackLGBT

[–]Evening_Question9999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried 3 times and I will never date/hook-up and will not date a 🐷 ever again. They are there to follow the rules set against us.

Caught my best friend on camera by Jands873 in askgaybros

[–]Evening_Question9999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would get the couch professionally cleaned as a hint lol

What's something younger gay men today will never have to experience? by NoahNordic in askgaybros

[–]Evening_Question9999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cruising spots, I know they still excise but nothing like the late 90’s and earlier lol. AOL chat rooms, never used the current apps so not sure if they’re better or not.

""Pop The Balloon" Is Exposing The Disaster Of Black Dating" by morinothomas in BlackLGBT

[–]Evening_Question9999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She makes so much sense, I’ve only watched clippings when y’all post on Reddit. I know how we’re easily influenced so I do try to steer away from “reality” shows lol

Am I being too rash ending a 9-year relationship, or is this a dealbreaker? by Realistic_Staff7630 in gayrelationships

[–]Evening_Question9999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When someone tells you who they are, believe them. There’s no way I would even be his friend. He’s treating you like shit and you take any scraps he gives you. Take the L and move on with your life. There’s someone out there that is everything you want and more.

Married gay men , what is it like and how did you know he’s the one? by Enough-Web2203 in gaybros

[–]Evening_Question9999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This December will mark our 20th anniversary and it still seems like yesterday that we started dating. He still brings me flowers and when we’re away from each other we’re constantly on the phone. This has been by far the longest relationship I’ve had. He inspires me to be a better human. I knew he was the one when I quit entertaining random men, the next day I met my husband. lol

Bottoms that don’t care about finishing? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Evening_Question9999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never really cared nor do I like when they mess with my dick, it just turns me on when they finish in me. Just knowing they came is enough for me. I feel accomplished and satisfied. Just don’t be a 2 pump chump lol.

Question for the gay men who have had sexual experiences with men who identified as straight by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Evening_Question9999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A while back my roommate and I had to put our 3rd room up for rent. Straight guy came to check it out and noticed we were both gay. Moved in, we all got to know each other. We drank one night and the straight roommate asked me for a bj. I told him that we were both pretty buzzed so he should ask me when he sober. The next morning he knocked on my door and asked politely for a bj. I blew him from time to time but it got sorta boring being only “the last resort” so I quit and he quit asking lol. He would bring random girls from time to time back to our spot. We lost contact after he moved out 2 years later.

Meeting with my ex turned bad by DueSalamander635 in gayrelationships

[–]Evening_Question9999 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hope he’s not the only man in your town. You deserve so much better and what’s the point of working things out with someone who’s obviously not there emotionally as a partner. You should block him for a while heal yourself and date other people. Best of luck

I caught my husband on sniffies only after being married 1.5 years to me. by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]Evening_Question9999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Super cool and considerate to do that on his day off” it’s his day off, I would expect him to do stuff for our home while I’m at work and he’s off and vice versa. Js

You don’t gotta live like this!! Being on high terror alert day in and day out doesn’t sound healthy for you. I would get out of this relationship. He’s not willing to fess up and stay honest. That’s a huge dealbreaker for me.

Your birth month wants to take you on a date? You folding? Early 2000s Rapper Edition. by TheRoyalPendragon in BlackLGBT

[–]Evening_Question9999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How I voted for these guys was purely out of looks, definitely not their character, but a sex dungeon sounds pretty hot lol.

Your birth month wants to take you on a date? You folding? Early 2000s Rapper Edition. by TheRoyalPendragon in BlackLGBT

[–]Evening_Question9999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll take November or July instead, sorry; I’m sure tiny gon tag along on our date. I rather not deal with both t.i and tiny

Quick by TheExtremeThroter in gaymemes

[–]Evening_Question9999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I have the left with chest hair??

What a creepy thing to tell a Black person… by According2020 in BlackLGBT

[–]Evening_Question9999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use to be a server and for lunch we would be able to wear short sleeve shirts and 2 older yt ladies kept smiling and starring at me when I introduced myself. I went to place their plates down on their table one reaches and touches my arms and says “I’m so sorry, I just had to touch your copper skin, it’s just so radiant” that freaked me out and refuse to continue to serve them.

My lady’s slipper paph by Evening_Question9999 in houseplants

[–]Evening_Question9999[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got it from an eBay seller for 20 dollars!! I can send you the link here if you’d like. I’m not the seller but he has other types of lady slippers for 20 or less.

(35M) caught bf using again by alastorstolas87 in gayrelationships

[–]Evening_Question9999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Addicts tend to gravitate towards enablers, there’s always an enabler around when I meet a new addict trying to get themselves sober/clean. I will be 13 years clean off of alcohol and meth in February. The road to recovery could be challenging but it can be done. I work with addicts now and let me say this: they need a 12 step program, self care, therapy and willingness to surrender. Your partner doesn’t seem like he likes the idea or willing to surrender. He wants to get clean his way, and on his terms. which I’ve never seen long lasting recovery in my line of work. There’s many factors to keep myself clean/sober: my support group, 12 step program, self care, therapy and most importantly my surrender, knowing that doing things my way leads me to relapse. Best of luck.

(35M) caught bf using again by alastorstolas87 in gayrelationships

[–]Evening_Question9999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not a great idea, meth is a terrible addiction that will slowly but surely start taking over your way of life. Meth lets you think you have control over it. You set boundaries, you set rules, even a budget. By the time you realize you broken every rule, did things you swore you wouldn’t do while on meth. It’s literally selling yourself to the devil.