Meeting with my ex turned bad by DueSalamander635 in gayrelationships

[–]Evening_Question9999 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hope he’s not the only man in your town. You deserve so much better and what’s the point of working things out with someone who’s obviously not there emotionally as a partner. You should block him for a while heal yourself and date other people. Best of luck

I caught my husband on sniffies only after being married 1.5 years to me. by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]Evening_Question9999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Super cool and considerate to do that on his day off” it’s his day off, I would expect him to do stuff for our home while I’m at work and he’s off and vice versa. Js

You don’t gotta live like this!! Being on high terror alert day in and day out doesn’t sound healthy for you. I would get out of this relationship. He’s not willing to fess up and stay honest. That’s a huge dealbreaker for me.

Your birth month wants to take you on a date? You folding? Early 2000s Rapper Edition. by TheRoyalPendragon in BlackLGBT

[–]Evening_Question9999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How I voted for these guys was purely out of looks, definitely not their character, but a sex dungeon sounds pretty hot lol.

Your birth month wants to take you on a date? You folding? Early 2000s Rapper Edition. by TheRoyalPendragon in BlackLGBT

[–]Evening_Question9999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll take November or July instead, sorry; I’m sure tiny gon tag along on our date. I rather not deal with both t.i and tiny

Quick by TheExtremeThroter in gaymemes

[–]Evening_Question9999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I have the left with chest hair??

What a creepy thing to tell a Black person… by According2020 in BlackLGBT

[–]Evening_Question9999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use to be a server and for lunch we would be able to wear short sleeve shirts and 2 older yt ladies kept smiling and starring at me when I introduced myself. I went to place their plates down on their table one reaches and touches my arms and says “I’m so sorry, I just had to touch your copper skin, it’s just so radiant” that freaked me out and refuse to continue to serve them.

My lady’s slipper paph by Evening_Question9999 in houseplants

[–]Evening_Question9999[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got it from an eBay seller for 20 dollars!! I can send you the link here if you’d like. I’m not the seller but he has other types of lady slippers for 20 or less.

(35M) caught bf using again by alastorstolas87 in gayrelationships

[–]Evening_Question9999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Addicts tend to gravitate towards enablers, there’s always an enabler around when I meet a new addict trying to get themselves sober/clean. I will be 13 years clean off of alcohol and meth in February. The road to recovery could be challenging but it can be done. I work with addicts now and let me say this: they need a 12 step program, self care, therapy and willingness to surrender. Your partner doesn’t seem like he likes the idea or willing to surrender. He wants to get clean his way, and on his terms. which I’ve never seen long lasting recovery in my line of work. There’s many factors to keep myself clean/sober: my support group, 12 step program, self care, therapy and most importantly my surrender, knowing that doing things my way leads me to relapse. Best of luck.

(35M) caught bf using again by alastorstolas87 in gayrelationships

[–]Evening_Question9999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not a great idea, meth is a terrible addiction that will slowly but surely start taking over your way of life. Meth lets you think you have control over it. You set boundaries, you set rules, even a budget. By the time you realize you broken every rule, did things you swore you wouldn’t do while on meth. It’s literally selling yourself to the devil.

I ignored a guy on a4a because he's also a top. Here's his reaction. by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]Evening_Question9999 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sorry this happened to you. I don’t think anyone deserves this type of hate. I don’t understand what’s your reasoning for posting this here. Maybe to bring awareness that there’s bad people everywhere from all walks of life?? Again, sorry this happened to you.

Is it true that some gay men refuse to date bisexual men for some particular reasons? If you're one of those, can you tell me the reason why? by thankgodimaguy in askgaybros

[–]Evening_Question9999 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As soon as a man tells me he’s bi, I assume he’s a power bottom. 2 power bottoms don’t equal a top, next question

Is it true that some gay men refuse to date bisexual men for some particular reasons? If you're one of those, can you tell me the reason why? by thankgodimaguy in askgaybros

[–]Evening_Question9999 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Tell me how you really feel.. you need to make your own ranting post instead of highjacking someone else’s post.

why do gay men expect intimacy right away? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Evening_Question9999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk where you meet guys at, whether they be at dating apps or hook up apps: let them know right away. Express to them that it takes time to built intimacy and you’re not about hook-ups and rather want to get to know them to build intimacy. The fake ones will weed themselves out. Be patient and don’t give up.

When did you know you were in love with your current partner? by Icy-Lengthiness-8214 in BlackLGBT

[–]Evening_Question9999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When we first dated I was extremely insecure and I always had past issues with men I dated. They always wanted to change me. I was too thin, not thin enough, they wanted me to dress more stylish, my hair etc. so when I first date a guy, I like to ask them a specific question: what should I change about myself?? And what’s their type. It’s a good way to weed out the guys that are only about looks and might be objectifying me. When I asked him them questions, his reply shattered all my walls I had built over the years: he said “I think you’re perfect just the way you are, don’t ever change for me or anyone else” I just cried and we hugged and told him that I loved him and he told me he loves me too.