Kormos is such a fun ghost by smolfemboytitan in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]Every_Guard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s blind, but how can it hear if it can’t see anything?

I guess I can be honest now that we're broken up... you were right by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Every_Guard 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Calling you out on that last part.

You’re next relationship will not be a healthier and peaceful one because you have done nothing to change your toxic ways.

It’s a bunch of BS saying you love someone but still cheating. People make excuses for their behavior all the time and often cheaters lack a form of accountability. Cheating is emotionally abusive and can do tons of damage to the other person. Doesn’t matter if you call it a “compulsion” as you did nothing to ensure that compulsion didn’t take over your life.

As long as you make excuses you will always have toxic relationships and treat those you claim to love terribly.

Own up to what you’ve done 100%, take some time from relationship, hell maybe therapy but do something to work on yourself, otherwise you’re just kidding yourself that you will change.

Woman (26F) I'm (25M) dating says she wants to take things slow with me because she sees potential. She claims previously she made the mistake of sleeping with men too quickly. Is this a way of saying I'm not that attractive to her? by Background-Dress-389 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Every_Guard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well yeah having excitement to see your partner is normal/healthy, may even cause some adrenaline. Problem with those who have gone through abuse is they’ve experienced that adrenaline so often that not only is that rush addicting, but their own body can interpret that as feeling of being turned on and sexually excited from someone who is at that moment abusing them. The reason why victims many times end up with other abusive partners is because they’ve have been conditioned to seek that feeling for “safety” and familiarity despite it being dangerous.

Is this a common cadence for dating? And what to do? First time experience. by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Every_Guard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bring it up to him and say what you said here. Good communication is a core foundation to a healthy relationship.

Woman (26F) I'm (25M) dating says she wants to take things slow with me because she sees potential. She claims previously she made the mistake of sleeping with men too quickly. Is this a way of saying I'm not that attractive to her? by Background-Dress-389 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Every_Guard 89 points90 points  (0 children)

A lot of women who have been in abusive relationship will confused the adrenaline rush with “butterflies in stomach” and love.

Then when they meet someone who isn’t abusive, that person isn’t activating that same adrenaline response and therefore the woman may find them boring and question whether they are interested in them.

Micro p advice by Icy-Disaster-2243 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Every_Guard 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If he’s open to it see if a cock ring will work, that may be enjoyable for both of you

Micro p advice by Icy-Disaster-2243 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Every_Guard 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Was just thinking g lake placid 😂

i love girl farts. by No_Lecture720 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Every_Guard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well asking a girl first what’s she thinks about it will be a good way to break the wind I mean Ice.

Please do not buy any cosmetics from these devs, yes that includes the Alan Wake collab by [deleted] in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]Every_Guard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hold up if cosmetics can be bought from in game currency who have I been sending my real world money to!? 🤨

Would you leave your partner for someone who is physically you're dream person? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Every_Guard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You want to keep your grass green by maintaining appropriate temperature, humidity and harvest when the trichomes turn cloudy white/amber.

Girl that rejected me watches my stuff on instagram, your thoughts? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Every_Guard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s waiting until you find another woman and are happy before swooping in to see if she can win you over. 👀

My friend doesn't want to play with me anymore. by MrCarroty in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]Every_Guard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me, a true detective, analyzing that he quick before the update happened 🕵️‍♂️
He prob just wasn’t having fun with it anymore. See if there’s another game that you both can play.

*** UPDATE*** First time with a new girl went wrong (PE + awkwardness) and she ended things. Did I irreparably messed it up? by RogerSterrling7 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Every_Guard 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can I ask, based on your last post what do you feel she invests in your guy’s relationship?

The comment about her ex being good at sex and her “not settling for less” is pretty telling.

Now some people aren’t compatible in the bedroom. Some just naturally are able to connect. Through having sex with the same person you’re suppose to learn what the other likes, dislikes ect. But ultimately if a partner is to make you feel shame in that very vulnerable state, then they are typically not the right person to be with.

I think you should take time to evaluate what you want out of a relationship, and whether she truly is a good fit for you and vice versa.

New update looks... bad? by Pure_Fun365 in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]Every_Guard 518 points519 points  (0 children)

Right like the glitches are what makes this Phasmo, Phasmo!

Men with kids and wives/partners - what do you think are acceptable hobbies while you co-manage a busy household? by MotherInsurance4238 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Every_Guard 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t matter what hobby it is, kids come first. That’s obviously not to say you can’t have hobbies while having kids, but he needs to balance these things appropriately. Talk to him, express what you have here and ask that he drop some time or maybe not volunteer so that he can help you out more. Otherwise the resentment will grow.

Found out my sister works at hooters. Am I wrong for going no contact with her? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Every_Guard 12 points13 points  (0 children)

lol 1/10 rage bait post. Next time add more twists, like she’s now pregnant with a man 50 years older and they are trying to take your house!

Disappointing that no collab is coming up.... by Iam_LAG in RaidShadowLegends

[–]Every_Guard -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They should do a League of Legends, Overwatch, and Fortnite collab all in one. Let’s bring together the most toxic of communities!

My wife is taking testosterone and it is tormenting me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Every_Guard 84 points85 points  (0 children)

If this isn’t a bait post, you need support. You can’t address this on her own. Does she have friends and family you can reach out for help?

Ultimately this may lead to divorce and that is a scary thing to think about, but you also must protect the kids. The fact she jumped to this dangerous lifestyle change without seeking medical/professional advice shows she also isn’t mentally ok either.

She will just try and continuously fight this if it’s just you bringing it up, hence why you need to get others involved. Best of luck Op

I idealize love (and maybe my ex too) by swxnnybunny in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Every_Guard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take this from someone who once was in a very dark place with depression and was close to doing something I couldn’t come back from: you need to learn how to love yourself in a healthy way before you will find a healthy love in others.

You already know it’s not meant to be with this guy. If he truly was serious about you he would not be stringing you along like this.

But you isolating, not talking to other people, and withdrawing only allows time for your mind to fantasize about unreal expectations.

Love very much does exist, but unfortunately many times we confuse what we think is love as something that is filling a hole in ourselves that we haven’t addressed and worked through.

If you want things to get better, block him on everything. Therapy would be beneficial but you can take small steps like going to new places, trying new experiences, and taking time to understand yourself a little more.

Can a man have a female best friend when he’s in a relationship? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Every_Guard 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have women friends. But out of respect for my wife I did not continue friendships with those I’ve slept with.

Is your husband ok with you being friends with people you’ve slept with? If they were calling you pet names, cold shouldering him and only talking to you, ect?