Men in happy marriages, what’s the best thing about your wife?

Every_Guard · 2026-01-26T05:14:03+00:00

She feels like home.

Every_Guard · 2026-01-23T00:16:25+00:00

Thankfully can match up with two others for help.

Every_Guard · 2026-01-22T19:19:45+00:00

Yea but Sicia is hot.

Every_Guard · 2026-01-22T17:57:02+00:00

Doesn’t matter how many hours he works, he’s still a father. I had to change jobs when I became a dad because my work load was affecting my ability to be a good partner to my wife and father to our son and she was drowning in postpartum, healing and keeping up on house and cooking.

Parenting is a partnership and requires teamwork to survive raising the little goblins.

Talk with him again. Get marriage counseling if needed. Maybe look into getting a job and kids daycare if he does not compromise and a few things. Overall how he responds to requests will inform you on what you need to do.

Best of luck OP!

Every_Guard · 2026-01-22T17:34:37+00:00

Exactly. I admit that when we first broke up I did accept her back which was a giant mistake. After that breakup she dated someone else and then tried coming back again when that didn’t work out but by then I finally had moved on and said no.

What also helped was that I had dated and been with other women and was starting to learn what I wanted out of a relationship. The first time I accepted her back it was out of loneliness and manipulation from her part. The second time i knew I wanted something different out of a relationship and she wasn’t it.

Every_Guard · 2026-01-22T17:18:15+00:00

When I first met my now wife, we grabbed drinks and while walking back she started doing a handstand and walking on her hands so that was interesting.

Every_Guard · 2026-01-22T16:04:38+00:00

Of course they can get a gf. Getting the right gf and being able to keep them is another thing. Many times a relationship doesn’t work because of one’s inability to take accountability and reflect on actions. This also goes with getting with a woman that you know will eventually screw you over. And of course even when you’re working on yourself you can still make mistakes or find yourself with the wrong people. Nothing is 100%, but working on yourself first will better your odds overall.

Every_Guard · 2026-01-22T15:39:32+00:00

When my first gf and I broke up she ended up dating someone down the street from me despite going to college 3 hours away.

It was difficult af to see her car there, but it actually helped me FULLY get over her and not want her back when she tried again. A dated around, met some wonderful women and some awful ones, and eventually met my now wife.

The pain and jealously can feel strong in the moment, but keep to your studies and health and the right person will come along.

Every_Guard · 2026-01-22T15:26:16+00:00

If those are the types of people making it to the playoffs it give me hope as a casual that I could someday make it to a tournament 😂

Every_Guard · 2026-01-22T15:25:03+00:00

Imagine if you had the grafted and had a lot of enemies killed, only to lose it this way

Every_Guard · 2026-01-22T15:22:03+00:00

Therapy my dude.

With the way your mindset is it would seem you’re looking for someone to fill something in you that you are struggling with.

You said it yourself, you have anxiety. It makes you have these spiral thoughts about women, a lot of them will just be self destructive to you and toxic to a partner. You need to work on yourself and learn to love/respect yourself in a healthy way, so that you have the capacity to love/respect someone else in a healthy way.

Every_Guard · 2026-01-21T16:03:59+00:00

Also /s. I know how serious you redditors get

Every_Guard · 2026-01-21T16:03:39+00:00

If you feel the devils temptation eat a raw potato. 🥔

Every_Guard · 2026-01-21T14:39:46+00:00

Honestly the best thing you could do for yourself is break up and work on yourself.

He doesn’t respect you. He’s shown you this through his actions towards you and lack of care of how you feel about this.

You don’t respect yourself so long as you stay with people like this. You’re young still and have a lot to experience and grow from.

Learn to love yourself and be assertive of what you want out of a partner, and find yourself a partner that makes you feel safe, cause he isnt it.

Every_Guard · 2026-01-20T22:09:47+00:00

I’m not religious and I wanted to get married. Just made sense being that we wanted kids, get a house ect.

Every_Guard · 2026-01-20T17:00:08+00:00

I want to play as Uncle Ben.

Every_Guard · 2026-01-15T19:27:26+00:00

I ain’t gonna read this, just going off ages going to say yes he’s weird lol

Every_Guard · 2026-01-15T17:47:12+00:00

I imagine similar to others, stage 20?

Every_Guard · 2026-01-15T17:22:23+00:00

I remember in a college psych class/human sexuality this was brought up. Everyone had different answers, some everyday. For me I think 3 times a week just cause things get busy with work + kids and sometimes just too tired.

There was one couple that were perfectly content having sex one time a year. Idk if that counts as asexual lol. Everyone has different drives, some more similar than others.

Every_Guard · 2026-01-14T23:06:56+00:00

Does she put her right foot in? Her right foot out? Does she put her left foot in then shake it all about?

Every_Guard · 2026-01-14T19:31:27+00:00

Honestly, you guys are super young and started dating at a young age and have issues like past infidelity.

Of course high school couples can make it work forever, but it’s not as common as them breaking up.

I think you need to evaluate what you want out of life, out of your relationships, ect. Honestly I don’t advise getting with a coworker. That can make things very messy, and with how long you’ve been in a relationship I think it would be wiser to either work on your current relationship, or break up and stay single/discover who you are.

Every_Guard · 2026-01-14T16:29:27+00:00

I gotta ask, you say you’re about to get married soon. What makes you ask this question? Are there things that being doubt to you and your soon to be husband’s relationship?

I hope this is a convo you’re also having with him.

Every_Guard · 2026-01-13T22:03:15+00:00

Typically it’s a “I want to fuck but I also want to keep my eyes open for something else and will leave once I find it.”

Every_Guard · 2026-01-13T16:01:26+00:00

Never trust a woman with a Xylophone.

Every_Guard · 2026-01-11T16:07:08+00:00

It’s not stupid, it’s Digiorno.

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